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if it hurts sorry ha talagang i cant change my opinion :evil:

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Tama ka pareng Smith. Mabuti na yung ngayon ka masaktan kaysa later on when you're in deep s**t with your MPA. Mas malalim ang sugat mas masakit at mas matagal gumaling. Always take the advise of those who've "been there and done that." They may not always be true but I assure you they know the feeling. So keep on sharing, who knows you might save a soul or two... Peace guys!

it maybe foolish but there are still mpa's that are worth loving for... but i would say that not too many... if you happen to know and would know these ladies better you will know what i mean... in my lifetime, i only admire very few people i know and i have met... i admire them because of their beliefs and life's point of view and i realize that there are still people, despite of their job, situation and status in life haven't lost or give-away what is good and right!

well again, this is only a man's point of view!

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Yes they are worth loving I believe. But go into a serious relationship with them will cast some doubts on me. Love them for what they are and who they are and they'll love you in return. Make them feel that inspite of all the negative perception about their work they are still loveable. But that's only one side of the coin. Guy should also evaluate his feelings for the MPA. Common, it's a guy thing... We can't accept the fact that the girl (MPA) works for this kind of business. Handle the truth guys... it ain't gonna work the way you want to. Best part of the deal is you remain close to them but don't fall... Love them but don't be in-love... My two cents worth...

tama yung mga nagmamahal lang sa mpa di rin matino coz alam mong p*tatsing

kaharap mo iibigin mo ibig sabihin me sayad ka hehehehehe :evil:  :evil:

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Meron lang akong naisip kanina while I was driving going to work. Let's admit it guys, most of us fall for MPAs because of sex... as in FREE SEX (if there's such a thing). So, why should we fall for them pa? Hindi ba pwede na kaibiganin na lang natin sila na parang regular customer nila tayo. Ang pinagkaiba lang kasi, dapat payag na yung MPA na sa labas na lang tayo makikipag-sex at hindi na sa sa MP. Malaki din ang matitipid nating mga menyaks. Say 1K ang tip mo everytime na kukunin mo siya plus mga P500 sa motel. Eh di total of 1.5K lang yun. Kahit na sunduin mo pa siya sa house nila. 3 hours pa kayo sa motel. Not bad d ba? Ang kailangan lang mapaintindi natin sa mga MPA prospects natin that this kind of set up is better. At least regular na natin yung MPA at walang emotional attachment na kasama. I think papayag din yun kung talagang mabait ka sa kanila. Also, mas madali para sa kanila yun. Hindi rin ganun kadali kumuha na 1K a day. Ano sa tingin niyo guys? Alam ko meron nang nag post ng ganitong idea. Let's hear it from the experts.

tama yung mga nagmamahal lang sa mpa di rin matino coz alam mong p*tatsing

kaharap mo iibigin mo ibig sabihin me sayad ka hehehehehe :evil:  :evil:

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Meron lang akong naisip kanina while I was driving going to work. Let's admit it guys, most of us fall for MPAs because of sex... as in FREE SEX (if there's such a thing). So, why should we fall for them pa? Hindi ba pwede na kaibiganin na lang natin sila na parang regular customer nila tayo. Ang pinagkaiba lang kasi, dapat payag na yung MPA na sa labas na lang tayo makikipag-sex at hindi na sa sa MP. Malaki din ang matitipid nating mga menyaks. Say 1K ang tip mo everytime na kukunin mo siya plus mga P500 sa motel. Eh di total of 1.5K lang yun. Kahit na sunduin mo pa siya sa house nila. 3 hours pa kayo sa motel. Not bad d ba? Ang kailangan lang mapaintindi natin sa mga MPA prospects natin that this kind of set up is better. At least regular na natin yung MPA at walang emotional attachment na kasama. I think papayag din yun kung talagang mabait ka sa kanila. Also, mas madali para sa kanila yun. Hindi rin ganun kadali kumuha na 1K a day. Ano sa tingin niyo guys? Alam ko meron nang nag post ng ganitong idea. Let's hear it from the experts.

siguro lahat ng nagbabasa ng thread na ito alam na if you can love an mpa or if they can love you back, nasa tao lang naman yan if they can accept it di ba?

why not change the topic na lang and share your experiences about loving an mpa or mpa's can share their experience about loving a guest to make it more interesting... don't you think?

