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    What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?

    in Matters of the heart

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    This Hell of a situation happened to me way back August last year..

     

    Its has been 4 years that we were together and i thought she's already the girl that i will be spending my time till end. She lives in the province, somewhere in north and im here in manila working ( though i always find a way to be with her every week).

     

    Things change during the 1st quarter of the month last year. For some reasons we felt that the relationship was a bit cold, we argue most of the time ( pero ganun talaga siya..selosa kasi ). She was always complaining na wala na daw akong time sa kanya. For four years na umuuwi ako ng province every week para sa kanya noon niya lang nabanggit sa akin un, however we still try to work everything out..Masaya ako sa kanya. Then duamting birthday nya which was June and i was not able to attend on the exact day..I told her na babawi na lang ako once na umuwi ako ulit ng province.

     

    Then days pass through and i felt something different to her..that was august. Feeling ko parang nilalayo niya sarili niya sa akin.

     

    Its friday night and nasa bus ako pauwi ng province again..I ask her bakit lately hindi siya nagtetext or nagrerespond sa mga messages ko?? She just told me " I have a problem and you cannot help me " which really bothers me a lot from the time i red the message.

     

    I really love her and everytime na may problema siya or nasasaktan siya ay nahihirapan ako. Sabi ko sa kanya na sabihin niya sa akin kung ano ba ang nangyari or ano yung problem niya?...ilang oras ko siya kinukulit and finally here it comes..I opened my inbox and the message said " Im 2 months pregnant and hindi ikaw ang ama"

     

    F*CK, PI at lahat ng mura na pwede ko sabihin gusto ko sabihin from the moment i got that message. I cant fully express myself nung mga oras na iyon kasi nasa bus ako..Deep inside umiiyak talaga ako and kahit anong gawing kong tago sa nararamdaman ko ay hindi ko kinaya at lumuha ako sa sobrang sakit.

     

    I texted her back and asked her " Bakit mo nagawa sa akin ito?"..then she replied back saying "sorry pls layuan mo na ako at malaki ang prblema ko ngayon and ayaw ko na makadagdag ka pa or madamay ka" I tried calling her pero hindi niya sinasagot phone ko..

     

    I immediately text my friend para may masabihan ako ng problema dahil mahirap itago sa sarili ung nararamdaman ko..

     

    I can sense na nahihirapan ang girlfriend ko and she is deep saddened too..Hindi ko alam kung ano ang irereply ko sa sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko..nag isip ako ng mabuti...

     

    Hindi ko magawang magalit sa kanya kahit na gusto ko. I love her so much that i cannot hurt her even though may nagawa siyang mali sa akin..Sabi ko sa sarili ko nandito na ito eh..kung magalit man ako wala din ako magagawa at lalo lang siya mahihirapan. She was crying on the time na pinagtapat nya sa akin yun..

     

    So I ask her kung sino yung guy pero ayaw niya sabihin at baka lalo lang gumulo...Sad thing is ayaw siya panagutan ng guy..Call me stupid bro's pero hindi ko na inisip sarili ko noon at hindi ko inisip galit ko and i was even the once who comforted her na kaya niyang lampasan yan. ( pero as i said sobrang sakit tlaga at tinatago ko lang )

     

    We ended the relationship on the same day and we are good as friends right now.. Nagtetext kami once in a while at nagkakamustahan( mahal ko pa rin siya until now and ganun din siya ) . Pero we know within ourselves na hindi na pwede.

    :goatee:

    You earn our RESPECT and from the 3 main islands of the Philippines(Luzon, Visayas and Mindanao) WE SALUTE YOU :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley: :thumbsupsmiley:

    What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    well guys, you're too nice...

     

    for me, i would get someone closest to the guy - his wife, gf or sister - that got her pregnant and do the same. then agree to marry my gf and stood her up on our wedding day...

     

    THIS IS A NICE IDEA :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: MAY BE THEY SHOULD TRY THIS ONE :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool: :cool:

    What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    I could understand if she got pregnant before we went into the relationship, but during???? Hell no. You got yourself into this mess you, can get yourself out. I can forgive her but I won't spend another second being her boyfriend.

     

    A martyr dies for a cause he believes in. Your still alive, so what do you call yourself? Love? Love is a two way street, and since she obviously took a left turn somewhere, you're travelling on a road to nowhere by yourself. Think about that.

     

    You might think I'm cruel, but I expect you to do the same if I ever do that to you.

     

    we call ourselves VICTIMS OF LOVE

    What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    well, it depends.

     

    but knowing myself at lalo na if sobrang love ko yung girl, i would forgive and her another chance.

     

    wala na kong pakelam what others will say. mas mahirap ata yung naloko ka na tapos tuluyan kang nawalan.

     

    pero kung ayaw na nya bumalik at sasama na sya ng tuluyan. hayaan ko na lang sya. :cry:

    pareho tyo pare.masarap tyo magmahal

    What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    Well, acceptance is the key in life. I guess I will still stay with her and take care of the baby. Its a test actually in my opinion of your principles. Thats where you stand out. The girl will love you more. Sometimes it will annoy you but hey, every1 makes mistakes. If you love the girl, love has no boundaries. Just take it one day at a time.

     

    Cheers ;)

     

    cheers for you :D youre a rare guy i thought that someone like you dont exist.may be in few days or weeks time all of you may be extinct

    What If Your Gf Cheated & Got Pregnant?

    in Matters of the heart

    Posted

    ang tanong bakit sya naghanap ng iba?

     

    dahil ba hindi mo sya masatisfy at maibigay yun hinihingi ng katawan nya?

     

    oo ng mahal mo nga sya pero ganun na lang yun ginawa nya sana lang pantay yun laban..kung may nagawa ka di naman sapat yun na sumibak sya ng iba...its her consequence na mabuntis at di panagutan ng guy...

     

    oo nandun na tayo mahal mo nga pero yun pagmamahal mo ba pinahalagahan nya?..

     

    mahirap sagutin kung bakit sya nghanap ng iba shes the only one who knows why :cry:

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