I'd take you to a big bookstore, big by pinas standards at least. We prowl for books, check out what the other is reading - for one is judgeable by what he read. Ice cream after, speak of faraway lands and temperate climes.
Then go watch some good quality porn somewhere discreet.
do you do trance? in search of sunrise - now that is an adventure in sound. and in sound, you may find enlightenment. of course a good orgasm helps too...
As your mind may also be familiar, remember that, like one night stands, sometimes the big city f#&ks you, instead of you f#&king the big city, which is what should be. But you know that...