Romar2

he fears that his wife will do it again. paminsan minsan nafee-feel nya yun pero mahal naman nya wife nya and his kids too (he loves the kid like his own...as in sobrang mahal nya yun). magulo kaya nga kaming mga friends nya, nde na lang namin ginagatungan pa. lagi na lang namin sya pinagkwekwento ng mga cute little things na ginagawa ng mga anak nya. we are all hoping na magkaron na sya ng peace of mind.

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he is brave....

first, if he loves the girl too much it isn't a problem, think of her not the girl she loved but betrayed her once but think of her as someone he loves and now he still have. life is about trials and mistakes and love always is the one that helps you get it through... talk to her, let her know you still love her and let her know how you feel about that past... how it hurts - and if she loves you i think he knows your pain....

second, why does it matter? you love your kids, if you still feel you may be cheated then let love for you kids be your solution and attention. think about it only when you are already in that situation -don't let ego cloud your judgement...

- i do think it's not really that troublesome for him because he has the nerve to tell you... it's not that it's not that of a problem but if it's me i can't easily say it to friends because of the pain i'll always remember and it brings.

hehehe a fair question

FIRST AND FOREMOST IS DITCH HER.... before doing something bad ( that may be a stupid thing to do right now) you have to clear your thoughts so don't listen first of excuses and justifications JUST GET HER OUT OF SIGHT

not because you don't love her or anything it just a way to think things through....

now, you may feel betrayed and everything but there is one thing you got to learn: YOU ARE NOT ON THE LOSING SIDE OF THIS. why? first, thank god it happened during the girlfriend stage not when you are already in the commited stage. second, imagine the boy who made him cheat you and now has this girl. wouldn't he be tossing night in and night out thinking if that girl with do that to him too once she finds someone better? third, the girl now she has the burden of raising the child (or the conscience of abortion) on herself or would rely on the pity of the other guy.

think of it as a relationship. some times trials come and consider it as a trial. i just don't see why someone would get furious over this, if it was me i would even shake her hand and let her go because at least before it gotten too serious, she did it. next, she gave you a reason to find a better one and not waste your energy on a lying cow. the only thing hurt is your ego and i don't think it's worth being in jail for that...

LOVE? nadda! you can't say you learned anything from this... it just like saying you learned how to bike because last week i used a bike... you grow from love... you matured in love....

but i learned so much in a relationship... this and that... but when i finally fall in love... cautions are thrown out because you love this someone and love should not be about rules...

if i learned anything from love is not try to learn from love... love is an experience that someone has to grow with... to mature with... don't set limits on love.... you may fall hard sometimes (and say you wished you had learned from your previous mistakes) and still do the same mistakes all over again.... but i say to you loving because you love him/her and not because based on your previous mistakes is much sweeter