 

ako i can share my experience siguro since tapos na naman....

i recently fell for an mpa, yeah i admit, i fell din, i didn't meet her in an mp, i met her sa gimikan, although nalaman ko din na she was an mpa after a while, i got to know the person and she was really nice and worth loving, she's really sweet and caring, pala text sya and pala tawag just to check on me if i'm ok, dumadalaw din ako sa kanila once in a while just to hangout with her relatives, and i've brought her home na din and kilala sya ng mga relatives and friends ko...

we enjoyed our company and had a blast everytime we hang out, it was a pretty unforgettable experience for me....

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Good for you YoMikee. Had a similar experience too... although I must admit it's really hard to fall for one. You'll always end up arguing about her work or she will always put on the topic of her being a MPA whenever you get into fights... that's the sad reality of it. For me, I accept the fact that my girl is in this flesh business pero medyo nakakahalata na rinyata na walang patutunguhan...

I salute those MTC guys who really got into this already and are brutally frank about their thoughts on falling for a MPA. As the saying goes, "experience is the best teacher." So let's not disregard their advise. I must admit, before I did not subscribe to the idea that one cannot truly love a MPA but after giving it some thought and have gone through a relationship with one, I can truly say that it's true.

So here are some reality checks why we fall in love with a MPA (for the nth time... no hard feelings bros, just want to get your feet on the ground before it's too late... you may add yours to share with us):

1. Usually happens after a great sex at the MP

2. Absorbs the story of the MPA why she got into this kind of work

3. Guy wanting to have free sex outside the MP (again listen to the experts... you may think it's cheaper but it'll cost you more... common guys, accept it)

3. Guy trying to become a savior of a lost soul but ends up using/abusing the girl to satisfy sexual urges

4. MPA pretends to fall for you and not for your money, car, gifts, or what have you that she likes...

5. How's a free sex with just a text or call away?

6. Sex becomes less and friendship continues but at the end of the day guy still wants to have sex with the MPA.

7. Quitting the MP for the guy... but ooppps wait a minute... MPA needs more money for her material needs... need to get back... (continuation on #8)

8. Guy accepts the comeback and justifies his reason for loving (and having sex with) the MPA...

9......

10......

As one MTC guy said, "it's an endless cycle."

My two cents worth...

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OH MY GOSH... AS USUAL, KTULAD NG INIICP KO, GNYAN NGA ANG MAGIGING REACTIONS NINYO... SA BGAY, NO 1 WUD EVER BELIEVE US TAMA PO BA? MPA NGA LNG NMAN KME DBA... AND AS FAR AS I KNOW HNDI LHAT NG MPA MY IISANG TARGET OR MAYBE SHUD I SAY GOAL... KUNSA BAGAY, KAPWA MPA NRIN NMAN NMIN ANG GMAGAWA NG BAD IMAGE NMEN AND U CANT BLAME DEM, TLGANG THEY HAVE TO DO IT 4 DA SAKE OF EARNING MNEY, BUT TAKE NOTE GUYS... WEN IT COMES 2 LOVE,,,, IBAHIN NYO MGA KGAYA NMIN... CNU B NMAN NA22WA SA GNGAWA NMIN DBA PO...? OF COURSE NO OTHER THAN THE GUESTS(LIKE YOU..) BUT KME, AS I SAID AND I ALWAYS SAID,,,, WER JUZ DOING DIS TO EARN... ITS EITHER FOR THE REASON NA CLA ANG BREADWINNER, OR MAYBE LYK ME THAT I NID 2 FINANCE MYSELF PRA MKAPAG STUDY... GNUN LNG PO UN... PERO SIEMPRE EVEYBODY HAS ITS OWN WEAKNESS, AT SA AMING MGA MPA... THATS 2 FALL IN LOVE WID OUR GUESTS >>>>MAY ASAWA;GF<<< MAN OR WALA... U CANT BLAME IS GUYS... VERY HARD TO ACCEPT, PERO 22O,,,..... :hypocritesmiley:  :hypocritesmiley:  :hypocritesmiley:  :hypocritesmiley:  :mtc:  :mtc:  :mtc:  :grr:

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checkline_princess, there's nothing wrong with falling in love with your guests but I must say that falling in love doesn't come on a one night stand. I still believe that love is something developed in a person. If we fall for the right reasons then we can expect that something good will come out of that love.

