BornAtNight Posted January 9, 2011 Share Posted January 9, 2011 So at that age age do you really think she is reserving her virginity for marriage ? Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 (edited) So at that age age do you really think she is reserving her virginity for marriage ?maybe, maybe not? But chastity/purity is a virtue if you believe in that.If you saved it for that long, maybe you really want to reserve it? Each girl is different though. Edited January 10, 2011 by complicated8 Quote Link to comment
vulcanboy Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 Doesn't really matter. Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 maybe, maybe not? But chastity/purity is a virtue if you believe in that.If you saved it for that long, maybe you really want to reserve it? Each girl is different though. hmmm thanks Quote Link to comment
mikaelust Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 QUESTION lang guys, what if you have found out that your GF is still Virgin at the age of 27-30? Is a compliment for a guy or an insult for the girl? Survey lang I want to hear it from the guy's point of view definitely not an insult, depende sa tao. pwedeng marami syang ibang priorities kaya hindi nya napagtuunan ng atensyon yang aspect na yan.pero sa generation na mas malawak na ang pananaw ng tao, hindi na din masyadong issue ang virginity. kumbaga, hindi dapat maging basisng pagpili ng babae kung wala syang karanasan. may mga nakilala kong mas wild pa nga sa ibang non-virgins....that do other sexual stuff except penetrationto preserve yung virginity. so balewala din yung sinasabing purity as a virtue, kasi hymen lang naman ang intact kung tutuusin. although westerners ang tingin nila dun is insult kasi pwedeng wala namang nagtangka kaya virgin pa, sa tingin ko depende lang talaga yun sa babae. kung anong rason nya. so virgin or not, it doesnt realy matter Quote Link to comment
lohengrimtam Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 QUESTION lang guys, what if you have found out that your GF is still Virgin at the age of 27-30? Is a compliment for a guy or an insult for the girl? Survey lang I want to hear it from the guy's point of view compliment Quote Link to comment
vigilante Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Nothing actually, I'd be worried more if she was..... Something might be wrong with her or some such.... Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 definitely not an insult, depende sa tao. pwedeng marami syang ibang priorities kaya hindi nya napagtuunan ng atensyon yang aspect na yan.pero sa generation na mas malawak na ang pananaw ng tao, hindi na din masyadong issue ang virginity. kumbaga, hindi dapat maging basisng pagpili ng babae kung wala syang karanasan. may mga nakilala kong mas wild pa nga sa ibang non-virgins....that do other sexual stuff except penetrationto preserve yung virginity. so balewala din yung sinasabing purity as a virtue, kasi hymen lang naman ang intact kung tutuusin. although westerners ang tingin nila dun is insult kasi pwedeng wala namang nagtangka kaya virgin pa, sa tingin ko depende lang talaga yun sa babae. kung anong rason nya. so virgin or not, it doesnt realy matteruhmmm nice thanks, someone could relate to this compliment ic Nothing actually, I'd be worried more if she was..... Something might be wrong with her or some such.... could you elaborate such worries pls ? Quote Link to comment
nolz Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 (edited) QUESTION lang guys, what if you have found out that your GF is still Virgin at the age of 27-30? Is a compliment for a guy or an insult for the girl? Survey lang I want to hear it from the guy's point of view my wife was a virgin at 33, it's kinda hard to teach an old dog! Edited January 13, 2011 by nolz Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 my wife was a virgin at 33, it's kinda hard to teach an old dog! I hope hindi kayo ikinasal nung age 27 pa sya ... just to make the story clear hehehe Quote Link to comment
fire_breather Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 (edited) The issue of being a virgin or not a virgin does not and should not matter... If you love someone, take them for all they are and strive to build a happy and contented life together that is full of love, understanding, and genuine care for the well being of one another. Peace! Edited January 13, 2011 by fire_breather Quote Link to comment
vigilante Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 Well generally virgin women's reasons would be preservation for the man they marry... For me I'd be worried to much because of several things; 1. Sexual compatibility2. Probable sexual inhibitions of the girl3. Lastly if she is more than say 26 yrs of age and still a virgin.... (this is general thinking ok? a lot of women would be exceptions) she hasn't found one to give it to yet?... hmmmm could you elaborate such worries pls ? Quote Link to comment
Queen Darkeinjel Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 Here are questions which often bug me regarding a non-virgin GF: For the one that does talk about her past lovers and/or sex experiences, how honest/sincere do you think she is? Would you believe her when she says that you're the best lover she has had? And for the one that refuses to talk about her past: would you think it's because her previous lovers or that there was one previous lover that was a lot better than you? How sure are you that she's not fantasizing about her past lover(s) while making love to you? And for those who have a GF that's a single mom (obviously, she's not a virgin anymore), how can you say that she doesn't remember the father of her child/children most especially when you're making love? and the same questions are asked by women who have bfs who had experienced quite a bit in this aspect of their lives. ************* out of curiosity, if men feel hurt because of the fact that the GF is not a virgin and they also have a hard time accepting the past, then, has anyone ever thought of the fact that some ladies would feel the same? is it because of double standards that it is harder to accept women who had her eyes opened to sexuality long before you came into her life? and that it's easier to accept men who have the same experience, just because of the simple excuse, "they're men, it's natural"? i'm just really wondering... Quote Link to comment
Queen Darkeinjel Posted January 14, 2011 Share Posted January 14, 2011 definitely not an insult, depende sa tao. pwedeng marami syang ibang priorities kaya hindi nya napagtuunan ng atensyon yang aspect na yan.pero sa generation na mas malawak na ang pananaw ng tao, hindi na din masyadong issue ang virginity. kumbaga, hindi dapat maging basis ng pagpili ng babae kung wala syang karanasan. may mga nakilala kong mas wild pa nga sa ibang non-virgins....that do other sexual stuff except penetration to preserve yung virginity. so balewala din yung sinasabing purity as a virtue, kasi hymen lang naman ang intact kung tutuusin. although westerners ang tingin nila dun is insult kasi pwedeng wala namang nagtangka kaya virgin pa, sa tingin ko depende lang talaga yun sa babae. kung anong rason nya. so virgin or not, it doesnt realy matter very well said. virginity is often equated to purity, but kung hymen na lang ang intact, where's the virtue there? 1 Quote Link to comment
markus_cruzade Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 For me as a guy, it doesn't matter. When I was young and arrogant, I wanted to be the first person a girl will give her virginity with. But after years and I guess various experience, you'd focus more on the chemistry with the person. . How do you feel when you're together and when you're not. What you do intimately to each other besides sex and all. It boils down to the point that 'virginity' is just a small part of a person that will love . Quote Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.