Mr.Whiteguy

AFter little more then one year being married, I almost never think again about here past...so just give it time and (money?)

Hmmm good site. Interesting ang very informative ang topic kasi ako medyo na lilinya dito

Presently have a fling with an MPA..my first time, but I know I can handle it. Tama lahat ng ideas ninyo on how

to deal with such relationships. Una ko ngang na pansin sa GF ko, napaka defensive niya when it comes to the heart. Siguro

ayaw nya ring masaktan just in case it doesn't work out ( it normally doesn't). We get along well pero pati ako, I keep doubting this relationship kasi mabuti na yung ganon..pareho kaming ready. It's nice to see happy endings but if it does not work, at least I have enjoyed the other "happy ending".

Here in Belgium we have the same, beatifull lady's with a maganda day time job, married or boyfriend. Just buy a hauz...and for the extra money, at evening they are highly priced escorts.....to pay the loan of the hauz...

pwede hinde!

I remember an old joke...if u have the chance to date a midget girl...don't hesitate, kasi she is always at the right hight for the bj.....

Are you guys really in love. Or nauna awa then naging matinding pagmamalasakit na lang na napagkakamalang pag-ibig?

 

Cause you do know that somehow their life is so much better now because of they're with you. Pero kung iwanan nyo sila alam mong they'll go down that dark path again. Are you guys just having some messaic** tendencies?

The feeling that u describe here, is natural. If u are in love with a career girl, a sales lady,...a whatever lady...You will feel as here savior. That is just a part of being in love I guess. Because every personne, woman or man needs somebody who they can feel save(d) by.

My gf, now wife...she saved me....from being the selfish, no time european cano. She saved me and helped me in turning into a 50/50 euro-pinoy guy who takes time to look at the smaller and more important things in life...

And I now that our relationship had to concour many obstacle's in the beginning. (kasi jealous ako!)

Just because it kills time...

drown myself with liquor to numb the pain

ako din. :evil:

We should change the thread to thug falling in love with an MPA.

 

He is the only one of the prominent persons whos active and eager to answer all inquiries.

I always experienced this thread not like an Q&A..but more for sharing experiences and feelings...

more like help when needed, not to read macho story's and reply's to other posts....

but that's only me ofcourse....

ingat ka.

:cry: geez... I never imagined that "there" are guys who really respect women, whatever the situation is...

Are you serious...I think much more then you think...But difficult to find on MTC :mtc: di ba?

Uhm...guys, can we just ignore Thug and his fantastic stories and try to move on? This was once a upon a time a very interesting thread and I hate to see it just crash and burn. Anybody else here with their own stories about their love affairs with MPA's/PSP's/GRO's to share? Then type away, please.

I second that motion. I always considered this as a serious thread.

by the way...maybe this is of topic...but I want to thank most of this thread posters, to post in English....salamat po....

i think this is the reality hitting you in the face... i would have to agree that if you cannot fight for the woman you love, regardless of her profession or lack thereof... then you are just messing with her... and the pain will be greater on her part because her past will always haunt her as the reason why she cannot find lasting love.

I REST MY CASE....true words spoken here....

If ever a girl is to marry for money....how'd do you think she'd do it?....

...if you knew she was to marry you for your money...would you still marry her? ofcourse you won't.

Good luck!

I don't worry about that....I saw girls marry 4 the money...after a quick while there attitude changes...

and now something completly differant...

hello, need some help, hope u dont mind to vote my niece.

shes on the left on your computer and last picture (picture in the left corner)

thank you.

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does your gf's relatives or parents aware of her job, accept it, and are benefitting from it? if that's the case they i don't think you could hide that for long from other people.. unless you separate her completely from her relatives..

 

i'm in the same situation..

 

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you could probably ask her to try to go into another job (like as a saleslady), or ask her to go to school for about a year, before marrying her.. that way its much easier to hide her past..

