barrackbeard

Just to veer away from the economic side of the discussion. It's also interesting to consider the psychological or mental requirements to be in love with a "lady of the night". Well men are compartmentalized to begin with, or at least most of us can keep things or the aspects of our lives separate from one another. Similarly, we can hold two conflicting ideas or "truths" in our heads at the same time, Like I love "Thera" and I want to be with her constantly and "Thera" is a whore who will suck any one's dick for money. Though maybe a fair amount of self imposed "ignorance" is needed to safely deal with the second truth, or you just put in a box and tuck it far far away. Though in some cases I think there are guys who can shrug it off or maybe they enjoy being cucked? Anyway, its interesting really :-)

 

no, not interesting at all, everybody already know this that it’s already part of common sense

it's not u, it's you

"Learn to discipline your emotions because if you don't your enemies will use it against you." - Bruce Lee. Or for our case our theras will use it to milk us. Ito na yung pinapa ulit ulit ko para maging mindset ko para labanan ang lason na nararamdaman ko.

exactly, i had a thera who is a student, took her out after our only session in the spa... she was nice and soft spoken, di mo akalaing gagatasan ka haha, of course looks are irrelevant, but at least she didnt seem like it

in less than a week, nagpapatulong for her requirement, kailangan ng paprint, bind, pc use sa shop (nasira daw laptop nya), so i gave her 500, went out of my way just to give her 500

in less than a week, kailangan daw nya pacheckup sa dentist nagkaproblema daw yung braces nya, i just gave her 1.5k

i knew na baka ginagatasan lang ako but still gave her the benefit of the doubt and 2k total damage was not a problem

aba, after a week... nakalimutan daw nya bayaran muna yung dorm nya, inuna nya yung tuition khit medyo matagal pa, kailangan daw nya kagad ng cash

never replied again, i received texts and calls everyday for almost a week after that and nagawan na raw nya ng paraan, but never replied again, nambobola pa na miss na nya ko and she likes me haha

i'm pretty sure may mga gms na napafall muna ng thera nila bago gatasan, so sobrang laki ng damage

in my case my max was 2k, more than that, i move on, already got what i wanted

I refer to the first two lines of each paragraph I wrote. That is the fiction I meant.

 

Sorry kung confusing.

then don't stop at fiction, lover boy

fu.ck off old man. all you said was a bunch of trash. im good looking. girls go to me not the other way around ass.hole. the thing of it is, i get girls without having to pay for them but i am here so i sometimes get some, but i don't go off bragging like im king shi.t because i got on with a girl i paid for. not like YOU! stop deflecting your ugliness on to me. halata ka masyado. inulit mo lang yung mga sinabi ko at binalik sa akin adding some other shi.t. you're so dumb you can't even create an original reply. now thats just sad.

 

the reason im even taking a couple of important minutes out of my time on your worthless as.s is because im taking exception to that post of yours bragging about creampies you piece of shi.t, lowlife.

 

Bragging about paying girls gets your rocks off? what a nutjob you are. you really are a loser.

stop pretending to know how to speak in english too, dumb shi.t i just noticed you can't even properly construct a sentence without looking like a fu.cking retard.

 

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People who think creampies on women he paid for, are something to brag about is nothing to be proud of. it just means you're so happy you got a fu.cking achievement. but the reality is it aint an achievement sherlock, it just means you can't get girls in the real world to go out with you so you pay em so they can spend time on you. a worthless sack of shi.t

yeah, sure, you didn't have to be that defensive, but whatever makes you happy, i'm good

all the best

you must be retarded or something. not once did you address what im saying about you. don't put me in the same loser boat you're in. im happy with my life. yours is the crappy life. pathetic loser who gets so much happiness with creampies on people he pays? is that what you think is the measure of a REAL MAN?

 

i guess any ugly mutherfocker like you would be happy if any girl would touch you. having problems getting girls you don't have to pay in order to bed them? i wonder who the loser is between you and me? what a crappy life you have if its getting some measure of happiness from a person you have to pay for in order for them to give you time.

