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Iwa,

Kindly enlighten us what true love is! :)

problem is you guys dunno what real love is.[/i]

It's a painful experience if your GF leaves you for another guy. But objectively, it should be accepted. Why would you want to be with a girl who loves you half heartedly? It will eventually be apparent and you will drift apart anyways. If she finds someone who is a better match, so be it. The guy should move on as well. Such is life. Just my two cents

pag kaya nyang pagpalit ang bf nya e ikaw pa kaya diba?

icis,

funny, i was about to suggest that you stop communicating with her for a few days and see what happens. here you are, doing it already hehe.

although don't do it in extremes. you should still visit her once a week, kahit one or two hours lang. if you completely stop seeing her, she will probably miss you only in the beginning and her feelings might eventually fade away. personal contact is extremely important in a relationship and you have to realize that these girls meet a lot of people everyday. some are good looking and wealthy to boot.

good luck!

Itatanan ko na he he :cool:

 

Joke kidding aside, thanks for all the advices very much appreciated :thumbsupsmiley: :mtc:

I've been absent in the club for more than a week na and she had texted me wishing me to go there

thrice already. Di ko lang sinipot he he

 

I've texted the waiter asking if she was taken yesterday. The waiter responded "just now" and its about 9:30 already.

Usually by that time she has already a guest as early as 7:30 coz many ask for her. Un lang ngayn lg (Sat.) wala siya early guest wahaha (karma yata he he)

 

I've called her up this Sun. and told her mga March na ako pupunta wahaha.

Lets see what happens he he :hypocritesmiley:

Gerls,

What's your take regarding guys with eye glasses? Are they better off with them or with contact lenses instead?

MasturVader,

Did I miss the continuation of your saga? If I didn't, can you kindly complete the story?

Thanks!

Whew... took me around 3 hours to read this entire thread. I can’t believe there are so many guys in the same boat as me. I thought I was one of the few dumb enough to fall for an MPA. Let me share my experience…

 

I first visited her MP last September, it was actually my first time to visit a “naughty place”... I just went with my balikbayan friend who was uber horny after not getting laid for 3 years in the US. The aquarium opens and there are about 4 girls on display. Naturally, my deprived friend gets first pick and ends up choosing this white-skinned chinita beauty that I had my eye on. Oh, well. My gaze then strays to the next whitest girl in the room. I was about to pick her when my other friend tells me to choose this other girl... now this is one that wouldn’t normally catch my eye in a line-up of beauties. She was a bit dark, let’s call it morena, not exactly my type (like most guys, I prefer light-skinned girls). But she had nice eyes, and there was something about her smile. She looked eager to please. So I thought, what the hell, and went with her. To cut it short, she really wasn’t all that good. It wasn’t the amazing sex that the other guys posted they had with their MPA/PSP gf’s. Her massage wasn’t that great (me and my friend compared notes after our session), but there was something about her that I just couldn’t put my finger on. For convenience, let’s call her ‘Kim’ (not her floor name or real name).

 

Going to MP’s can be addicting, and for the next month I made the rounds. All in all I had several different MPA’s, but I found each of them lacking. I finally went back and visited Kim for the 2nd time. My plan was to become her regular. I figured I could set up an arrangement for ‘home-service’, where I could save a little by not paying for the room, but instead give her around 50% more than usual. After the 3rd visit, something clicked. I was able to take her home with me after her shift. I was pretty surprised, I mean, I wasn’t courting her through text or anything. And I guess I’m a pretty decent-looking guy, but I’m no Sam or Piolo.

 

We’ve been seeing each other for almost 3 months now. At first I was just happy because I was getting free sex, which I actually bragged about to my friends ( something I’m not very proud of ). But after awhile, she started to grow on me. At first I thought I was ok with her ‘job’. I’m a practical person, she’s the breadwinner in her family of 7, which includes her baby. I was pretty upfront with her, I make about half of what she makes in a month, so I couldn’t really support that many people if she quit her job. Now, though, I really wish I could support her so she could quit doing what she does, and go back to school. I want to be one of those rich old farts who throw money around like paper. My life used to be so simple.

It’s gotten to the point where I don’t find other girls that attractive anymore. I started sleeping with my celphone beside me, and I’d be ecstatic every time she texts or calls. I started drinking and chain-smoking by myself at home, things I thought I’d never do, thinking about her ‘guests’. Hating them, but at the same time wanting to be them. Does that make sense? She says she loves me, but there’s always that doubt lurking at the back of my mind. She seems so distant when she’s at work, but I guess that’s to be expected. Sometimes I wish I could go back to being a guest… I’d probably be spending less time and money.

 

I guess I’ll stop for now, will continue this when I get home from work. Feel free to comment.

Yung buhay nila revolves around the guy! Clingy, too attached!!