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Nagyari na ba sa inyo habangbnag make love kayo iba name nasabi niya? Away na ba pag ganun?

Sa awa di naman nangyari yun ever

Pano kayo nakaktulog pag duty thera loves ninyo? Knowing may kasama iba at kung ano ano ginagawa nila

During the time na nasa industry pa sya ako usually last guest nya pero the times na di ako nakakapunta talagang putol putol tulog ko

Hindi ba pumasok sa isip ninyo; thanks for c@mming; hope you enjoyed my gfs body; sa uulitin ah muah muah sabay hatid sa labas may pahabol pang kiss gf mo sa gm na babalikan siya next week; how do you guys na in love handle that

Sobrang hirap talaga. Fortunately in my case yung mga fr sa kanya were very vague so tiwala nalang sa sinasabi nya. Mas ok na ngayon since she's out of the industry but it still bothers me every now and then pero what can i do. Take the good with the bad, isipin nalang na kung hindi din naman dahil sa industry di ko sya makikilala.

Good for the Both of you. Mas okay kung hindi na nya bubuksan MTC Account nya.

Yup she doesn't open it anymore. I think the last time she did was a week after leaving the industry may mga GM nga na nagpm asking where she is and asking to meet up but she just replied na she's retired and not coming back.

I assume she doesnt have an MTC account.

She does but doesn't open it anymore. She was never active on mtc and never posted. She just used it to read updates.

If it's jealousy and she isn't giving any lead nevertheless don't be jealous I know it's hard but don't be paranoid. However the challenge is does she still keep an open communication to her clients ?

 

If yes then the solution is communication still

 

In an ideal relationship you have to have your do's and dont's as funny as it sounds I learned that the hard way.

 

List the things that you don't like seeing and you should also ask her what she doesn't like

 

The fact that you met here that's supposed to be the first thing that you discuss with her .

 

I wish you well bro do keep us posted

 

Don't let your anger take over you if she ain't giving you any reason, chill play your cards right

She has ceased communication with her former clients (afaik). Actually even when she was in the industry naman she didn't really have an open communication with her clients and if ever mostly over social media lang. She has also changed her number several times since leaving the industry. In fact may mga nag pm nga sa kanya here on mtc after she left the industry but she shrugged them off saying na she is not interested in the offers and she already has a boyfriend.

Meeting her folks is no joke. What you've been through is not an easy road. We're glad that things are working out well for you.

At the end of the day, selfishly, all that matters is how you both feel for each other.

It isn't easy at all even up to now, more than yung selos nung time na she was still in the industry meron pa din complication sa relationship namin na mas masakit sa ulo. Buti nalang andyan sister nya na parati nag uupdate sa akin and kampi talaga sa akin.

Appreciate the well wishes.

kaya naman pala di makita kahit saang spa after nung early march, binakuran mo na pala

 

pag bumalik ulit yan sa spa, maraming gms na mapapasugod haha

 

kaya good luck sa pagsagot sa kanya financially

Are we talking of the same person? I have a feeling we are but to your point, d naman sa binakuran ko, she really wanted to leave the industry na din. We hit it off around january pa and she left 1st week of march. With regards to her going back, as of now she has no plans and hopefully won't consider it again. She considered it sometime late march due to financial needs but i was able to convince her not to. As for my providing for her, i think i'm able to give her the basic needs naman and minsan damay ng konti family nya. I think we're beyond the money na even when she was still in the industry kasi sya na nagsasabi sakin back then na wag ko na sya bigyan ng tip it was only me who kept on insisting na umabot nga sa point na nagalit pa sya sakin one time kasi pinipilit ko talaga bigyan sya. I know there is still that possibility that bumalik sya due to financial needs but hopefully she doesn't. Right now i'm trying to persuade her to go back to school and finish her senior high since 1 year nalang naman. Sayang din since she came from a private school. Also, right ow we're trying to iron out some complications in our relationship, meron kasi hurdle na ang hirap alisin.

 

good luck and more power to the both of you sir... if there's a will there's a way naman... gawan nyo ng paraan hehehe

 

di naman need ma-meet 100% ng kinikita nya.. nako ang laki nun hahaha! ang importante eh, ma-support yung needs nya 100%, in a way na "sapat" para di na sya bumalik.. sacrifices would be made of course, sa inyo parehas.. well, lalo na sa kanya... pero kung gusto, laging may paraan!

 

kung bumalik ba sya para mapunuan yung needs nya? iiwan mo na? unfair naman un diba? nagkulang ka eh...

Di ko naman masasabi na nagkulang ako kasi from the onset naman sinabi ko din sa kanya na di naman ako mayaman, tamang may trabaho lang. She doesn't demand din naman either. Like yesterday nag grocery kami and sya mismo nagsasabi na tama na kasi mahal na masyado. Very simple person sya and nadala lang dati kaya pumasok ng spa. She was only in the industry less than 3 months. Siguro parang phase lang din sa buhay nya yung pag pasok nya. we were talking about it last night and sya naman mismo nagsabi tama na yun. Enough na yung pinasok nya sa spa and ayaw na din nya talaga.

talagang nagkakamali lang yung iba dahil sa MALING AKALA at ASSUMPTIONS... theras work to supply a need, and its an easy "fix"... we shouldn't look at it any different.. they do this day in and day out... with a lot of GMs... regulars or not....

