Where Are Your Ex's Now? Do They Still Affect You?

[sOin2you]

1st one - Married but we're not communicating anymore. No hard feelings though. We've talked about it and both agreed that it just wasn't meant to last.

 

2nd one - Married and we're friends in FB. We knew back then that it wasn't meant to last too.

 

3rd one - No communication, but I got some updates about him. He was granted a scholarship in some Western country. Happy for him coz he's doing real well. I just hope we'll have a good closure. He doesn't want to talk to me, I think.

 

4th one - This one I hope one day will come when we'll really get the chance to sit and talk. I know I've hurt him, but I don't wanna be a hypocrite and keep on pretending that I still love him when I don't anymore. It's been 9 years now. He's married, as my college friends have updated me, Last time I saw him was last year in one of our org's meeting. I was surprised to see him there since it was the first that he's attended it knowing I'd be there. And yeah, the crowd that time was teasing us, but we just smiled.

 

5th one - Finally I was over him! I don't experience palpitation anymore. Literally! Whenever I get reminded of stuff or places about us, my heart would start pounding and would start feeling like he was just somewhere around watching me. Not a paranoia. It was more like being attached to him that much. And yeah, I'm getting there. It was a long walk, but really getting there. Whew!

[LSP]

1st: Here in the PH with a new girl. He changes girlfriends faster than he changes clothes. Took me 5 years to get over him and now I'm happy to say that I'm finally done with him. He still sends me and my mum messages every once in a while, lalo na pag may occasion. Hindi nakakalimot bumati.

 

2nd: Here in the PH with a new girl too. Got over him faster than my first one haha. I guess all of the bad things that happened during our time together made the break easier.

[sexy_sabby]

not at all!

not interested about his whereabouts!

[staringatdsun]

Well when we broke up, she went back to her husband. I don't ask, it's such a slippery slope to hell.

[angel_aishteru]

probably he's with his new bitch

 

of course he does affect me, he's the father of my kids and everyday i am reminded of our past. much harder for me to move on...

 

but i do hope in time i can forget him.

[Bugatti Veyron]

Will never forget my first love. That was a lifetime ago. Still remember the first time I met her, the movies we watched, the things we did, the things we shared, the places we went to. We were together a little over a year. Took so many years to get over the hurt. I try not to think about it but unlike a hard drive that you can just re-format, that's just not possible with human memory.

 

Of course the passage of time has helped sooth the pain of that break-up. But I doubt if I will ever really forget those magical days which for me were the best times of my life.

 

She's married with kids now. We still greet each other on birthdays and Christmas.

 

Iba talaga ang first love.

[wEbStAr]

married.

[Fusarium_jimini]

MArried..still without kids..she and her husband (her officemate who I met when we were STILL together) has an events coordination company.

[alex808]

Will never forget my first love. That was a lifetime ago. Still remember the first time I met her, the movies we watched, the things we did, the things we shared, the places we went to. We were together a little over a year. Took so many years to get over the hurt. I try not to think about it but unlike a hard drive that you can just re-format, that's just not possible with human memory.

 

Of course the passage of time has helped sooth the pain of that break-up. But I doubt if I will ever really forget those magical days which for me were the best times of my life.

 

She's married with kids now. We still greet each other on birthdays and Christmas.

 

Iba talaga ang first love.

 

 

 

 

 

 

See? That's why the "Wala na yun, nakalimutan ko na siya... I dont think about her anymore..." lalong lalo na yung "wala na kong pakialam sa kanya..." are really just a big pile of hardcore crap! You' ll never forget your first love. I know I won't.

 

Anyway, my ex boyfriend bumped into my mom and sister at the mall. So, I found out he just got back from abroad, now has a kid and is separated.

[am168]

I only ever had 2 formal girlfriends

 

The first is still working for the same BPO as when I first got to know her years ago. She seems happy and we keep in touch.

 

The second is now a flight attendant based in the Middle East. But we used to be officemates in Makati. We're on friendly terms too.

 

They both don't affect me anymore, but it took me 2 years to get over the first one.

 

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Interestingly, it's those girls whom I've had "informal" relationships with that still affect me up to now.

[am168]

Oh that is interesting why? sounds strange.

I only ever had 2 formal girlfriends

 

The first is still working for the same BPO as when I first got to know her years ago. She seems happy and we keep in touch.

 

The second is now a flight attendant based in the Middle East. But we used to be officemates in Makati. We're on friendly terms too.

 

They both don't affect me anymore, but it took me 2 years to get over the first one.

 

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Interestingly, it's those girls whom I've had "informal" relationships with that still affect me up to now.

[slacky]

My exes are happily married and doing better than me. Happy for them.

[Mr_man]

Most my exes are cheating on their partners - I'm glad I didn't marry any of them.

I'm happy and have been for a long time. Life goes on

[am168]

No nothing. i have no news from them and i dont care.

[sOin2you]

Whenever I try to cross the bridge to recovery, something that will remind me of us would suddenly appear. And it gets me to have second thoughts of crossing to the other side.