Edmund Dantes Posted April 13, 2014 Share Posted April 13, 2014 I had one, and with all my biases it was the happiest relationship I ever had. Even if compared to my previous relationship I didnt get to be with her everyday. And it wasn't even because of the sex or all that excitement. We were just in love, and when you are in love everything appears magical. We had our own little world and that was enough. But there are things you can conveniently ignore when you are that happy. Such as you are lying to people around you. People you care, people you can hurt. And of course problems would come along. I got to be more and more insecure because at the end of the day, no matter how you are assured that you are loved? You can't bend the truth that she is hiding you like a dirty little secret. And that you could never be prioritized, and she'd never fight for you because the risk on her part is just too great. And so, when it ended, it also became the worst emotional trauma I had to suffer. Wala naman akong pagsisisi or anything like that. I just wished lang when we were starting that I knew better. That we told each other to slow down. Na kung talagang gusto namin ito, gawin namin ng maayos at tama. Ayusin muna namin buhay namin, then saka namin paglaban nararamdaman namin. Wala eh, masyado kaming naging masaya at nagkamali ng akala na things will get fixed by themselves. Isa pang malaking natutunan ko, hindi ko minahal sarili ko ng tama sa relasyon na ito. OO masaya ako, pero hindi ibig sabihin nun mahal ko sarili ko. Kasi kung mahal ko ang sarili ko, hindi ako papayag na maging isang "maruming sikreto" lang ako sa buhay nya. Eto ako halos buong buhay ko ibigay ko sa kanya, at pinaglaban sya tapos ako itatago lang na parang chewing gum sa ilalim ng upuan nya? Kaya kahit na gaano kasakit, talagang nagdesisyon ako to leave it all in the past. All good and bad. And take this time to love myself again. Morale of my story I guess is that, if for some reason you have to keep your love affair a secret, then maybe you shouldn't have it. Kasi yan ang mga bagay sa buhay na dapat kaya mong panindigan at ipaglaban ng patayan kung alam mong tama. 3 Quote Link to comment
buchike Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 Dq rin lang alam un ang panget sa pag ibig kht mali itutuwid mapagbigyan lang ung narramdaman.. Quote Link to comment
Gits Posted April 14, 2014 Share Posted April 14, 2014 my answer would be "NO" having a secret affair with another person will just ruin your relationship. i don't want to engage into something that i will regret. ayaw kong magsisi sa huli. 1 Quote Link to comment
In• a• ragE Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Yes. To complete the missing ME Quote Link to comment
bigboytoy Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 No, fubu relationship is fine. I have one and only love, other than that others are just merely for mutual fun relationship without commitment. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted April 22, 2014 Share Posted April 22, 2014 Yes. To complete the missing ME Dapat po ikaw ang kukumpleto sa sarili mo. Hindi mo yan mahahanap sa iba. Sabi sakin ng isang kaibigan, other people are not supposed to complete you. They are merely there to compliment you. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 If she's worth it I would be willing to risk it. Eto din sinabi ko noon. They are always worth it long as you have feelings for them. But its not just about the person you love, you also have to consider other things. Like mga taong pwede nyo masaktan sa huli. Quote Link to comment
gamehunter Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 Not now, wala pang means... Quote Link to comment
norrinradd14 Posted April 23, 2014 Share Posted April 23, 2014 Affair involving the heart or love, No. Casual sex or good times, Yes. Quote Link to comment
whapakk Posted April 28, 2014 Share Posted April 28, 2014 Affair involving the heart or love, No. Casual sex or good times, Yes. Agree Quote Link to comment
kurokaze Posted July 26, 2014 Share Posted July 26, 2014 For anything amorous, no. It's something I'd rather be open to the public about. Quote Link to comment
lordbaal Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 Previously I thought I'd never..but it being that everyone seems to do it..even my wife..might as well join in the fun. hahaha Quote Link to comment
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