I think here mother suspected what here buisness was, but never talked about it kc they needed the money. Ofcourse, I KNOW that I'm lucky kc im foreigner and could affort to ask here to quit here job...and here friends in Manila now what here buisness is, and many times they asked me, hey how did u meet here, i was shy to answer that question and she just tawa...

and since januari this year she lives in europe with me...so ofcouse nobody can find out about here former job...almost impossible...

But the day I asked here to quit here job was not so easy, kc she wanted to stay financialy independant, kc she really didn't wanted me to think that we married for the money...

@carlito's way: I salute your stand on love.. That is how I see how love is.. Love for me is acceptance, forgiveness, and even sacrifice.. But loving oneself (IMO) should not be taken out of the relationship.. The "Golden Mean" should also be applied in relationships.. In other words, walang sosobra.. Hindi pwede na sobrang in-love na kinakalimutan mo na ang sarili mo at hindi naman pwede rin ang sobrang in-love sa sarili.. In other words, self-veneration and worshiping others should not be mistaken as love.. As I have repeatedly said in other threads, obsession ain't love.. Just my thoughts..

 

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Now going back to the topic at hand:

 

Clients who fall for "Sex Providers" is not uncommon.. I knew someone who came from a rich and known family who fell in love and even married a GRO.. The guy was persistent and in no time, the GRO also fell in love.. The guy's family was at first very against the relationship but eventually they gave their consent and they got married.. The guy brings the girl along in cocktail parties, and even to school reunions.. So, in other words, he wanted his family and his friends to really accept the girl as his wife..

 

Time passed.. Last I heard, the couple got separated.. I asked why.. The workers in the guy's family business said that the girl never did adjust to the relationship.. She was being backstabbed (daw) by the guy's family and friends.. Siguro naririnig niya na sinasabi na dati namang "pokpok" yan, etc.. And she fought back.. How? She would let her GRO friends stay in the house and hold parties.. She would drink, smoke.. Sarcasm was her way of fighting back.. In the end, the couple fell out of love and left each other..

 

Sad story? A modern day Cinderella story and in the end, it became a disaster.. But it really happened..

 

IMO, sometimes, when you enter a situation you should be ready to face the consequences.. When Richard Gere fell in love w/ Julia Roberts in the movie, "Pretty Woman," he was not ready to face the consequences, but because there is love he fought for their love.. But that movie never did presented how Richard and Julia took care of the relationship, it only presented how they met, how they fell, and how they fought for their love..

 

The challenge is how to prolong this kind of a relationship.. IMO, falling in love with a sex provider should not just entail love.. The relationship should not just be about love, sex, and money.. It should involve acceptance and it requires a more stable and open mind.. This if for both the man and the woman.. They should learn to face ridicule and non-acceptance from others.. Equal footing dito.. Coz even the man can be subject to ridicule.. his wife being called an ex-whore might just lead to a boxing match right?

 

We still live in a conservative society.. Hell, "Pretty Woman" is an American film, but still, Julia Roberts got ridiculed in the film.. What more if you are in a Filipino setting..

 

If you can not face the ridicules correctly, you better stay away from this kind of a relationship.. Coz it will just be bound to fail.. How do you face the ridicules correctly? Madaling sabihin, ngunit mahirap gawin.. wag mong hayaan na maapektuhan ka.. Mahirap di ba? Dapat maging pusong bato ka.. Ilabas mo ang naririnig mo sa kabilang tenga mo.. That is the only way.. Or you can go somewhere where no one knows you, para maiwasan mo ang mga ganitong pangyayari..

 

Falling in love with a sex provider is easy as 1-2-3, fighting for the love is more difficult and prolonging the relationships is 100 times more difficult.. These girls also deserve love from anyone, but if you are going to just love them and you can not fight for the love, then hwag na lang, because at the end of the day, you still treated them like s@%t.. For the girls naman, be ready to face the ridicule from the guy's friends, neighbors, and family.. Coz its bound to happen.. If you can not face them (the ridicule) correctly, then in the end, you are just delaying the inevitable.. the hurt that may lead to your relationship's eventual downfall..

