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First Thing U Did After A Major Break-up?


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  • 1 month later...

umiyak nang umiyak until gumaan ang loob...

 

Healthy naman talaga pag-iyak kahit sa lalake. Don't even get started with "ang tunay na lalake di umiiyak", thats a lot of bullcrap. Kung hardcore MMA fighters nga umiiyak pag natatalo. Si Rocky at si Rambo umiiyak din naman sila. Mas maganda na linisin mo sugat mo talaga ng mga luha at ubusin mo yan.

 

Yun din ginawa ko, umiyak ako ng umiyak ng umiyak. Hangang sa tapang at galit na lang natira.

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Unang una, self-destruct mode muna. Naglasing ng sobra at panay iyak din.

 

Pero ok lang naman yan, kasi winasak ko yung dating ako at tinayo ko yung bagong ako na mas mahal ko na ngayon at di ko na basta basta ipagkakatiwala kung kani-kano lang. Mas natutunan ko mahalin yung sarili ko at maapreciate sarili kong value sa process na ito. Hindi naman ito pagiging narcissistic. Pero yun ang kelangan eh, mahalin ko sarili ko.

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  • 2 weeks later...

tiningnan ko phone ko tas isa isa kong binura lahat ng messages niya, then natulog, pagkagising meditate sandali tapos i kept myself busy, this was my routine for about 1/2 year.

 

 

 

2 years after the break-up gusto niya akong balikan, bakit kamo? Naging investor ako at graduating na din, this time ako na ang umayaw alam ko namang iba ang pakay niya.

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  • 1 month later...

Panay inom at kain ng junkfood. Grabe, I have been through so many breakups before but that one was the worst thing I had to go through. Ilang buwan ako noong lasing gabi gabi. Minsan nga wala pang maayos na kain. Ang hirap pala talaga pag mahal mo ng ganun.

 

Then..... There was work. It saved my life. Kasi nung mga panahon na iyon, mababa sobra self-esteem ko eh. Pero work gave me a sense of self-worth. Luckily I received some sort of promotion and it kept me busy

 

Then out of an advice ng isang kaibigan, I sought professional counseling which really helped me to learn how to embrace my pain and to turn something negative into positive

 

Then I started adapting a 5x a week training routine. It became my rehab. Instead of me sitting my ass home drowning in whiskey, I was either in the gym or out there running 1-2 hours.

 

As my body changed, my outlook also changed. I started changing the look of my apartment, got rid of our mementos, and started changing my routine into a more disciplined one.

 

Then I started going out again and socializing.

 

OO inaamin ko masakit pa din paminsan minsan, pinagkaiba lang siguro ngayon I can use the pain to do something productive with my life. Nagpapasalamat ako na kahit papano pwede naman ako magumpisa pa ulit. Wala pa naman akong anak sa pagkabinata, o naging asawa. I still have my health, and my work. So I try to be positive na lang and thankful na kahit papano pwede ulit ako magumpisa

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Can't remember. that was 2 years ago.

Tsaka halos lahat ng relationships ko ako nakikipag break up.

Mahirap magtiwala sa taong hindi mo alam eh binuntis na ng iba. tapos ikaw pa ituturo na ama.
At the same time, hindi ka pala talaga mahal kundi ang bulsa mo lang.

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