Guys, meron lang akong tanong... can we truly say that we can love a MPA if in the first place eh yung reason kaya natin sila nakilala is because we need SEX? And we paid them just to release our sexual energies and we do different stuff to these girls... then after all these things have happened we say, "I think I am falling for this MPA?" Same is true for the MPA's, after your guest have done different positions that you can ever imagine with you and you say, "I am falling in love with my guest..." Then I must believe as the song says, "LOVE A MOVES IN MYTERIOUS WAYS."

KUPALKING says it all, "Magpakatotoo lang tayo..."

nge mpa na hindi nag papagamit o extra anu yun nang uuto, lahat ng mpa nag sextra sa labas o loob ng mp, sinung magtitip sa kanila ng malaki kung walang sex at puro masahe lang

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i know of an ngo who are into saving women who are into prostitution. sarap na trabaho yata yon kasi gabi-gabi nasa mga MPs at KTVs ka. As what Torix experienced, the only way to save these women is if you give them alternatives to what they are doing and most of all if they are willing to cooperate and leave behind their work (plus the perks) and start anew.

basang basa mo na nga script na sasabihin nila eh, may anak sila single parent hindi pinanagutan ng ama ng bata, may pamilya sa probinsya na umaasa sa kanila at may mga pinapaaral na mga kapatid, na rape ng tiyuhin o step father kaya naging ganito ang buhay nila,wala ng makain sa probinsya kaya nakipag sapalaran sa maynila, anu pa ba dahilan kung bakit napunta sa ganito trabaho,

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I'd like to add some more reasons na madalas gamitin: may sakit ang tatay o nanay o kapatid; di kaya sustentuhan ng magulang ang luho (eh di magtiis sa binibigay nila); kailangan ng pang-tuition; kulang ang kita sa mall o sa mga fastfood chain; na-recruit ng kapitbahay; may kapatid na pinag-aaral...etc., etc., etc. A 101 reasons why they love the NBA este MPA pala...

pag maluho kasi kahit anu gagawin kahit ibenta at ipaarkila ang katawan, pag madaling makuntento eh kahit anung trabaho ok na

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This thread really gets interesting now. We now have the point of view of those we fall in love with (sexylicker and checkline princess).

Guys, let's face the fact that it is doubly hard for the mpa's once they fell in love with us. Can they control their emotions just as much as we can't whenever we fall for them? Can they handle a relationship like the way we do with them? For them, they will always have that guilt lingering whenever they engage in their work. Now tell me, how hard is it for them to fall for a guy and yet they have to show some affection to other men whom they really don't love? Add to that the fact that they will always think of the guy whom they fell in love with whenever they service to their guests.

In the game of love, nothing is really fair and square. There will always be hitches and we can't avoid them. You just have to live with it and go with the blows.

I agree with you kupalking on your thoughts on why mpas do go for this kind of work. Easy money comes with higher risk.

But still we have to take into our minds that no matter what the reason of the mpa is for working as such, they are still humans, capable of falling in love and definitely worthy to be loved by anyone.

PEACE!

My friend is also in this similar situation. And Iam worried coz padalas nag padalas ang meeting nila. I advice him to stop the relatioship coz it will only break up his family, career. Kaso I'm also at fault coz I am his excuse for going out of the house and I even lend him my car if he needed it. One time the car was seen by my relative and was surprise since I seldom go out of town and hate driving far coz I easily all asleep while driving. Up to now I can't explain to my wife and I'm sure its is still at her back of her mind that I am the one seen, since I'm not at home or at the office that day. I'm encouraging him to join MTC so that he can read the post here.    

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Guys, eto ang kanta para sa mga menyaks na na-iinlove sa MPA's

Ipagpatawad mo, aking kapangahasan

Binibini ko, sana'y maintindihan

Alam kong kailan lang tayo nagkatagpo

Ngunit parang sa 'yo ayaw nang lumayo

Di ka masisi, na ako ay pagtakhan

Di na dapat ako pagtiwalaan

Alam kong kailan lang tayo nagkatagpo

Ngunit parang sa 'yo ayaw nang lumayo

Ipagpatawad mo minahal kita agad

Aaahhh... minahal kita agad

Ooohhh... minahal kita agad

Ipagpatawad mo, ooohhh...

Sana naman, ipagpatawad mo

Ang malabis na, kabilisan ko

Ngunit ang lahat ng ito'y Totoo

PEACE!!!

tnx pre, kung minsan talagang iniisip ko rin yan eh. kaya lang how can i fight for a relationship where only i believe in? alam kong mahal niya ako pero masyado na rin syang na-brainwash ng mga kasama niya sa trabaho eh, na walang lalaking magseseryoso sa isang babaeng nagtatrabaho sa isang mp. yoko na, masyadong masakit sa ulo at sa puso. before i met her my life was so stress-free, why should i complicate it?

