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I will try and get to know the top ones in QC myself to find out because this is an interesting subject matter to me

and also a wonderful excuse (winks)

Mayron po talagang ganon kahit anong effort at the end wala parin,,,ibig sabihin pinagtagpo lang, pero hindi tinadhana

wow nicely said

Respect them as people and not just meat? lololol. Then why do u pay them for sex and exploit them for ur own sexual needs,assuming, of course, ur one of the true gms here.i can understand na sa mundo ng mga Gms at theras,normal lng bayaran sila to do sexual favors for u but in the real world ang tawag Jan sexual trafficking of women.kaya nga nireraid yan bec its illegal to pay and exploit women for sex! Flashing the word respect without regard for its TRUE meaning counts for nothing because empty words mean nothing.it just makes a one a hypocrite!

 

if that's your point of view.. i can't argue with that..

that's your loss (of humanity) not mine.

Its funny how people here will always say respect the theras.how do you even propose to do that when you pay these women for sex or sexual favors ,whatever it maybe. Where do you think respect comes in under that scenario? Riddle me that!

respect in the sense that we treat them as people, not just meat... not disregarding their feelings, limitations and the fact that they do this kind of work to serve a purpose.

riddle me that? lol

nasa huli ang pagsisisi... kaya wag magpapa "huli" lol.

My dog playing with my cat! awh cuties hihihi

Sensitive. Hopeless romantic.

Interesting site to find "like" minds hehehe..

Had lunch with femcasanova last Thursday (April 25)...

I saw her post a status some time ago, and i kinda related to it.. she got sad listening to love songs as I was then (break-up woes) so i messaged her and she answered back.. fast forward a couple of days and we were chatting like good friends and asked if she would like to meet sometime... chance had it that her boss was away last week so we had lunch

First the weird part hihihi... as I was waiting for her to get to our meeting place, a resto at Robinsons with a smoking area , there was this other lady who was eyeing me and then approached me... "Hi, are you Jake?" so i said "Yes I am! are you Fem?" and she was "Yes I am!" hahaha... AWKWARD!! she doesn't look like her! so i kept asking, "are you really her? you sent me a photo, you don't look the same... is that really you?" and she was like "Yes its me, I'm PAM!"... we exchanged phones to show our messages... IT WAS DIFFERENT!!! so long story short.... there's another Pam (kinda sound like Fem) meeting a Jake at the exact time and at the exact location that day! lol what are the odds!! and when I saw another lady come in going our direction who looked familiar, i said to her! NO you're not her!!! i'm waiting for HER (pointing)!!! hahaha... both Fem and I got a good laugh out of that one... kinda broke the ice really quick..

We ordered some food and while waiting. had some fun topics to talk about... femcasanova style hehehe... she's very easy to talk to.. her personality here at MTC, the way she chats, tells her real life stories and the like... that's really her and I enjoyed being with someone so familiar to me that I was opening up stuff usually reserved for long time friends... she radiates an air of confidence and authority which I find sexy and at the same time a warmth that makes you just want to talk to her even more...

We never had a dull moment... Thanks femcasanova you're one hell of a gal! lets do that again sometime!!

Di ko naman masasabi na nagkulang ako kasi from the onset naman sinabi ko din sa kanya na di naman ako mayaman, tamang may trabaho lang. She doesn't demand din naman either. Like yesterday nag grocery kami and sya mismo nagsasabi na tama na kasi mahal na masyado. Very simple person sya and nadala lang dati kaya pumasok ng spa. She was only in the industry less than 3 months. Siguro parang phase lang din sa buhay nya yung pag pasok nya. we were talking about it last night and sya naman mismo nagsabi tama na yun. Enough na yung pinasok nya sa spa and ayaw na din nya talaga.

waaah :wub:

ganda ng love story nyo bro kung ganon... Happy that you found each other even in the most awkward of circumstances...

best wishes to the both of you

try to avoid certain MTC threads na bro hehehe... actually, best if you don't post anymore... let it flow on its own...

In our case i am not able to support her 100% in fact malayo sa 100% ng kinikita nya when she was in the industry, actually halos basic needs lang nabibigay ko. Just fortunate that even though we have a hard time getting ends to meet she's not bent on going back to the spa industry(at least for now) and hopefully for good. I'm now trying to convince her to finish her studies.

good luck and more power to the both of you sir... if there's a will there's a way naman... gawan nyo ng paraan hehehe

di naman need ma-meet 100% ng kinikita nya.. nako ang laki nun hahaha! ang importante eh, ma-support yung needs nya 100%, in a way na "sapat" para di na sya bumalik.. sacrifices would be made of course, sa inyo parehas.. well, lalo na sa kanya... pero kung gusto, laging may paraan!

kung bumalik ba sya para mapunuan yung needs nya? iiwan mo na? unfair naman un diba? nagkulang ka eh...

talagang nagkakamali lang yung iba dahil sa MALING AKALA at ASSUMPTIONS... theras work to supply a need, and its an easy "fix"... we shouldn't look at it any different.. they do this day in and day out... with a lot of GMs... regulars or not....

