joggernaut

I've tried that already but the consequence is bad. it's really hard to always hide from other people.

Patience and a lot of understanding, you can never last in a relationship if you don't know how to be patient or understanding. You need to trust your partner.

My Partner is one of the most honest person I know, I trust her ... if somebody tries to court her I know she will let the person realize that she's committed already. since magkalayo kami, the best thing I can do is to still trust her, she is matured enough to handle that kind of situation.

My partner has never read my Phone inbox yet, but if she insists then I will let her read it since wala naman ako tinatago sa kanya hehehe. I always make sure na kung mambababae ako there should be no strings attached.

last night i had a spooky experience that gave me goosebumps all over... I normally use/carry

two cellphone... Manyakis that I am... I went to my favorite club along Quezon Ave...

After using one cellphone to txt an FM ... to ask about a particular girl/'regular'...

I check my other cellphone to find out if there were any messages or calls...

and lo and behold... in the create message menu was a reply...

I didn't keyed in that message and nobody in the club circuit knew the cell# pang-trabaho

lang yung cellphone na yun!!!...I had not drank anything yet... and if someone did sent

the txt... it should be in the Inbox menu...right???? the cellphone was in my pocket... no one could have

used it...VERY EERIE INDEED..... decided to all it a night... 8pm pa lang yun!!! lost interest...

HAVE YOU HAD ANY SIMILAR EXPERIENCE???? HOW COULD IT BE RATIONALLY EXPLAINED???

it might be because you haven't locked your phone and somebody texted you (might be a wrong sent as well) then you accidentally pressed the edit button ..... so it appears that the message you received is in your create message option.

Count me in....

My suddenly got lonely when I found a new girlfriend. After the break up: we rarely talk and we didn't text or call each other anymore. I can see the loneliness in her eyes when she was still here in the office.

love has taught me lately that you need to spend a lot of time with somebody to know her better, happiness/fulfillment in relationship cannot be attained instantly .... you will build it brick by brick.

It's funny that you mentioned having a wild side. My ex, a normal, sometimes good guy (my biased opinion after the breakup, of course), was never able to reconcile himself with the fact that I have a more adventurous side despite the strict code of ethics that I live by. Yes, I was -- and still am -- a nice girl in public, did and said all the right things and was always courteous and polite et cetera et cetera ad nauseum ad infinitum because that's how my parents raised me, but when we were together in private, I was open to doing things that, in his opinion, belied my good girl image. To me, there was never a disconnection between these two sides, especially within the context of a relationship, but he seemed to find it unnerving, to say the least, and yes, it was one of the reasons the relationship eventually went sour.

 

And therein lies the rub. Men are always saying that they "want a lady in the street and a freak in the sheets," to quote a once-popular song, yet when they get one, they don't seem to know what to do with her. Why? Is it the eternal "be careful what you wish for" syndrome? Maybe a case of cold feet? Maybe, maybe not. Whatever his reasons for behaving the way he did, I refuse to let his actions influence my thoughts and feelings about the other men I might meet and want. Call me an idiot for being an eternal optimist, but I still believe that there are good guys out there and that I might meet one someday who will want to stick around. It's a wide world, after all.

 

My two cents' worth. Peace.

You have a point here caramelkisses ... being a good girl in public or having a nice image from people around you doesn't mean that you are prohibiting yourself of being adventurous or sometimes wild in private, I have this kind of Ex before who has a very very good image on her family and friends but when we're in private ... she's a very adventurous/open minded girl trying new things. You are like my ex caramel kisses ... can we be friends? LOL

my exit line would be:

Our relationship won't really work, Im giving you an opportunity to be happier with someone else.

Which of these two you find the hardest thing to say or admit, "I'm Sorry" or "I Love You" ?

 

Please tell us your thoughts about it.

to be honest with you .... saying "Sorry" and "I love you" ... for me it's not really a hard thing to do.

ang hirap ng ganung babae ..... siguro iL make sure muna na tanggap nya na yung paghihiwalay namin bago ko sya tuluyang iwan ... iL stay as her friend muna siguro during those times na mahirap sa knya na tanggapin ang bagay na yun.

I did beg to my Ex before ... she forgave me for a while but after a couple of days she finally decided to stop the relationship.

My Ex is with her ugly but rich boyfriend right now.

Most or almost all UGLY Men that I saw with their beautiful girlfriends are Men with lots of money with or without the sense of humor or intelligence, therefore ... UGLY Men are being loved by beautiful Women for the main reason that they have lots of Money.

yung nililigawan ko na girl during college days: "iispatan na lang kita, kapag may nakita ako sabihin ko sayo" <-- hehehehe nung college days yun

Patience .... that is what love has taught me lately.

If I like the girl who is already taken I would rather not to pursue her .... but if I really really like the girl and if there are sparks between us then I might pursue her.

the first thing that comes to my mind if my Girlfriend is not virgin anymore is that she is ........ Horny ..... and magaling sa kama.

worked out very hard .... listened to RNB songs.

flirting is for woman only ....

If your Girlfriend got cheated and got pregnant it only means she doesn't value the relationship. Imagine Pre ... pagtatawanan ka ng mga taong nakakakilala sayo, it is not a good advise na gawin mo syang kaibigan right away ... if she considers you a friend she will not hurt you.

damn .... sana dalawa ang puso ko ....... my conscience keeps bugging me.

it's really depressing ....

I can't really imagine that my girlfriend would cheat on me and got pregnant, siguro kung mangyayari yun biglang mawawala feelings ko sa knya.