Why Do Beautiful Women Fall For Ugly Men?

[RED2018]

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http://theduke.blog.com/2012/02/01/humanap-ka-ng-panget-the-%e2%80%98c%e2%80%99-factors/

Edited May 24, 2012 by artedpro

[GrandGM]

Because the ugly has lots of money?

 

 

I agree.

[chocoboy83]

I just remembered what Joey Marquez mentioned on his show during saturday afternoon. A woman falls for a man because of three qualities kahit di ka gwapo as long as you have this..security, maturity and sense of humor

[friendly0603]

Maybe because some women think that this guy is willing to marry them. I think women in general have this wedding day goal (short term). It's one day of your life. It doesn't define the rest of your life. It's actually the days after your wedding that is more important.

 

 

If they thought further into the future, maybe they would think about how their children would look like I see this sometimes with those who look for foreigners thinking that their offspring would be better than their combination. Of course it's hit and miss. But then I think you'll have better chances. Also how some short guys want to marry a taller girl so that their kids have a higher chance of becoming less vertically challenged instead of relying on their own genes.

Edited May 24, 2012 by friendly0603

[grayle]

Ugly guys tend to put it all out there, no veiled attempts at being cool. This serves them well both in the dating scene and in their careers. If you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain, what's gonna stop you from going for it right?

[kafu]

Because they are looking for something else other than looks.

[MrEpps]

^ Yep. Just goes to show it ain't all about the looks.

[yaslyn]

Because Looks is not everything..

 

mga immature lang yung tumitingin lang sa physical, maraming bagay ang dapat isa alang alang if you want a relationship with someone

[SweetSexyLOVER]

Compensating factor.

[SaintPeter5858]

Ever heard of chemistry?

 

You're right, maybe it's chemistry. they just belong together. There are plenty of cases like this in ayala alabang. Hot pretty chick holding hands with not-so-attractive fat dark guy. Hmmmm

[SweetSexyLOVER]

Pwede din because of some answered needs.

[RED2018]

Humanap Ka Ng Panget (The ‘C’ Factors)

 

Madalas ba kayong makakita sa mga malls, resorts, restos, at iba pang public places na mga love couples na kung saan ang girl ay drop-dead gorgeous, at ma-drop kayo na halos ma-dead sa kapangitan ng guy?

 

Why do some lovely women fall for unattractive men? Cars? Cash? And all other C’s you could think of,,,? But those are all just accessories… maybe just 20-30% of the equation…may be even zero/nil…The majority lies in the other immaterial C’s such as charm, charisma, character, care, cheers, and arguably the most attractive thing pretty ladies find in ‘ugly’ guys, confidence.

 

See, it takes a lot of confidence for an unattractive man to hook up with a pretty girl. You know the drill, I’m sure all of us guys have been there at least once wherein we shied away from the pretty ones, and it takes a lot of guts to step forward. An ordinary safe guy would maybe test the water initially, and would eventually turn cold feet. The thing is, with some ‘ugly’ guys who know they’re not Brad Pitt or Derek Ramsay, a lot of them know how to emphasize and project their other attributes and ‘attitude.’

 

In short, a confident man, whatever his appearance, knows how to be a man’s man, a take-charge, i-know-what-i-want, take-no-crap-from-no-woman kind of guy, and women know that this will last longer than most physical aspects. Of course it doesn’t hurt to have the goods, diba? Bonus na yung magandang lalake ka pa! Pero sa tagal ng paglipas ng panahon, non-factor na actually ang looks…

 

Let’s face it, looks account for a lot. That’s the first thing women see. It gives them the incentive or push to get to know men better and see his nice and not-so-nice traits. Fortunately, most women are smart enough to look through the facade and see men for what they truly are.

 

Looks can take you far, but only up to a certain point. When we start having our careers, looks isn’t the only factor that gets the girl. You still need the personality, the wit, the charm, and the skill to balance them all. A combination of thoughtfulness/kindness, charisma, and style are inevitable. The formula ‘though varies with each girl. The art is in determining how much of each to put in the mix.

 

Bottom line is, learn to play your cards right.

 

As the old saying goes” beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. If you get past the good hygiene and overall clean appearance, what women are really looking for is security and connection (another C). Security could mean a number of variables such financially, emotionally, spiritually, and physically. For the most part, most women want to be taken cared of and be treated like a women, better yet a queen. Actions speak louder than words and what a naked eye could see. The way in which the unattractive man treats and connects with his significant other in private and in public transcends any physical appearance.

 

At the end of the day, the wise woman picks the man who she knows will love her and accept her for what she is, warts and all. One who would also remain interesting enough to spend the rest of her life with. A man who would protect her and keep her safe from anything that life’s challenges may throw at them.

 

I remember a scene in the full-length animation movie “Who Framed Roger Rabbit?”, there was a scene where a character asks Jessica Rabbit what she saw in Roger Rabbit. And Jessica Rabbit says very sexily and throatily, “He makes me laugh”. That’s charm and cheers for you.

 

Men who have come to rely heavily on their looks tend to take much for granted. On the other hand, “ugly” men have one less hang-up to deal with. If they are keen on this, their focus shifts from appearance to substance…not just in relationships, but in other areas of their life. Good looks only trigger the primal instinct of women (it’s the first response, kaya nga primal eh) but then the evaluation begins and there rests the answer to the question of ‘gusto ko ba siyang makasama habang buhay?’. Eye candy is good, you can have a trophy BF or husband, question is, is it a trophy worth keeping?

 

Its all subjective what the mind chooses to see. Yung maganda at drop-dead gorgeous dati kasi gustong gusto mo, pero now ng makita mong nababawasan na ang ganda sa paglipas ng panahon, did her appearance change? Maybe, but your appreciation for her hasn’t – and it has been for the better. Kaya if you want to have a beautiful wife… simply fall in love with her everyday.

 

Real beauty is beyond the naked eye could see…

[SaintPeter5858]

Very few cases

[<Prince>]

bcoz they perceived that ugly men are much faithful than the handsome guyz.

[powpowbear]

i would say mostly because of personality of the guy. think about it - good looking guys rely on, well, their looks to attract a woman. whereas guys lacking in the good looks department has to make it up with their charm and personality.