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The Janitor

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  1. Heard this line from a TV show I was watching a few weeks back:

     

    "The person you want when you're in a crisis or when you're dying, isn't the same as the person you want when you're living."

     

    We stick to our marriages, long-term relationships because they're the ones we can count on when times get tough. Problem is, we often end up with people who we have nothing in common with; malayo ang preferences, malayo ang mga gusto gawin, malayo ang mga passion.

     

    Not all people have the cojones to break things up, so what do we do? They wander off the reservation until they find that someone na nabibigay yung hinahanap na wala sa current relationship and when things get boring again, they move on to the next person available.

     

    Can't stop people from cheating. What you can do is stop being their doormat.

  2. There's always gonna be someone na dadating sa buhay nya with a better slice of cheddar. Pag nalipasan mo na ang sandamukal na tinumbang bote ng alak, all the self pity, pathetic rationalities, etc and see them and feel "okay" with the entire thing, you're on your way to recovery. Acceptance is never easy. Ang daming pagdadaanan pero pag andun kana sa stage na yun without even realizing you're already there, makakahinga kana at makakatulog ng mahimbing.

     

    So yeah, I'm finally okay with the fact that they're together. Sa lahat ng bagong kalas palang dahil naagawan / iniwan for other people, just let the pain run its course. Gagaling din yan. Ika nga nila, kapit lang :)

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