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charmellan

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  1. nakita ko na yan sir, pero haven't tried it. sa may right side pag galing ever ortigas bago mag big-R. may street dun na kailangan mong kumanan para makita ung one light. pero malapit lang siya sa Street, di kana din lalayo masyado sa Ortigas Ext. gusto niyo sir sabay natin i-check kung positive, medyo hesitant ako baka mapahiya eh.

     

    Nakita ko ito kagabi, pareho tayo hesitant ako. Papasok na sana ako biglang tingin sa akin yung mga tao nung papasok na ako. Biglang akong lumiko tapos bili ng yosi kunwari, hehehe!

     

    May mga nakita ako na mga matatanda sa labas and labos pasok sila sa establishment. Medyo madilim yung lugar at maraming tambay sa labas, the more reason na hindi ako pumasok.

     

    Cge, try natin minsan. You have my number, I send you a pm.

  2. meron sa ortigas ext....bago mag Big R ...going to Junction.........pag galing ng pasig....sa right side malapit sa Big R...name ng apartelle is ONE LIGHT......as the name applied........isa lang ang ilaw sa kwarto.........d ko pa na try to...may nagsabi lang sa kin...........

     

     

    Sir, existing pa ba ito? I will check later. How much is the damage? How about the quality of girls?

  3. A nice article I got from the internet, I hope this helps :)

     

    Let the healing begin...

     

     

    Breaking up is never fun. The end of a

    relationship means the beginning of a period of

    mourning and healing for both people. If the break

    up was mutual both people will experience a period

    of adjustment where they are getting used to no

    longer being together. If the break up was not

    mutual the person who ended things may be dealing

    with guilt and feelings that they may have made a

    mistake. The person being broken up with will

    definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected

    and second to life without somebody they still

    care for. How do you get through those first few

    weeks? Here we list eight essential things

    everybody must do in the early days of a break up

    to let the healing begin.

     

     

     

    1. Avoid the former love. Yes, avoid. No, this

    isn't being immature. Seeing your former flame can

    bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say

    something you will regret. In the first few weeks

    the best thing you can do for yourself is not be

    where you know they will be.

     

     

     

    2.Talk out your feelings with close friends. Get

    everything out so that you won't hold it inside.

    Your friends may get sick of hearing you talk

    about the situation but you need to let out all

    your feelings and thoughts or they may come back

    to bite you later.

     

     

     

    3. Cry if you want to. It's OK to cry over a loss.

    Don't hold back, let the tears roll just do it in

    a safe and private place where it is unlikely to

    get back to your ex. You don't want your tears to

    be used as a guilt trip. Their purpose is to

    cleanse you of any pain not make your lover come back.

     

     

     

    4. Let go of mementos. Put away or give away

    anything and everything that reminds you of the

    relationship. Hide them out of sight so they will

    be out of mind until you are able to remember the

    relationship without longing for it to still be

    going strong.

     

     

     

    5. Don't slip up and get together with your ex.

    When you are feeling sad or missing a relationship

    it can be very easy to fall back in to the arms of

    your ex but DO NOT DO THIS. This will only set you

    back and let's face it, if things ended the

    relationship wasn't perfect to begin with so why

    would you want to rekindle things?

     

     

     

    6. Focus on all the things about your ex that

    drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just

    plain found annoying. Think about these things

    often and replay them in your mind over and over.

    Dwell on them. It will make you feel better to

    remember that your former flame was not perfect

    and that there are things you won't really miss.

     

     

     

    7. Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your

    ex may have done in your relationship. Really give

    these things play in your memory. Remind yourself

    that somebody who truly cared for you would not

    have done such thoughtless things and tell

    yourself (over and over) that you are better off

    without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your

    life.

     

     

     

    8. Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick

    with it. Don't pass notes through friends. Don't

    make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging

    or texting on your cell. Just don't contact your

    ex until you are totally and completely sure you

    no longer want to be with him or her. It is the

    only way.

     

     

     

    Mending a broken heart is not easy but it can be

    done. Just stick to the game plan outlined above

    and before you know it you'll be just fine.

  4. In this post you are aware that the girl is a MPA or formerly a MPA

     

    The first question here is how will you know that the MPA loves you? Is saying "I love you" is enough? Doing good gestures means a sign of love? I am posting this not to create confusion but let us be open to growth and be constructive person. I hope this article that I read over the internet help us to enlighten and I hope I am making a sense out of it

     

    Crazy little thing called love

     

    During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"

     

    I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?"

    In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

    Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

    Here's the answer.

     

    EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

     

    Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... because it's happening TO YOU.

    People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

    Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

     

    But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

     

    The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

     

    At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

     

    Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

     

    But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.

    I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

     

    THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

     

    SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

     

    Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

     

    Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.

     

    Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... not just a feeling.

  5. I am reading books while traveling or not doing anything at the office. My favorite book are from Bo Sanchez, Psychological and Self Help and Improvements. I almost forgot P.M. Junior (if you consider this as a book)

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