Would You Indulge In A Secret Love Affair?

[Coolmeeee]

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[mynameisjefff]

Yes

[BrunoMars69]

Yes I would. There are many reasons men or women engage in secret love affairs. I know someone who did it once. Mahal nya asawa at mga anak nya. In fact, sobra nyang mahal ang asawa nya na gusto nya lagi itong pinaparamdam sa kanya. Pero it was not being reciprocated, and a lot of times was being turned down on private moments. They have children but still have a lot of time for themselves to make love. Pero walang nangyayari. Mahal naman daw sya ng asawa nya. Nakikita nya ito sa gawa and occassional verbal gestures. But they still have very rare action in bed. Sometimes once a month nalang. Or sometimes even more seldom. Itinigil nya ang love affair before due to conscience. Sinubukan nya intindihin ang asawa nya and ipagdasal ang sarili nya. Nagsurvive sya for more than a year, but now the empty space of being wanted, being romanced, or being pleased in bed is coming back. Kung sana nga daw wala nalang syang sex hormones para mawala na daw problema nya. What I learned from this is that, if you love your husband / wife keep him / her satisfied in all facets of his / her being that involves both of you. Para mawalan sya ng isang rason (dissatisfaction) to look for another. Most specially if your man / woman is a loyal one naman and just needs you to want, romance, or please him / her in bed.

[kaIansay]

yes same situation as mine.. although mahal nman daw ako ng asawa ko. ewan ko lang.. mahal ko din anak ko kaso nawala na pag mamahal ko sa asawa ko. hindi lang dahil di kame lagi nag sesex at madalas ireject nya ako. pati na rin ugali nya. di nakikinig sa akin pero ung mag hihiwalay na kme ay unti unti nyang binabago. kaso kapag nawala na tlaga pag mamahal mo sa isang tao ay mahirap ibalik. pero iniintindi ko na lang siya. gusto ko man magkaron ng affair sa iba kaso medyo naguiguilty at hiwalay magulang ko pati kapatid ko sa kanilang mga asawa..

 

gusto ko sana itama life ko kso parang tatanda na yata akong malungkot.. darating ang araw at yung anak namin ay mag kakapamilya at iiwanan din kme. di ko lam magiging life ko sa ka partner ko ngayon. i wish my nag advice skin noon

[narcprick]

sige pero i have no more love to give only f#&ks

[anjon2800]

Yes and a big yes

[tanaylwinn]

if there's a reason

[Edmund Dantes]

Secret love affairs are for irresponsible cowards who do not have the spine to get their s@%t together.

 

If for any reason your love affair has to be secret, then you should not be in it in the first place.

 

I admit I was once this irresponsible coward. But Ill never ever do something like that again. Ang hirap ng laging nagtatago at laging kelangan magalala

[jpresby]

why not

[king360]

Nope

[CardingTigas]

Sa umpisa masarap, halos lahat naman ng bawal masarap, pero darating yun time na sasabihin mo sa sarili mo, tama na...

 

Enjoy it while it last...

[IntroBert]

did it quite a few times, but had to cut all of them short... lahat e "hindi sinasadya"

[ladyboy]

no ayoko maging tanga

[Edmund Dantes]

did it quite a few times, but had to cut all of them short... lahat e "hindi sinasadya"

 

Ito ang convenient excuse naman lagi eh. Di sinasadya, kusa na lang dumarating. At kung pabalikbalik ka na lang sa ganitong klase ng relasyon at lagi natin ito gagamitin, isa lang ibig sabihin nyan. Hindi tayo nagtatanda at wala tayong maturity. Lahat naman tayo nakakagawa ng mali at pumapasok sa isang gusot dahil sa kapusukan, pero dapat natututo tayo.

 

Sabi ko nga, anyone could fall in love, but it takes intelligence and maturity to make a healthy relationship work. If for some reason you have to keep it secret, then its not worth having. Kasi ang relasyon dapat kaya mo paglaban at panindigan.

[xian fel]

yessss...