GetBack Posted October 29, 2010 Share Posted October 29, 2010 (edited) What an effin' double standard. Hey, I've never heard this question before: What comes to mind when your BF is not a virgin? Edited October 29, 2010 by GetBack Quote Link to comment
omegared Posted October 29, 2010 Share Posted October 29, 2010 Here are questions which often bug me regarding a non-virgin GF: For the one that does talk about her past lovers and/or sex experiences, how honest/sincere do you think she is? Would you believe her when she says that you're the best lover she has had? If this bothers you too much, you need to find a new one. In a relationship, trust plays a big part. Mahirap pag maraming doubts, hindi healthy relationship, mauwi lang sa selos at away. And for the one that refuses to talk about her past: would you think it's because her previous lovers or that there was one previous lover that was a lot better than you? How sure are you that she's not fantasizing about her past lover(s) while making love to you? And for those who have a GF that's a single mom (obviously, she's not a virgin anymore), how can you say that she doesn't remember the father of her child/children most especially when you're making love? Quote Link to comment
superfunkibey Posted October 30, 2010 Share Posted October 30, 2010 (edited) Would probably be an issue if she was the "bisekleta ng bayan" or something like that, but otherwise don't care Edited October 30, 2010 by superfunkibey Quote Link to comment
jays0n Posted October 30, 2010 Share Posted October 30, 2010 nung nalaman ko medyo i had a hard time accepting it, eventually natanggap ko na rin. Quote Link to comment
night strider Posted November 6, 2010 Share Posted November 6, 2010 Nothing.. what's important is the present. What an effin' double standard. Hey, I've never heard this question before: What comes to mind when your BF is not a virgin? I agree completely. Quote Link to comment
jays0n Posted November 9, 2010 Share Posted November 9, 2010 What Comes To Mind When Your Gf Is Not A Virgin? --> "crap, baka hindi na nya maramdaman tong sakin" Quote Link to comment
blow_gobi Posted November 11, 2010 Share Posted November 11, 2010 Eto sabi niya sa akin when I was about to mount her but I was hesitating a bit (nagkabalikan kami noon after she briefly left for another): "Huwag mong ikumpara ang sarili mo sa kanya dahil hindi naman kita ikinukumpara sa kanya." Quote Link to comment
rom-san-jr Posted November 15, 2010 Share Posted November 15, 2010 okey lang kundi na sya cerfitied virgin, at least mas marunong na sya ngayon tho' mejo affected ego natin mga guys kapag may nauna sa atin Quote Link to comment
borjy Posted November 17, 2010 Share Posted November 17, 2010 not a big deal in my case... my gfs has been honest about it.. Quote Link to comment
robocapz Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 i don't mind. virginity is overrated, just because he hasn't have sex doen't make a woman pure. the character and chemistry is what matters for me Quote Link to comment
santynoh Posted January 9, 2011 Share Posted January 9, 2011 walang problema, hindi mo naman minamahal ang babae for her virginity. although, it's a privilege nothing beats a woman with great character. kung matalino at maganda jackpot na. Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted January 9, 2011 Share Posted January 9, 2011 QUESTION lang guys, what if you have found out that your GF is still Virgin at the age of 27-30? Is a compliment for a guy or an insult for the girl? Survey lang I want to hear it from the guy's point of view Quote Link to comment
raxxia Posted January 9, 2011 Share Posted January 9, 2011 @TPAM compliment pra sakin.. dahil cguro marami xang priority kea gnun... Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted January 9, 2011 Share Posted January 9, 2011 QUESTION lang guys, what if you have found out that your GF is still Virgin at the age of 27-30? Is a compliment for a guy or an insult for the girl? Survey lang I want to hear it from the guy's point of view No, it's not an insult. It's very rare to find a girl who reserves her virginity. If you are the guy, I think you have to be prepared to offer marriage for a girl like that. Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted January 9, 2011 Share Posted January 9, 2011 So at that age age do you really think she is reserving her virginity for marriage ? Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 (edited) So at that age age do you really think she is reserving her virginity for marriage ?maybe, maybe not? But chastity/purity is a virtue if you believe in that.If you saved it for that long, maybe you really want to reserve it? Each girl is different though. Edited January 10, 2011 by complicated8 Quote Link to comment
vulcanboy Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 Doesn't really matter. Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 maybe, maybe not? But chastity/purity is a virtue if you believe in that.If you saved it for that long, maybe you really want to reserve it? Each girl is different though. hmmm thanks Quote Link to comment
mikaelust Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 QUESTION lang guys, what if you have found out that your GF is still Virgin at the age of 27-30? Is a compliment for a guy or an insult for the girl? Survey lang I want to hear it from the guy's point of view definitely not an insult, depende sa tao. pwedeng marami syang ibang priorities kaya hindi nya napagtuunan ng atensyon yang aspect na yan.pero sa generation na mas malawak na ang pananaw ng tao, hindi na din masyadong issue ang virginity. kumbaga, hindi dapat maging basisng pagpili ng babae kung wala syang karanasan. may mga nakilala kong mas wild pa nga sa ibang non-virgins....that do other sexual stuff except penetrationto preserve yung virginity. so balewala din yung sinasabing purity as a virtue, kasi hymen lang naman ang intact kung tutuusin. although westerners ang tingin nila dun is insult kasi pwedeng wala namang nagtangka kaya virgin pa, sa tingin ko depende lang talaga yun sa babae. kung anong rason nya. so virgin or not, it doesnt realy matter Quote Link to comment
lohengrimtam Posted January 10, 2011 Share Posted January 10, 2011 QUESTION lang guys, what if you have found out that your GF is still Virgin at the age of 27-30? Is a compliment for a guy or an insult for the girl? Survey lang I want to hear it from the guy's point of view compliment Quote Link to comment
vigilante Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 Nothing actually, I'd be worried more if she was..... Something might be wrong with her or some such.... Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 definitely not an insult, depende sa tao. pwedeng marami syang ibang priorities kaya hindi nya napagtuunan ng atensyon yang aspect na yan.pero sa generation na mas malawak na ang pananaw ng tao, hindi na din masyadong issue ang virginity. kumbaga, hindi dapat maging basisng pagpili ng babae kung wala syang karanasan. may mga nakilala kong mas wild pa nga sa ibang non-virgins....that do other sexual stuff except penetrationto preserve yung virginity. so balewala din yung sinasabing purity as a virtue, kasi hymen lang naman ang intact kung tutuusin. although westerners ang tingin nila dun is insult kasi pwedeng wala namang nagtangka kaya virgin pa, sa tingin ko depende lang talaga yun sa babae. kung anong rason nya. so virgin or not, it doesnt realy matteruhmmm nice thanks, someone could relate to this compliment ic Nothing actually, I'd be worried more if she was..... Something might be wrong with her or some such.... could you elaborate such worries pls ? Quote Link to comment
nolz Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 (edited) QUESTION lang guys, what if you have found out that your GF is still Virgin at the age of 27-30? Is a compliment for a guy or an insult for the girl? Survey lang I want to hear it from the guy's point of view my wife was a virgin at 33, it's kinda hard to teach an old dog! Edited January 13, 2011 by nolz Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted January 13, 2011 Share Posted January 13, 2011 my wife was a virgin at 33, it's kinda hard to teach an old dog! I hope hindi kayo ikinasal nung age 27 pa sya ... just to make the story clear hehehe Quote Link to comment
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