 

you can take your "fast recovery and all the best" and shove em up your ass faggot.

instead of deflecting your sad mediocre issues with getting real women on me, why don't you concentrate on putting your own recovery because only true losers like you who cant get real girls will get their kicks off and start bragging about creampies on people you gotta pay. hahaha

 

if you think bragging about that is something to be proud of then you must be delusional. delusional focking ugly loser

i guess you're on the right track, let everything you hate in your crappy pathetic loser life out

if you feel that no real woman will touch you because you are an ugly mutherfocker, dont worry, there are also REAL MEN you may be interested in and let them shove up your faggot ass

just let all the hatred in you come out, this will be your first stage towards your "fast recovery"

i'll talk to you again when you are ready for the second stage of your transformation

until then, i wish you all the best

you're a loser. and you know you're a loser because you're in denial. pathetic. can't even get girls without paying. nobody outside of an mp would be interested in you. boo hoo for a fuc.king loser like you. who can't real girls. what a sad pathetic life you have. sucks to be you.

you're a loser. and you know you're a loser because you're in denial. pathetic. can't even get girls without paying. nobody outside of an mp would be interested in you. boo hoo for a fuc.king loser like you. who can't real girls. what a sad pathetic life you have. sucks to be you.

you're a loser. and you know you're a loser because you're in denial. pathetic. can't even get girls without paying. nobody outside of an mp would be interested in you. boo hoo for a fuc.king loser like you. who can't real girls. what a sad pathetic life you have. sucks to be you.

so much hate, but thats ok, let it all go

until everything you hate in your sad pathetic life is gone

i'm not sure what fight club thread is all about, but i'm not here to fight

instead, i'm hear to help you get out of the loser hole you're in

if you feel your life sucks, dont worry, eventually, you'll find happiness in your life

hoping for your fast recovery and all the best

I tell her I like her.

She tells me she likes me too.

Most likely, she tells all her gms she like them too.

 

She tells me she misses me.

I miss her too.

But I believe she tells her other gms she misses them too.

 

She tells me that I am special.

She is to me too.

But, for sure all her gms are also special to her too.

 

I tell her I might fall for her.

She tells me she could fall for me too.

 

A nice storyline isn't it?

 

Unfortunately, we know it's a fiction story.

it's not fiction, it's true, she does that to all her gms

only met her once after new year, still texting everyday, but you can really feel the emptiness of the words

after numerous relationships and sex (with theras and personal life), i guess i have already experienced a lot to easily fall

also, there are lots of pussies to fill with cream, target(s) locked

U said that uv been goint out b4 and after xmas, hw bwt this new year? Btw dude, u caught my attention wd ur confession that u ended up with creampies.

U said that uv been goint out b4 and after xmas, hw bwt this new year? Btw dude, u caught my attention wd ur confession that u ended up with creampies.

thats why im here now at mtc, no plans haha

maybe after new year

I think it was more of a lust than love..

yeah, more lust than love

but i'm quite sure its not pure lust as i typically just want one sex if its purely lust then i move on, whether i met the girl randomly, online, through friends, or spas, i feel the same way

surprisingly for her, i felt i wanted more than that, but yeah its not pure love either

been going out with my nuru thera a few times already before and after xmas

i am sure i like her but not really sure now if i can really love her

used to have sex with lots of passion when i was visiting her in her spa before we started going out

but now... we know more about each other and somehow dont feel that much excitement anymore, even our sex which used to end up in creampies, now i withdraw or even use protection

well, i guess i cant love a therapist, or maybe just not yet... lets see

iwas na muna sa pag creampie at sa mahilig macreampie (both male and female), unless alam yung status ng partner at walang ibang recent sex partner

i asked my thera if we can take the std tests together, ok naman daw, pero schedule pa namin