AKALA mo in-love ka na? AKALA mo in-love din sayo? dahil may na-share kayong intimacy... AKALA mo sa'yo lang ginawa? dahil na-sweet talk ka and vice versa? baka? get REAL people! hehehe

we have an amazing time when we're with them.. well, so does everybody else!

don't complicate things by involving "LOVE" in the equation, just have fun while they're still there and while you still can

BUT.... if you did FELL for her.. wait for the right time to pursue... WHEN SHE RETIRES AND LEAVE THE INDUSTRY! and if she's willing to do that for you now... prepare yourself to support her 100%... otherwise, babalik at babalik parin sya.

Graphic Designer... always wanted to be a surgeon (like Shaun Murphy hehehe)

best advice ko nga sa mga na-eengot-engot na (lol).. for now,just give advice on how they should use their money... how to save, how to invest, etc...

be their regular guest parin, PERO don't make her stop unless you're going all the way and help her. lagi silang may reason for doing this kind of work, some very noble and valid reasons pa. and unless you're willing to go the extra mile, it'll just fail.

hopefully, by the time na mag-retire na sila, may stable nang "other" source of income.. yan pede mo na pang-himasukan hahaha, kung kayo talaga, KAYO... kung hindi, just be happy that she moved on... for the better

While we do our best to help them out and for good, half of that responsibility falls on our beloved theras. If they cant find a way how to stay out for good, babalik at babalik din sila dito whether they like it or not.

agree 100%.. the other half falls on the beloved who needs to HELP her cause you have to admit, there's going to be a big chunk of money not coming in for them, laki din kita nila ah, sa pagiging thera.. kaya dapat walang money issues... dapat KAYA mo syang suportahan hanggang dumating yung time na makatayo na sya ulit on her own outside the spa. kung hindi, tama si 国光 babalik at babalik sila dahil yun ang previous na alam nilang makakapuno ng needs nila.

gusto ko sana mag-restore ng ganto dati... DREAM car ko nung teenager ako..

Bumpoff hahahah!

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Nung sinabi niya sa akin na "Mahal kita pero kailangan ko siya." (Gulong gulo pa rin ako hanggang ngayon hindi ko pa rin maintindihan)

classic f-boy excuse! hehehe epic.

you'll never know until you engotized.. ayos ba brotha?

hahaha aus!

I am afraid to visit Supermay. After reading her past post on the old falling for a therapist thread I might end up falling for her Then I am gonna have to compete with the other GMs here for her heart ♥️.

you never know until you try? -- hay daming napahamak ng linya na yan lol..

Questions: Pag meron ka ng minamahal (GF o Asawa) at nagmahal ka ulit ng iba (thera, officemate, new GF), nabawasan ba ang pagmamahal mo sa taong una mong minahal? Ang pagmamahal ba ay parang oras o isang pizza pie, na pag binigay mo sa iba eh mababawasan o mawawalan yung isa?

 

My personal answer, at pwedeng mali ako, pwede kang magmahal ng iba ng hindi nababawasan ang pagmamahal sa "original." Parang ganito lang yan, mahal mo ang iyong asawa. Tas nagka anak kayo..syempre mahal mo rin anak mo pero di nabawasan pagmamahal mo sa misis mo. Tas nagkaanak kayo ulit...syempre mahal mo rin yun pangalawang anak, pero di nababawasan yun pagmamahal mo sa panganay na anak at kay misis.

 

Kaya sa aking pananaw, ang love ay di parehas ng oras (time) o pizza pie na nababawasan pag binigay mo sa iba. Palagay ko, ang love ay parang isang ilaw ng kandila, na pag binigyan mo o inilawan mo ang iba pang mga kandila ay hindi nababawasan ang ilaw o liwanag ng original na kandila.

para sa akin, depende yan eh... what's the most valuable thing we can give to our loved ones? di ba TIME... QUALITY TIME...

kung yung TIME na binibigay mo sa "original" mo ay nabawasan o nai-baling mo sa iba, dun nagkakaron ng complications eh... money, you can always offset that by working harder... effort, madali lang din ipakita sa parehas... pero yung oras, di mo pede hatiin sarili mo sa dalawang tao, so mababawasan talaga... lalo na kung nasanay na kayo parehas na laging may certain TIMES na binibigay sa isa't isa. for me this holds true din sa anak... di nababawasan ang love, you gain with them.. kasi fruit sila ng relationship nyo ng asawa... and TIME you spend with them is what grows all of you into a family.

you won't know... till its too late.. saklap... hahaha!

I'm a simple man. I open the faucet, i see water flowing, i'm happy! NOT! TUBIG!!!!

hehehe

wtf hahaha! may the force be with you!

Wala ako in too deep. Feelings are too deep na to the point na d na ako mapakali

rest ka muna to get your senses back boss... don't think ahead hahaha. minsan kasi we think of scenarios na magkasama na kayo, na kayo na ni theralabs niyo, kung ano ano na pinapasok NATIN sa isip natin na baka ganon na, in-love din sa atin or what... kaya pause ka muna... balik mo yung life mo to BEFORE you met her... don't forget the reason why you went to the spa in the first place... to get R&R&R (Rest, Relaxation & Release!) di yung madagdagan ang stress sa life mo hehehe.. my 2 cents brotha.

na curious ako sa question. hindi ko magets

as per my understanding bro...

Normally, before you fall in love with someone, you need to:

meet, get interested, get to know, courtship then become intimate... last yung pagiging intimate

Pag sa spa, you fall in love differently:

meet, get to know, become intimate, get interested, get to know AGAIN, courtship... may baliktad hahaha

Apply mo yung question with these factors bro... ma-gets mo na yan!