 

AKALA mo in-love ka na? AKALA mo in-love din sayo? dahil may na-share kayong intimacy... AKALA mo sa'yo lang ginawa? dahil na-sweet talk ka and vice versa? baka? get REAL people! hehehe

 

we have an amazing time when we're with them.. well, so does everybody else!

 

don't complicate things by involving "LOVE" in the equation, just have fun while they're still there and while you still can

 

BUT.... if you did FELL for her.. wait for the right time to pursue... WHEN SHE RETIRES AND LEAVE THE INDUSTRY! and if she's willing to do that for you now... prepare yourself to support her 100%... otherwise, babalik at babalik parin sya.

In our case i am not able to support her 100% in fact malayo sa 100% ng kinikita nya when she was in the industry, actually halos basic needs lang nabibigay ko. Just fortunate that even though we have a hard time getting ends to meet she's not bent on going back to the spa industry(at least for now) and hopefully for good. I'm now trying to convince her to finish her studies.

I think as long as the insomnia is caused by something bothering you then no choice but meds. But if it's just boredom my remedy is music or the TV, after an hour of watching TV i suddenly feel sleepy.

Tiger wins the masters

Currently in one although not so secret anymore since nalaman na nung other party

tibay lng mga bros be strong

That's exactly what i'm trying to do.

Why do guys try to find love on spa and mp?

Im not trying to be an antagonist here,

I mean, if you're looking for love i think you should be better off asking an officemate, someone you know from college out or ask a friend to set you up on a date. You'd have higher chance of finding the real thing.

Worse, if you're really hooked with the thera, ask her out. And if she doesn't want to - it's you're queue to move on.

There are millions of fish in thr sea. And these fish are also looking for thr same thinf as you - sex.. err i meant Love.

You just have to drag your sorry ass out and have fun meeting new people

I wasn't. That was comoletely the opposite. I went to the spa that night drunk planning to just go there and get a quick fix then go home. Lo and behold we hit it off then 1 visit led to another then to another and another and so on. She is now out of the industry though i know i will not be able to provide her with what she was earning when she was still in the industry since she was earning a minimum of 7k a day then since she was a top thera. Any day that she would report for work you would definitely see her name as #1 when the top list came out. Since she has left the industry i have met her parents and her siblings, we hang out at her house. Though it's still really complicated now looks like things will get better.

Wag ibigay ang lahat. Magtira. Easy to say hard to do pag andun ka na sa situation.

Kabit ako

In a way same situation

Fell for someone i shouldn't have pero you can't dictate on love e. Pag tinamaan ka tinamaan ka. Now pinaglalaban ko relationship namin, doing everything to survive.

When i fell for her i didn't know she was taken at that time. Although kakaiba kasi same sex yung ka relationship nya, until ow complicated pa din relationship namin.

Bait ng parents nya and mukang in favor of us. Sana talaga tuloy tuloy na.

1 step forward kami, nag meet the parents na. Pumunta ako sa house nila tagal namin nag kwentuhan ng parents nya and sister nya. Sana tuloy tuloy na.

Kami sobrang complicated. Met her sa spa dec 2018 then halos each time na pumasok sya pinupuntahan ko up to naging close na kami sobra. She's in a relationship pero di guy yung ka relationship nya. I have since been able to convince her to quit the spa industry(she quit 1st week of march) pero sila pa din ng ka relationship nya, iniwan na nya actually a few weeks ago pero nag makaawa na magpapakamatay so naawa sya and binalikan. So.ngayon may may bf sya(me) and may gf. Tapos ngayon each time we see each other katakot takot na palusot pa ginagawa nya. Pero one good thing for me us she has already told her mom about me and gusto na ako makilala ng mom nya so mukang mas boto sa akin yung mom nya.

paano kung bumalik? naka handa ba kayo mapahamak?

Yung ex thera ng gf ko now so far the last time we talked about it d na daw sya babalik ng spa pero of course she has financial needs and when push comes to shove sheight be forced to come back. If and when that time comes ive conditioned myself to let go since d ko talaga kakayanin na nasa spa sya. The question is kayanin ko ba to let go. That ill have to find out.

 

Exactly! Kaya dapat just enjoy our time with them without falling (kahit mahirap minsan magcomply dito). Pero syempre, meron din mga Thera na talagang genuinely na nahuhulog din sa Client nila (very very rare).

The day I met her that was my mindset as has been eversince, pasok paservice get out then bahala na if i avail her again but things happen. Really can't pinpoint why this time around i fell.

Nalintikan na.. Namimiss ko na siya lately.🤣🤣🤣

Ganyan talaga sir. Pareho tayo haha complicated kasi situation namin