pag may supply na ng prep and pep na lang ulit babalik sa pag creampie ng iba

Here's my experience. I had a relationship with a psp, nagumpisa lang dahil crush namin isat isa hanggang sa nadevelop na. Lagi ko sya pinupuntahan kahit nga nung umuwi sya sa Mindanao, pumupunta ako every 2 weeks. Tapos ng bumalik sa manila ako nagbayad ng rent ng condo nya (pero di na ngayon). Mahirap din kasi, kailangan mo iaccept na iba ibang lalaki kasama nya everyday. Di sya nawawalang ng sched everyday (min of 2 scheds) except pag may period. Tapos maskait pa dun ipopost pa nya sa fb wall nya ung pic nilang gms nya at mga FR sa kanya. Kakainin ka talaga ng selos and like the other guy, naapektuhan na din work ko. Ang mahirap pa di bawal ako magselos kasi nga dun daw kami nagkakilala. May masabi lang ako na di maganda sa gm nya nagagalit na sya. Sa GM nya napakabait at sweet nya, pero sakin sobrang maldita at pag nagaaway kami nasasaktan na nya ako as in physically, panay kalmot at sugat mukha ko kasi di ako gumaganti. Pati fb ko pinadeactivate nya kasi nagseselos daw sya sa mga babaeng friends ko, pinagawa nya ako ng fb na sya lang friend ko. Anyways, nakipagbreak na sya sakin kagabi kasi nga di ko na kinaya ung selos sa mga pinagpopost nya. Lumabas ako pa masama kasi wala daw ako karapatan magselos, nakikipagbalikan sya pero di ko na alam kung kakayanin ko pa.

 

Anyways, payo ko lang kung papasok kayo sa ganitong relasyon kailangan matibay loob mo. Kasi kung hindi, mababaliw ka lang sa selos. Sorry haba ng post ko, kulang pa nga yan ehehehe.

Seems like for your "ex-gf" na psp eh pera-pera lang talaga, minalas ka lang, i'm sure madali ka makakamove-on jan

"Guys, these girls are actresses. We train them to be the ladies you want for an hour or two."

 

-theoneandonlymistressmia

there are theras who are actresses (gfe and pse), those who are not (pera-pera lang talaga bahala ka), and hybrid gfe/pse pero business lang (normally eto yung mga matagal na talaga)

unfortunately, gms normally fall for those gfes or kung pera-pera lang, eh badtrip change thera nalang

i don't think lots of gms fall for pses, so kung ayaw mo mafall, dun ka na sa pse or sa hybrid

Tinapat ko ung sarili ko sa bar code reader. Wala parin akong halaga.

at bakit mo naman naisip mo na may halaga ka?

wag mo na uulitin yan ah

isipin mo nalng lagi wala kang kwenta

kapag maganda at may pang aral, ggraduate ng college and will have good and stable job or business

kung maganda at walang pang aral, mag the thera at magiipon hanggang makagraduate and have a good and stable job or business

kung maganda at walang gana mag aral, mag the thera ng matagal hanggang makakuha ng sponsor

kung maganda at nabuntis at hiwalay sa tatay, mag the thera for a very long time hanggang makabili ng bahay/lupa at maging stable ang buhay o makakuha din ng sponsor

e pano na lang kung pangit at nabuntis at di pa nakapagaral at walang ibang skills...???

may masangsang na amoy ang kweba

nymphomaniac

lawlaw or di pantay ang boobs

maluwag ang kweba

bad breath

mas mukha pang lalaki sakin

maitim pa sa uling

tsismosa

mataba at laging pawis na pawis

maingay pa sa busina ng truck

sabay, for me, career and love complement each other

everytime I'm having a good turn in my career, my love life also becomes better, and vice versa

when I'm having a bad time in my career or love, the other also suffers

so, I just cut my losses, if the career path/business or the "love life" does not complete me, then I cut it from my life, no matter how much "I think" I want it.

It's very clear that the some control freak GMs cannot accept the fact that the thera cannot put them first before her work due to her financial needs.

Instead, they would call the thera who continues to work in this industry as someone who doesnt have the capacity to love a GM.

In my "career" as a GM, I have met probably about a hundred theras and some of them are really in a very difficult situation, some of them I remember:

1. Na-stroke si ~50y/o tatay, di na makatrabaho, at ang daming maintenance, not to mention she is the eldest of 4 siblings.