 

I am not discouraging falling in love with GRO's and GRO's falling in love with their clients.. But IMO, its easier said than done.. And in this case, its easy to fall in love, but again, the challenge is how do you cultivate that love and prolong it.. If the whole world is against you.. can you still handle it? If you can.. Then, by all means, continue the relationship..

 

Peace!!!

Is it possible to keep the former 'buisness' from your gf a secret? isn't it possible to say she works as a sales lady or something?

I didn't told my family about here former job, ofcourse, my family doesn't live in phill...and she never told here family about here buisness....

I'm shy to tell....

Pretty Woman plot taken from

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pretty_Woman

 

(anybody got this movie? anybody knows where i can buy?)

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i have the movie, but difficult to send to you, maybe u can watch it on www.peekvid.com

Im a regular reader of this thread and all the time when a new "story" is posted many of the answers insinuate that PSP's are not capable of loving...

Never I read a story from a guy who seduce's a PSP, and pretending he love's the girl...So he can take advantage of here "services" and ofcourse here money...kc its always conviniant that ur gf meron money? so she can treet you? Don't tell me this never happens.....

what if love at first sight....opkors allowed to kiss at the firs date...

It doesn't mean that just because one disagrees with the concept of divorce that it's enough of a reason not to legalize it. What is the option then for a battered spouse who does not have any means of livelihood to support herself and her kids? Divorce, IMHO, is the more humane option because it offers her a LEGAL lifeline by providing her a second chance with life, finding a new and better spouse. With annulment, they are denied such option and chance and basically condemns them to a life of difficulty.

korek

Yup on most occasions... ahehehe

can u translate that for me please? :hoy, pumunta ka na dito, wala akong kita ngayon"!

Usually...

13.46 CET

Please do share your comments about this case that is happening to me right now.

After a meeting I went to this videoke bar - club. It was Dec. by then. There I met this girl, I was dumb founded about her.

She was like 19 to be exact and had just started the job last Sept. or Oct last year.

She was relatively new to the job and I found myself doing most of the talking.

Telling my life and work. Kinda serious or so. I'm a serious guy, blame it on me he he.

Anyway I found myself visiting her 2 to 3 times again within the week.

 

Then on one occasion my colleague at work invited me to the same place. I of course denied

the fact that I am going there. When we arrived, he was very well known at the place and he

just mentioned to the waiter to get this same girl for me. A coincidence if I can say.

He says were kinda meant for each other. Like some similarities in conversing like too much English or so.

Often we get girls with a little less on the manners and of the language. But this girl have good

qualities that can be shown in her upbringing.

So what happened next I tried my best to court her sincerely.

One time we went out for shopping, like I promised her that I give her a Christmas gift

We went to a nearby mall and bought new clothes from top to bottom. Almost 4 thou I think

Then afterwards I

ended up this Christmas dropping by at her place and giving her a bouquet of flower and gifts

She was sleeping when I dropped by. Its kinda a surprise that is.

Yet on the same day, I didn't even have one text message like thanks or so.

Feeling hurt, justifying she lost her cellphone although she has my num.

But who am I to expect anything just yet. Maybe I'm being tested. And she told me beforehand she isn't much of a texter

The following day 26, we went to Enchanted Kingdom. I agreed beforehand that she could have

escorts with s that is. Like 2 additional making 3 including her. One is her cousin and a close friend.

She texted my the gig will push through but she also told me that there is another one who needs to

go to. Making 4 of them. First I texted her to shoulder the damage. For the additional and she

said yes that she would cover for it.

When we arrived at EK, feeling generous whatsoever. I paid for the whole group plus the food and everything

inside. It was all on me he he. The gimmick was fun and tiring we have a lot of good memorable

pictures.

Going home we went to a fast food store and she insisted to pay for it.

I did not agree but we settled for a 50: 50

The pictures was hilarous and when I developed it and shared it to them. It was a lot of laughs.

So January came, we went out in the pyro olympics in MOA. The fireworks was excellent the traffic was not.

I managed to get her to wear those red horns and enjoyed some laughs. He he. :cool:

 

After that I went one to two times a week in the club to visit and talk to her.

