Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

[travelmassage]

Hindi mo rin masasabi, kung nsa sitwasyon kna..bsta kung mahal mo go for it.

Exactly my quote when I was in the situation. "Whatever makes you happy, go for it"

 

She had a boyfriend that was mistreating her. On off, on off on off. She said she really didn't want to go back to him, but every time, her bf would find a way to convince her or force her to be back into the relationship.

 

I was giving the advices, I fell for her. I started courting her nung malabo na sila. When they got back, I still communicated with her, and still gave signs that I liked her.

 

She was my third girlfriend but the first GF that I courted.

 

At the end. I stopped communicating with her. I saw it was inappropriate and couldn't bear the thought that it was me who was putting her in a bad situation (entertaining me while she was still in a relationship with someone else). I let fate draw our lines together if we were truly meant to be.

 

After a year. In a crazy struck of luck. We were able to communicate again after she lost her fone and got locked out of friendster (sorry matanda na ako, wala pa FB nun).

 

Then I courted her formally. Met the family. Courted her over and over and over and over and over and over again.

Edited August 8, 2017 by travelmassage

[Oh Farrah!]

yes pag sobrang mahal mo talaga e kaso taken siya.. so bulagbulagan nalang

[JFK]

Hindi ah! Daming ibang babae dyan.

[boyangaz23000]

mahirap man aminin. nagmamahalan na kami at madalas nang may mangyari samin, kahit parehas kaming may asawa at anak. ganito pala talaga. mahirap na masarap at nakakatakot

[Lbkid15]

It depends, you'll never know..

[kalb030]

pwede!parang nakakachallenge.haha

[geloace]

Nah. Bro code pa rin tayo.

[jessetiu]

Never thought...it will happen

[mister.jae]

only if she's taken for granted... but if not, then as the song goes "mahirap magmahal ng syota ng iba".
because for whatever reason, she made a choice, and is invested in trying to make their relationship work.
so even if she like's you: her word, her oath, her bond, will automatically stop her from going further with you.
you'd only be hurting yourself in the process (she has to believe their relationship is going nowhere otherwise...).

but if the two of you were meant to be, then you'll eventually meet again, when your both single and available.

[🐷 PIG 🐷]

Definitely!

 

I would take her out of her misery!

[Geralt ⚔]

Yes! If the guy she's with is an a**hole!

[Trooper69]

Nah... Respect to the couples Relationship

[Robmeister]

If both have agreed and fell.. (you know what I am saying).

 

There is always a reason why a person will fall to another even if he / she is still with someone. So that reason is being built if there is something wrong with the relation. It's not her/his fault to fall for another individual.

 

On the other hand/scenario, If you really like the woman/man, you could still try. There is no harm in trying. If the 1st scenario happens. Again, there is something wrong sa relation nila. That is why nagkakaron ng affair with a 3rd party.

 

Again, it's not our fault to get involved with someone who's in a relation.

[Gelato]

Depends on your priority....

[Bowman36]

Yes! I know she's making a big mistake by being with him coz the right thing to do is be with me!