Where Are Your Ex's Now? Do They Still Affect You?

[darkangelus]

With a new bf, I think. Hindi na ako affected. I can safely say, I have moved on.

[hanapNGgirl4hire]

expecting a child again for her new bf or partner after me. Obvious (although na-admit niya na sakn once) na ako ang naging sanhi kaya niya pinatulan ung guy and let him impregnate her dahil sa gusto daw niyang magka baby na ulit since wala sa possession niya ang kanyang mga anak sa una. It still affects me dahil kundi dahil sa akin, hindi niya un papatulan at magpapabuntis lalo na sa hirap ng buhay. Oh well...sabi ko nga noon, sana hindi pinayagan ng nasa itaas na matuloy ang pagkakaroon niya ulit ng baby. Ipinagsimba ko pa yun ah. Minsan lang ako maging super seryoso sa pagsisimba pero...wala eh. Di ako pinagbigyan sa hiling ko.

 

Oh well, minsan na nga lang magsimba...di pa ako napagbigyan. Di naman para sa akin ung pinagdadasal ko...sablay pa.

 

Sa ngayon... siguro 6 months na tiyan niya. Maybe...she love the child. At kinalimutan na lang din ako. Nagbago na siya. Sinadya? Ewan ko.

 

sana lang masaya na siya dun sa ugok na un. Well, yeah I admit sometimes nagbibitter-bitteran ako. Pero wala eh.

 

Guilty ako sa nangyari sa kanya. Well... ewan ko talaga. Minsan talaga, dpat tlgang tanggapin na lang ang itinuturo ng buhay sa atin.

 

Gusto ko siyang makita ulit. If ever...yayakapin at hahalikan ko pa din siya. Pero dpat may panyo ako.

 

Baka kasi di ko mapigilan ang mapaiyak if ever...

 

Hay... sna ipinadala ko na lang ang kwento ko ke Joe D' Mango.

[k1kz]

hmmmm last i heard she moved in with some weed junkie somewhere in sta ana sad to say left her folks and me for some weed junkie....NICE :/

[wastedsunshine]

I'm still friends with him in fb, i think he's still with his cosplaying career and no, he doesn't affect me anymore.

Edited September 24, 2012 by wastedsunshine

[Edmond_Dantes]

I only ever had 2 formal girlfriends

 

The first is still working for the same BPO as when I first got to know her years ago. She seems happy and we keep in touch.

 

The second is now a flight attendant based in the Middle East. But we used to be officemates in Makati. We're on friendly terms too.

 

They both don't affect me anymore, but it took me 2 years to get over the first one.

 

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Interestingly, it's those girls whom I've had "informal" relationships with that still affect me up to now.

[Dwinski]

Somewhere in the Middle East waiting for me to join her there. When I didn't came, she looked for my FB and requested to be my friend. When I refused and ignored her, she added more pictures in her newly created FB account knowing that I'll be looking at them. I surmise she is telling me "Hey Dude, still wanna make up with me??? It's already my last trip, if you don't jump in now, you'll soon be seeing me being "ridden" by someone else. Well? Good luck!!!"

[noobonline]

2 are already married.

the most recent is still single and my office mate.

[yaslyn]

first bf is married already and he's in Minnesota. He sent me an email last year.

 

ex fiance still calls and texts me.. naiirita na ako, I still care but I dont feel the same anymore.

 

the last one.. we chatted last august and that was it. Our common friend still says he still talk about me.. pero KIBER na lang. I'ved moved on.

[Little John]

She's working in a company based in the south.

it's her birthday today so I greeted her.

[ichiro_toshiyuki]

my ex of of six years.... married and has a daughter. she's still leasing a unit in our bldg. tried to ruin my life with all those lies she made about me but fortunately nobody believed her.

[Maesternam]

haven't been that updated with my ex during my college years. last thing i heard was she was together with one of her colleagues. still on speaking terms with the recent one. i try to be civil

Edited September 28, 2012 by Maesternam

[bmannn]

Australia, not really affected.

[Melch]

I'm looking for a girl who is lonely right now and want to find somebody to comfort with.

 

-NOTE: that I'm a great listener and adviser.

[Monolouge]

First Just Married

Second Still single (karma?)

 

Third Married

 

Fourth with me

[sOin2you]

1st one - Married but we're not communicating anymore. No hard feelings though. We've talked about it and both agreed that it just wasn't meant to last.

 

2nd one - Married and we're friends in FB. We knew back then that it wasn't meant to last too.

 

3rd one - No communication, but I got some updates about him. He was granted a scholarship in some Western country. Happy for him coz he's doing real well. I just hope we'll have a good closure. He doesn't want to talk to me, I think.

 

4th one - This one I hope one day will come when we'll really get the chance to sit and talk. I know I've hurt him, but I don't wanna be a hypocrite and keep on pretending that I still love him when I don't anymore. It's been 9 years now. He's married, as my college friends have updated me, Last time I saw him was last year in one of our org's meeting. I was surprised to see him there since it was the first that he's attended it knowing I'd be there. And yeah, the crowd that time was teasing us, but we just smiled.

 

5th one - Finally I was over him! I don't experience palpitation anymore. Literally! Whenever I get reminded of stuff or places about us, my heart would start pounding and would start feeling like he was just somewhere around watching me. Not a paranoia. It was more like being attached to him that much. And yeah, I'm getting there. It was a long walk, but really getting there. Whew!