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you made the right decision gl3nn. fighting for someone who is not really worth fighting for is a hopeless case. tama yung sinabi nung isang mtc guy, kaya mo bang tanggapin na gabi-gabi iba bf niya (if that's what she calls them)?

i guess the insecurities will only go if you are willing to take them out of the mp where they work and live with them for the rest of your life. I tell you, it'll take a whole lot of money to do that coz not only will you support the mpa but her family as well. try back reading and you'll learn from mtc guys who've gone through the same situation.

take it easy and go back to your normal self. you'll see that life is more fun when you are worry free. enjoy!!!

fell in love with one, pero she just broke my heart. grabe, nahulog talaga ako. kaya lang meron pa pala siyang ibang lalake. some would say that i should just stay just for the freebies, pero mahirap kapag nahulog ka na sa kanya eh. at napakadaling mahulog sa kanya kasi sobrang sweet niya at talagang napakaasikaso niya sa akin. di ba pareng bigdumpling?    ilang beses ko nang sinubukan tapusin pero iniiyakan niya ako para lang wag ko daw siyang iwanan. mahal na mahal daw niya ako at di raw niya kayang mawala ako. pero kanina mukhang tuluy-tuloy na at talagang hiwalay na kami. desisdido na ako kasi wala namang patutunguhan itong relasyon namin eh. di naman niya ako pineperahan kasi di nga siya tumatanggap ng pera sa akin. wala pa nga akong naibibigay sa kanya na lalampas ng 500 ang value. kaya kong tanggapin na ganun trabaho niya pero yung meron siyang iba na nakikita kong mahal na mahal niya parang di ko kaya. nung unang malaman ko sige ok lang, parang mas ok nga eh kasi naisip kong walang emotional attachment ito at talagang fubu lang. kaya lang nahulog talaga ako eh. sa tingin niyo mga pre, tama ba desisyon kong tapusin na?

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gl3nn, falling in love with that girl is alright but I think keeping her under the circumstances you have mentioned needs a second thought. for me, you made the right decision to call it quits. what's the purpose of keeping a relationship and having another one occupying your heart? what's the real score between the girl and the other guy? is she keeping him for security purposes? (you know - money, regular guest, etc., etc.).

guys, it's okay to fall in love with mpas but I'm telling you, it won't be easy as you may think it is. it is as abnormal as it can get. enjoy the moment with them and that's it. relax and never try to be serious about it. if "s**t" happens, it happened for a reason. if love prevails then "love moves in a mysterious way..." JUST THINKIN' ALOUD.

I know what you mean... pero we should exercise the mind over heart principle.

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There is this 3-month rule in an illicit relationship like this. It means that if it goes on after 3 months then be ready to face the challenge. Call it mid-life crisis or ego trip but it's gotta be something else especially if it goes on for 9 months.

If you want this to end then you should have a plan on how to get through it. You can't just say NO when you have nothing to back up that NO. You can't STOP if you don't know when and where to apply the breaks. But then again, easier said than done. Be not afraid then, you gotta start somewhere if you want to go on with life. Take it one step at a time. If I have to be religious and biblical about this (I hope it's not out of place in this thread), Jesus took the way to the cross a step at a time with matching falls (3) on this sides. And guess what, He made it and won the price for us.

I tell you, this topic fascinates the hell out of me. First of all, I never thought I would actually fall for a girl like this but well, there it was and it happened and now it's over and we're both kind of torn up over it but it had to happen. My gal was perfect to the core. She would sleep with me and hold me all night... ALL NIGHT I TELL YOU! ARRRRGGGGHHH, I can't forget how nice that felt. She was so loving and companssionate... tender, caring, smiling, just a really nice church going girl who's last few words were me were "I'm a prostitute." God, it killed me. I wanted to save her, like what I think I hear a lot of you guys saying out there but alas, it can't happen. Oh but man... I tried. I bought her a car, tried to get her set up in businesses, etc. I guess the 9 months cost me around $7k but she is, bless her soul, dropping about P5k a month in my account to pay off the car. I really don't care about the money. I just miss her.