I went there at Tues or Thurs in which not so many people.

She was always asked for and I found myself in many many instances waiting for her and waiting for her

guest to leave. I guess that’s a lot of patience on my part. I didn’t get any other ladies while waiting for

her so you could just imagine the feelings I have while looking at her guests make a move on her.

 

So the stories goes on, I learn every bit of her like her high school and stuff.

Other intimate parts she does not want to share. Like ideas to win her heart or the like.

Last Saturday I managed to get a gimmick on her and gave all of the girls flowers (the club has a place - for all of them to stay

like an apartment) and lastly gave her a bouquet. So I got all of my guts and while all of the ladies looking at me. I gave her

the flowers. The moment was special. I almost see her light in tears although she remove them away. She said thanks

in a cute manner or so that made my heart leap. Afterwards I got to treat them all with pizza. Mind you there were

like 12 of them. 12 ladies versus one guy. Hu hu. Hey I just wanted to prove that I'm sincere. Stupid me. :flowers:

 

After 3 days I went to the club and secretly gave the waiter, - cards for her and a small pillow.

I confess my love for her in the cards saying it was late and should have given it sooner.

Then yesterday I found myself there at the same place but I am accompanied by my coworkers.

They don't know what I have been doing like courting her or what.

I asked her about the cards if she read it. She said yes though I could not read if they are a go or a no.

We were drinking too much by then. She sang a lot … more than the previous times I had gone there.

I was looking at her eye if there is something. Cannot say too hard.

I asked her that if she have a regular guest on that day. She said yes so I asked her to promise to me

that if she will get one. She would ask for juice instead. I left the bar with my friends around 10:30.

I'm kinda lost right now. I don't know if I would continue it or not.

I ask her to go out again but like ice skating for Feb. next Sunday though she told me that she

check her sched.

Positive Points after the flower gig

 

She texted me twice this week asking for my condition. She used her friends cp.

previously nothing at all.

I think she isn't much to texting.

She isn't the type who would ask that I go to the club or visit her.

She never asked or demanded about anything. NOt like those other ladies

asking for one ld after another.

She told me one secret habit she has recently developed

Smoking that is even though her cousin don't know it.

I secretly told her cousin about it.

BTW I'm a non smoker, it’s a turn off for me.

One time when were drinking she got my beer and add it up her ladies drink

Concerned about me drinking too much.

She often scolds me for drinking too much and tells me I should go home.

 

One time while waiting for her I got pissed and went home. The following day

when I went there again she sharply remarked why did I go home and not

have waited for her.

Negative Points

 

She do not ask about me. Or maybe I had told her too much stories about my life.

One time during a conversation her birth date stirred up and suddenly she asked my birthday to

I told her that if it wasn't the topic she would not have asked about it.

So Interest in knowing me and my background is not so much

 

She is careful not to tell ideas to win her heart or get points on her.

Like dream dates other girls would want. Or maybe too careful.

 

She always says secret in some matters about her heart.

Others

The bar is kinda wholesome, nothing has happended intimately. I really respected her.

Not even touching or flirting too much with her.

I asked the waiter her background. He says she treats her guests with kinda a wall.

Does not go into VIP. I honestly think she's still intact. U know.

So what do u think? Should I continue or not.

or other gimmicks to test her if she's leading me or not.

I THINK

that u should ask here about here feeling that u convesed ur love to here...when i read it right, she didn't really give a reply to youabout that one..

before u spend more time and money...you need to now here point of vieuw about the fact u r in love...ofcourse you can't force hee to say she will love u to, but ask here for a sincere answer..

I know from first hand...(my asawa now) that it is very important for them to give there clients a feeling the girls like them, and for us guys it is difficult to seperate the buisness from our true feelings. I remember the time me and my wife where still dating, ans she didn't retired yet...I felled so jealous about the way she was threating here clients, it seems she was in love with every one of them, but she told me she needed that attitutude for here buisness...

so ask here, about here feelings for you...and ask here to answer sinceree...

hope i helped you a little bit...

ingatz

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