2. 2 anak ni thera, biglang iniwan ng tatay ng mga bata, walang kamaganak sa manila, at tinakwil ng magulang nung naglive-in

3. 6 na magkakapatid, nagabroad ang tatay pero nagasawa na ng iba at di na bumalik (pangalawa)

4. May anak si thera, pero mahina ang anak at laging confined, ang tatay walang silbe

5. Mataas pangarap ni thera sa 3 nakababatang kapatid at pinipilit makagraduate para di matulad sa kanya

Marami pang iba na mas "minor" ang situation jan, at yan lang mga naalala ko.

Now, are these ladies not capable of loving a man?

If you don't want words to be put inside your mouth, then put words on theras mouth that they cannot love.

Maybe I should add "judgemental", so now it's "judgemental control freak"

Let's not judge another person's capability to love.

And please don't start with drugs, drugs destroys the person, drugs allows a human to k*ll another person, drugs destroys families, and so on. Maling mali ang analogy.

In the end, are we to judge another person's capability to love?

If you are just talking about sex sex sex, then it's not love you are looking, you are looking for free and exclusive sex, it's not love you are really after, gusto mo lang masolo at wala ka naman talagang pagmamahal. Baka ikaw ang totoong hindi marunong magmahal???

Again, you "loved??" her when she is in the industry, then suddenly, you want her out? How about the thera's love for her family too?

Maybe better to add another word, "selfish", "selfish judgemental control freak"

Kung nagrereklamo ka na ayaw umalis ni thera for better financial status for herself, family, and dreams, wag ka maghanap ng pagmamahal sa spakol, maghanap ka sa opisina mo or sa village nyo, or makipag date ka online, please wag ka na mag-spa

Or, baka naman talagang hindi kaaya aya ugali at mukha mo "selfish judgemental control freak", should i add the word "ugly"? nah, not necessary

kumukuha ka ng thera, tapos pag nainlove ka required na umalis para masabi mong mahal ka? e pano yung mga kapatid/anak/magulang/utang na nakadepende sa kita nya?

hindi ka nainlove sa thera in her current situation kung ganun, nainlove ka sa gusto mo na maging si thera

kung ako si thera, big no, mukhang control freak yung guy

nainlove ka nga sa kanya kahit na kung kanikaninong "junjun" ang pinapaputok nya (at pinuputukan sya), bakit bigla mo syang gusto magbago nung "in love" ka na?

then obsessed ka lang and selfish and control freak, and not really in love

kung requirement mo na umalis sya sa spa/mp, wag ka maghanap ng love sa spa/mp

i "almost" fell for a thera before and told her, but she explained why she had to do it and her goals are quite big, i said ok, just let me see you often then, nothing of those control freak requirements, its a feeling and is beyond all these "requirements", in the end i think i just liked her and not really "love", but if i really fell for her, it will be up to her if she will quit or not, I fell for her "current" self and not her future self

i thought i'll never sort of fall for a thera, because of the nature of what she is doing and of course i dont want that, but once you "fall" and if you really liked her, i'm pretty sure it will be beyond these "requirements"

its a feeling and shouldnt be bound by "requirements", otherwise you are just a control freak, and thats a warning sign for theras out there :O

I used to have a gf in my work but one time we just fell out of love.

We decided to give space to each other while we assess our feelings.

However, she moved on very fast and soon had a new lover.

I knew I still love her but I am quite sure she doesn't feel the same way to me anymore, so I had to let go.

I started having panic attacks whenever I see her and my work was slowly getting affected.

I decided to seek help from a professional/therapist about my anxiety.

She really helped me a lot to get back on track and soon I am back on my feet.

She is in her mid 30s, single mom, and quite pretty and well-maintened body.

I started to feel attraction to her but I am trying to fight it as I know it's unethical.

I still visit her from time to time.

For now, I just enjoy her company whenever I have the chance and let things fall to where it should fall.