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junrag2019

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  1. Speaking for myself only, I agree with FF. I am in a good marriage and successful too if I might add, but I am the most ahppiest and fulfilled if I am sexually satisfied and that means a lot of diverse companionship. A number of years back, I remember i had a good professional success, but it was still somehow missing something. And it's not just the sex, I also am most happy when I've had a good, light but deep conversation with my partner of the moment. When I get so sick of all the pretensions and masks that we have to wear at work, in business, or even with my family, it's gives me somehow a great relief to be just a real man again with real desires and experiencing a frank and unpretentious sexual episode with a girl who feels the same. I guess human beings are so complex that we can't be really slotted in the convenient ways that normal society would have. In this oandemic especially, with lots of people being there one moment, gone the next, I am mindful really that I have to "go for it", meaning go for the things that give me the greatest fulfillment without any regret because who knows, in just a few days, I might catch the virus and be gone just like that.

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  2. From my experience, girls are the same. They are human beings with the same desires and cravings as guys. The difference is with the way they see or approach sex. While men are more direct and in-your-face, ladies would prefer to talk about it in indirect ways. Turn -off sila, napansin ko, pag masyado bastos ang conversation kaagad especially early in the encounter. They are also slower to physically prep kung baga, because unlike us, where we can get ready instantly after say doing intense work or after a wrokout, they need a little bit more time to get into it. Case in point: ako kahit bright flouresent lights pwedeng pwede, or even natural light, all the more to see my partner, but most, if not all my partners need a little bit of dim light for a better ambience. In fact, good sign yan pag sinabihan ka na na "masyado maliwanag dito" hehehe

  3. Yes for me. Annulment and the others are not really options because 1) they take years and 2) really expensive. Tapos ang underlying basis pa ng mga yan is that one of the parties is "psychologically incapacitated". It means you have to point out that 1 of you is at fault. It doesn't capture the reality that sometimes 2 people really are not meant for each other, or that they were at the start but have gorwn apart. Sometimes you are not really the same person you were in your 20's, and who is the government in preventing the both of you from doing the mature thing and agreeably parting ways?

     

    In fact, ang nangyayari ngayon mas magulo pa. Either they stay together but within a loveless or even turbulent marriage where neither is happy, or they just live apart but can't really start the next chapter of their lives because they are legally and financially tied together. Sa akin lang naman, but I think it's the Church's way of telling us that we can't be trusted to make our own decision. Why prevent something and limit the options when you really trust your flock to do the right and "Catholic" way?

  4. Mahirap ngayon sa VC talaga. kailangan ng ID. Yung iba naman kailangan sabay kayo mag check in ng kasama mo.

     

    Recommend ko Daisy Inn just behind VC Hillcrest Pasig. No ID requirements and mabait pa mga manong doon.

  5. Hi our Legal Lawyers :)

     

    I just want to consult on something.

     

    A friend died leaving a husband and 2 kids aged 18 and 15. they still have a house and lot and the Dad wants to Pawn or Sell the house. Do the kids have any say on this matter?

     

    The house is still named to my dead friend and hasnt been transferred to his Husband nor the kids.

     

    My concern is the Dad doesnt have a job/ hasn't had a job for decades, a senior citizen now and is really bad with money. If they pawn or sell the property now the kids will be left homeless and penniless.

     

    Do the kids have any legal right to the property even though they are just teenagers?

     

    Thanks so much to those who can answer.

    Yes they kids definitely have a say. The husband is entitled to 1/2 of the estate of your friend, while the 2 kids are entitled the other half. The husband can't sell the house without first settling the wife's estate and paying taxes.

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