 

Geez guys, we all ought to meet and drink a bunch of beer and have a good cry over our experiences. As for myself, I'm 40-ish and was really living out a fantasy that this girl knew could not continue. I'm so thankful to her for killing the relationship. We tried to on 3 other occasions but couldn't. I think we were successful on this attempt. But yeah, the thought of her getting banged all day (she would be brutally honest with me on these things and said that at least twice a month, she was doing five guys a day) kills me coz I really believe she's a nice girl in a difficult situation. But the "good" news is, I really don't think she is too bent out of shape over it. She's trying to get enough money to get her family a house and lot and now, after being there for about 2 years, she has about P700k saved up. But then what? I always wonder what happens to a girl like that. When she gets too old to make money laying on her back and then all the money is gone, what does she do then? She quit school and has no real skills. I taught her to drive and gave her a car... maybe that will help somehow?

 

I don't know... I'm just rambling. I guess we do what we can and wish our fellow humans all the best. God though... I still really miss her... I miss my fantasy...

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Here's a guy who's been there, done that... Whew!!! Quite an experience for a guy huh... This thread gets to be interesting by the day. If you think you're alone in falling for a MPA, you should "read and learn" from the experience of those who are writing on this thread.

"Will you love a MPA if she really loves you." Let's talk about love. Do we (us & the MPA) love for the right reasons? Do we fall for the MPA just like the way we did to our first girlfriends? Does the MPA really fall for us or is it just a great feeling of being loved rather than being used? What is the basis of our love for the MPA? These are the questions that we ignore most of the time because our minds are clouded with our emotions and feelings. Richard Gere did it in "Pretty Woman" so why can't we guys do it? Is it possible?

STOP for a while, re-assess the situation and plan if you really want to pursue the MPA. If she loves you in return, then YOU'RE THE MAN. If she doesn't, then move on and get on with your life. Take the lessons in LOVE from your experience and learn to grow. Love for the right reasons and you shall have all the reason to a right love.

been there once. its not a good story to tell but for the benefit of having the dillema here's the story.

 

once, i went to an MP. a popular one along Q. ave. Got my MPA and damn she was beautiful. Yes, we had great sex and the story begins...

 

i asked for her #, she gave it. We met the next day and spent the whole night together. We had series of meetings and boy, it was satisfying. Weeks passed we were regularly meeting. I asked her if I could drive her home. I didnt know what went into my head but I thought of driving her home so I could meet her parents. I am just being a gentleman I thought. I took her home, but I didnt had the chance to meet her parents the first time. Our next date, I met her parents. They were nice. Her parents doesnt know where we met and where she is working. She introduced me to them and I felt something special for this girl.

 

Soon, we were like in a relationship, and boom eventually there we were. She stopped working as an MPA. Her family welcomed me and treated me like their own.

 

But now here's the problem, not to brag about, "may kaya ako". And they are somehow less fortunate. I showed them a good life. Bought them good food and an occasional treats etc... Her family started talking about when we would tie the knot with their daughter. I just said soon. Coz I thought, this is for real. I dug my ex-GF out of the hell hole. And its like an achievement for me to save one soul.

 

We were having a good time for sometime, but later on... I noticed that she kinda distant from me. There were several times I was surprised knowing that she went out of their house and when I ask her mom, her mom simply says "ewan ko. basta na lang umalis". I had a suspicion that she is having an affair with somebody else or making extra as an MPA. My suspicion grew that she was having an affair. To the point that we get into fights caused by my paranoia. But my instinct was proven to be true. She was seeing somebody else. Somebody who's richer and older than I am. Right there and then I want to smack her in the face. She told me that the guy was just a friend (yeah right!!) but i believed her.

 

That time I was confused. Her family treating me like their own but thinking that they are just taking advantage of me. A girlfriend who says she changed and love me true but suddenly enjoying the company of a DOM. Man, she made a fool out of me!!! I even ignored what was happening and giving a meaning to the saying "Love is blind". Through the help of my friends, I decided to ditch her. She is not worth it.

 

For those who are in this situation, think twice. Think hard. Just when you thought everything is ok, you thought you did the right thing, you thought you helped her out and suddenly when the unexpected hits you, it hits you the hardest! Yes they are women who have the ability to fall inlove even though they know nobody would take them seriously in a relationship but there are also women who only thinks of themselves.... I was serious. I thought she was too. I loved her, but she took advantage of it. These are life's precious lesson to me. I hope it wont happen to you.

 

Thanks for reading. I hope it made sense...

