Wwoooooooooooooohhhh i must say wwoohh..... after I’ve read your story I’m compelled to share my view/opinions and personal experiences, thoughts whatever that might help you out.
1st I’ll share some thoughts, MPA’s/GRO’s are human can yes they can truly love you, and you can also love them back. But mind you it would be VERY, VERY, VERY, VERY HARD!!! And also COMPLICATED. I totally agree to what you’ve said and I believe most people also know that these women or at least most of these women went through this kind of job/business because they need MONEY, to support family, kids, relatives whatever.. most of them don’t like there job and would instantly quit if they have money. And as humans yes there are occasionally some who also love there job and somewhat proud of it.
2nd I’ll share my experience, yes I’ve also fallen truly in love with a MPA/GRO, some went almost 2years. And these is what I’ve learn, you must truly accept what she does and her past, EXPECT THE WORST and try to ACCEPT that. If she’s a GRO/dancer expect her to have done it with hundreds of men, and do not think na table lng or sayaw lng and ginagawa nila, especially if she’s in the business for quite some time already same with MPA’s. If you can accept that SEX is her JOB or part of her JOB you’ve pass stage 1.
Next thing I learn is that women became GRO/MPA is because of LOVE. Yes LOVE for their children/ family or friend that they are willing to sacrifice themselves (na kahit babuyin katawan nila) just to help/raise their love ones. So talking about love now you must gauge her love towards you. Which comes first?? YOU?? There will be a SLIM chance that she would LOVE YOU or CHOOSE YOU OVER HER FAMILY. (just imagine the sacrifice she gave to her family). This is a BIG DEAL my friend why?? Because that if you want her to quit you must provide her needs, and also provide the needs of the people that are dependent on her. If you do not SATISFY their needs, I’ll tell you she will go back to work and she will be “Working Hard” even if she loves you even if she loves you as much as she love her family/kid/s. I’ll tell you she will even if you gave everything that you could once you’re out expect it to happen. why because she needs to survive and people are dependent on her and there are no other option for her. UNLESS SHE LOVES YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING. that she is willing to give up everything including the people she love and have sacrifice her self to. (Very Hard)>>>
Also I must say that u must find the reason why she loved you and vice versa. Does she love you because you’re kind to her and perhaps only one of the few people who’ve been kind to her? Is it because u can provide for her? Is it looks? And on your side why do u love her and are willing to look beyond her job and accept her fully? Is it sex/pleasure? (I sure hope not) well u must find the true reason and be sure it is NOT SUPERFICIAL!
3rd I guess this is going way too long (I hope you don’t get bored) so I already must give some personal advice.
1. FULLY ACCEPT HER AND HER JOB.
I can see you can’t still fully accept her job, because you ask and do detective work on her. I might be wrong and maybe your just curious.
2. BE PREPARED TO GIVE FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE.
As you’ve mention you don’t have a job right now and I don’t know how mush you’ve save but I suggest you must first establish yourself being capable of supporting her and her family. Just to avoid financial problems. And I’ll tell you that is very hard. (also truly loving her would mean caring for her family)
3. GREAT SEX MUST NOT BE YOUR PRIORITY REASON OF LOVING HER.
Find some better reason like chemistry or something something that will last.
4. (I agree with hitman) ALWAYS HAVE AN EXIT PLAN. ALWAYS.
5. THINGS ALWAYS CHANGES. BE PREPARED.
Be prepared to be talk about by your friends, family, business partners, they will be talking some nasty stuff about you and your girl. Some might look down on you, some might not accept what you do (specially your family), be prepared that one of your friend, friends or brother or what ever might have avail her service. These are just some of the things that can easily change and you must be prepared for.
6. PROTECT YOURSELF.
Think about yourself always, never forget about yourself.
7. BE SURE YOU CAN BE HAPPY. BE SURE YOU CAN FIGHT FOR HER.
8. KNOW HOW MUCH SHE TRULY LOVES YOU.
And ever if she really do remember it can change, know how strong it is.
I guess i went too long.. anyway wish you all the best man. plan carefully. :mtc:
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nice words man, this is so true