Divorce In The Philippines

[SaintPeter5858]

Just an added problem to the society

[sklardrog]

I agree with legalizing Divorce in the country. People make mistakes all the time and sometimes the mistake is made with picking the person to marry. Everyone deserves another chance at happiness.

Edited September 6, 2012 by sklardrog

[noobonline]

Yes and hell f#&king yes. Andaming nagtitiis sa bad marriage dahil wala tayong divorce. Di ko rin magets bakit kelangan against sa divorce yung iba, eh voluntary naman yun. Pakelam ba kung gusto nila maghiwalay eh sa hindi na sila masaya.

[TheRedHood]

Pabor ako sa legal divorce kesa mauwi lang sa masamang kahahantungan (may mabugbog, worst may mapatay), mas mabuti pang mag-hiwalay na lang. Just my two cents though

[BornAtNight]

Yes to "no to divorce"

 

Marriage shouldn't be trial and error.

 

We are a Christian country. Christ forbids it.

 

If the relationship is one of a hell, get out thru a legal annulment.

 

File a case, if lawyers cannot help you, go to church seek God's advice., undergo seminars focusing and giving positive advices for couple struggling on their marriages. Seek help for people whose marriages are fixed , not to those who will add salt to the wound.

 

It is a covenant and a contract. Let your yes be yes and no be no. No double minded when facing the altar.

Edited November 30, 2012 by BornAtNight

[friendly0603]

definitely not. It destroys the essence of marriage

What is the essence?

 

 

Yes to "no to divorce"

 

Marriage shouldn't be trial and error.

 

We are a Christian country. Christ forbids it.

If the relationship is one of a hell, get out thru a legal annulment.

 

File a case, if lawyers cannot help you, go to church seek God's advice., undergo seminars focusing and giving positive advices for couple struggling on their marriages. Seek help for people whose marriages are fixed , not to those who will add salt to the wound.

 

It is a covenant and a contract. Let your yes be yes and no be no. No double minded when facing the altar.

I'm sure Christ forbids a lot of what happens in MTC too

Not everyone is Christian and not everyone goes to the altar.

 

Why are you ok with annulment and not divorce? Both of them rescind marriage.

Edited December 1, 2012 by friendly0603

[NightWriter]

When people put Nationalism for Divorce, they are hypocrites. How many poor women suffering in bad marriages end up committing suicide because their husbands beats the crap out of them? These women cannot afford an Annullment because its costs at 160 thousand to 200 thousand pesos. This is not about Nationalism, this is a social stigma. Usually the filipinas pay for the annullment because these bastards they marry couldn't care less if they want it done or not.

 

Divorce is much better for the right reasons and it will be much faster than the anullment. Its not for everyone but it will save a lot of women's lives.

 

Nationalism, kiss my ass! if you are really interested in nationalism, why won't you participate with the people who are rallying for a lost cause on the streets, in front of the US Embassy.

 

Divorce is the solution.

[vinoepapas]

For me divorce is fine. If hindi naman na talagang magwork ng relationship at nasubukan na lahat ng paraan, eh kaylangan na yang ihinto para di kayo magkasakitan.

Unang una sa lahat,dapat kasi sigurado ka sa isang tao bago mo siya pakasalan

[vinoepapas]

I agree with legalizing Divorce in the country. People make mistakes all the time and sometimes the mistake is made with picking the person to marry. Everyone deserves another chance at happiness.

 

I agree with you. If di na talaga kayang magwork then you should stop your relationship.

[islekimp]

having seen what a anullment does to either party ( man or woman) it breaks families apart to build a better future because of this issue, it is true certain things do happen and divorces must come upon..... then again religion comes into play with mix of politics (example RH bill)..............

 

are marriages done all the time because of 2 people full known each other (bad and good things) > no

 

> should people be married for the good reason > yes

 

>should man or woman be given equal chance if a mistake is made ( very arguable ) >yes

[johnnydrama]

When people put Nationalism for Divorce, they are hypocrites. How many poor women suffering in bad marriages end up committing suicide because their husbands beats the crap out of them? These women cannot afford an Annullment because its costs at 160 thousand to 200 thousand pesos. This is not about Nationalism, this is a social stigma. Usually the filipinas pay for the annullment because these bastards they marry couldn't care less if they want it done or not.

 

Divorce is much better for the right reasons and it will be much faster than the anullment. Its not for everyone but it will save a lot of women's lives.

 

Nationalism, kiss my ass! if you are really interested in nationalism, why won't you participate with the people who are rallying for a lost cause on the streets, in front of the US Embassy.

 

Divorce is the solution.

 

Makes sense...you see so many Pinays married to foreign men, but not too many the other side around.

 

Apparently one disincentive for non-Pinay spouses in marrying Pinoys has to be the lack of divorce provision in our law which I consider downright stupid. Now where does nationalism enter into the equation - so that we have bragging rights to be the only civilised nation without a divorce law? Of course, divorce isn't supposed to be a fast-break solution to the ongoing phenomenon of dysfunctional marriages happening for some reason or another - that is why the provision of alimony exists - but it also acknowledges human fallibility and its role in marital discord.

 

Under present Philippine society, married couples are expected to attain divine levels of perfection in order to match that ideal set to them by their Creator

[NightWriter]

Makes sense...you see so many Pinays married to foreign men, but not too many the other side around.

 

Apparently one disincentive for non-Pinay spouses in marrying Pinoys has to be the lack of divorce provision in our law which I consider downright stupid. Now where does nationalism enter into the equation - so that we have bragging rights to be the only civilised nation without a divorce law? Of course, divorce isn't supposed to be a fast-break solution to the ongoing phenomenon of dysfunctional marriages happening for some reason or another - that is why the provision of alimony exists - but it also acknowledges human fallibility and its role in marital discord.

 

Under present Philippine society, married couples are expected to attain divine levels of perfection in order to match that ideal set to them by their Creator

 

What people are not aware of is the statistics of the people who want their annullments in a month, hundreds! Perfection ,maybe, hypocrisy Yes.

[Fiz]

I agree and want divorce in our country, but RH bill no.

[Fiz]

Yes to "no to divorce"

 

Marriage shouldn't be trial and error.

 

We are a Christian country. Christ forbids it.

 

If the relationship is one of a hell, get out thru a legal annulment.

 

File a case, if lawyers cannot help you, go to church seek God's advice., undergo seminars focusing and giving positive advices for couple struggling on their marriages. Seek help for people whose marriages are fixed , not to those who will add salt to the wound.

 

It is a covenant and a contract. Let your yes be yes and no be no. No double minded when facing the altar.

 

Christ forbids? Actually Christ sanctioned it in for a certain situation - something that can be discussed by more knowledgeable people.

[one_hot_momma]

it's about time.....long overdue na nga eh.