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Thanks Johnny Bravo for the story. It really made sense. Some guys here might have picked up a few lessons on falling in love with an mpa.

I shared my experience with the mpa I mentioned here to my bestfriend and guess what she told me (it might be of help to you guys), "RELAX!!!! DON'T OVER ANALYZE YOUR SITUATION 'COZ YOU SHOULD ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS NOT NORMAL (hard to accept that one guys)" It's true, we should just relax and enjoy every moment we have with the mpa. Only time can tell if that mpa is really true to you or she is just using you.

hindi naman natin puwede kaawaan lahat ng ganitong babae you can't save them all fom there misrable life, kung mainlove man sa kanila ang primary reason ay awa talaga, kaso ang masama baka madamay ka sa paglubog ng buhay nila sa huli

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I find this topic interesting coz I am curently involved with a former mpa who just quit her job (not because of me though - it's her personal decision to quit). Let me share with you our story. It's not your usual start off point - as in great sex and then talk. We talked first. My friend gave me the number of the mpa and I called her. Good thing coz we clicked from the very first time we talked on the celphone. As in we spent an hour talking to each other the very first time. At first, wala lang sa akin. Then I just found myself talking to her everyday on the phone. Add to that the constant texting to each other the whole day. As in para talagang matagal na kaming magkakilala.

For two months we were constantly in touch with each other through the celphone. She didn't have a landline so you could just imagine my CP bills. We spent hours talking on the phone and there were times that we would spend until 2am talking. And mind you we were not using Sun. We are both using Globe. At that time she was still working in an mp. It didn't matter to me then coz I told my self that we were only friends. She would even tell me stories about the guys who took her in the mp and vice versa she would tell the guys about me. It even came to a point when she would ask her guests if I were them coz she feared then that I would one-way her coz she didn't know how I looked like. Unfortunately for her, I know her number at the mp.

Then it hit her - she just fell in love with me over the phone. I didn't know that constant communication could actually make a person fall in love. Funny coz she still haven't seen me. My friend who gave me her number gave a description of her. According to my friend this mpa tops in the mp where she worked. In fact if you visit the site of the mp here in mtc you will find a lot of fr's regarding their experience with this mpa. And all fr's about her are good. Highly recommended.

Finally, we set a date when we would meet after 3 months of just talking on the phone. I told her that I would never go to the mp to take her as my mpa. I just didn't like the idea that I befriend her just to take advantage of her in an mp. So where did I meet her? I met her outside the mp where she worked. She was on duty then and she just came out to see me. Sweet di ba? Whoah! She is really beautiful. Our first meeting was brief since she still has to work.

After that came the great sex thingy and many more great sex nights to follow. As if you were gone for a long time and when you came back it's marathon sex. Til then, I am not yet that serious with this mpa but I could feel that she really is hooked up with me. Still we maintained what we've started - as friends. There will always be that respect for her I had since we started off as friends and not as my mpa.

Of course it's not blissful as you may think this maybe. We argue sometimes. She also gets jealous with my other girl friends. We fought about things. But still inspite of all these things happening to us I never got to feel anything for her. Just pure friendship is all I've got to offer. After a month or so, I felt that her feelings for me is slowly fading. I tried to do things that would make her come back to me and sometimes it worked. Problem now is, I am feeling something for her. I am trying to control it but something just hit me. It made me long for her more often. Gone are the great sex nights but we are still in constant communication and would go out sometimes. Lesson for me is, when our relationship mattered to her most I didn't care. Now I am the one who is asking for her attention.

Lately, we spoke to each other and finally we settled the score between us. She told me that why don't we just go back to where we started - as friends, as in best of friends. She told me that she would again like to have the feeling of having someone there for her. That's how we got close to each other by the way. I was there for her when she broke up with a married guy whom she had a relationship during her stint at the mp. She felt really bad about the break up and I was there to cheer her up even if it was just through the CP.

I don't know yet where this would lead to. But hopefully this experience will somehow give guys here some lessons in falling for an mpa. First you've got to treat them well - as in respect them for who they are and what they are. I never got jealous of those guys who took her as mpa in the mp. I always tell her that I understand her situation and it is just a stage in life that she'll go through. Second, make them feel that they are important to you. No matter how lowly their job may be, they are still doing it for a purpose. And lastly, put into our minds that they too have feelings. They are entitled to fall in love and no one can take that away from them.

Thanks guys from mtc for reading this.