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52 minutes ago, rtz bolerong kupal said:

tignan natin kung sino walang bayag pag nakita kita. nagmamatapang ka dito mukha ka naman tae. panget mo. lalong papanget pa pag natapos ako sayo. alam ko kotse mo. 🖕🖕🖕🖕💀☠️

Ang cute naman ng mga threats mo. Sobrang scaryyy. 🤣

Sa pananalita mo pa lang halatang squatter ka eh no? Kaya siguro ambilis mo sumagot kasi malapit na matapos pisonet mo. Tangina mo ka puro ka satsat!

Anyway, okay. I'll see you soon. I'll wait for you. Stay cute. 

Pweh! 🤮

39 minutes ago, darwin2k4 said:

Well, that escalated quickly 🤣🤣🤣 Off-Topic pa 😆

Hahaha! Hindi ko na papatulan to bro. Typical na duwag eh. Gumawa pa ng bagong account para makipag sagutan. Dalawa pa pala ginawa hahaha! Hindi magamit ung tunay na account. Nasan kaya bayag nun? Hahaha! 

55 minutes ago, rtz is chefcurry said:

Ulol. Kala mo naman gumagana mga pambobola mo sa mga thera tinatawanan ka lang, sinasakyan lang nila yung bagyo na dala nag pagiging sobrang mahangin mo 🤣🤣🤣🤡💩

Wag ka aasta asta dito na matapang ka Tanda. Wala magagawa muay thai boxing at kung anu-ano pang pinagyabang mong alam mo. Feelingero lang ang gagong magyayabang na alam mo kung pano makipagsuntukan. Tandaan mo, anytime mahahanap ka. Alam naman kung saan ka tumatambay unggoy.

Basahin mo ulit post mo marami ka tinanong. Tingin tingin sa salamin para makita kung sino bobo. Hampas ko sa mukha mo yung tapa na tinda mong panis.

Hindi ko rin sinabi na gumawa ka ng 2nd account. Sabi ko pinalitan mo handlename mo mula chefcurry to rtz. Kala mo hindi nakikita yung account mo dati. Bobo. Umintindi si manong.

Kung ako dugyot. Ikaw Libag. Ako nga yung nakaaway mo dati, hanggang ngayon. 🤡💩💀 unggoy tanders. Pupululutin ka na sa kangkungan tatang

Ah okay. Now I know we're just wasting each other's time. Seriously bro, you've mistaken me for someone else. Rtz na account ko ever since. Didn't change it and won't change it. I got a lot to do and I don't have time for this shit anymore. 

1 hour ago, rtz is chefcurry said:

Sinagot mo lang yung tanong mo. Ang realidad laban sa pantasya. Tanga na lang ang hindi madistinguish ang 2 hours na kasama ang thera na walang away at binayad mo para sa oras niya laban sa mas matagal na oras na kasama mo yung gf, asawa, na hindi thera. Sa isang taong nagiisip at may common sense makukuha niya agad na pag may tampuhan at awayan at stress sa gf or asawa, mas totoo yun kasi kasama sa samahan ang away at tampuhan pati na rin yung magbati kayo. Bolahan lang nangyayari sa thera sa maliit na oras na magkasama. Tanga lang madadala na maniwala na dahil hindi nagaaway ang thera at GM at masaya lagi ay realidad na yun. Ulol lang maniniwala na ganon ang mundo.

Yun ang realidad ng may ka relasyon na hindi thera. Chefcurry palit palit ka pa pangalan.

Uyy your back. Ladies and gentlemen, meet my Hater. 🤣 

Effort kung effort si kuya. Fresh na fresh ang account joined 1 hour ago.

Anyway, wala ako time makipag gaguhan sayo. Obvious naman sa last response ko diba. Pero mukang mapilit ka kaya pagbibigyan na kita kahit isang beses lang.

Una sa lahat, basahin mo ulit ung sinabi ko. Pano ko sasagutin ung tanong ko kung wala naman akong tinanong? Tanga ka ata eh. Wag yung ulo sa baba ang pagisipin mo sa susunod para hindi ka nagmumukang bobo!

Pangalawa isa lang ang account ko since 2018. Bat ako gagawa ng ibang account? Hindi ako ung "chef curry" na sinasabi mong inutil ka. Tangina ka ang tapang mong magsalita dahil alam mong hindi moko kaharap. Pero kung totoo yang tapang mo, pm mo ko anytime anywhere. Ikaw na pumili kung boxing, grappling, muay thai, or street. Medyo matagal na rin naman akong walang practice. Sasagutin ko na pa ospital at pustiso mo after. 

Pangatlo, kung ikaw naman ung isang nakaaway ko dito. Kakasabi lang ng isang thera sakin, ikaw daw yung tipo na hindi jojowain. 🤣 Tahan na iho. Paliit ka ng tyan mo at wag ka masyadong dugyot. Ang sagwa mo daw eh.

1 hour ago, hoistman said:

Always manage expectations. Kawawa ang puso at pitaka mo. 

Yep. Learn the difference of "Falling" and "Infatuation". The tricky part starts after you had fun with a thera. All the things you've done together, kisses, deed, what you said, what she said, sweet nothings, intense scenes in slomo. It all get stuck in your mind and you start asking the what fckin' ifs:

What if totoo ung sinabi nya?

What if ligawan ko sya?

What if kami talaga?

What if kami ang makakapagpabago ng buhay ng isa't isa?

You'll try to nurture those ideas based on fantasy. Kalaban ng pantasya ang realidad.

The real problem starts when you start comparing your thera to your gf or wife or ex or any girl you dated. Trust me, thera will always win those comparison dahil walang away, tampuhan, at stress pag kasama mo sya. 

6 hours ago, Howdy Doody said:

Sometimes, I feel that most of these girls do not want to be respected. Of course, there is a big difference in being rude and brusque with them and still treat them as a lady, but you always put them in their proper places. Sometimes, they are even delighted when I call them "pok pok". Like, " hoy pok pok, halika rito". Or even playfully curse them, like " tang na mo, iyutin kita ngayon."

Sheeesshhh! Ang wild! 😲

14 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

@rtzthe entire song is full of who goats.

Then, for those who do ninja moves and find themselves falling...

"Kasalanan ba kung puso natin ang magwawagi
Kahit sandali palayain ang pusong 'di mapigil
Sana'y tayong dalawa sa huling pagkakataon na hindi na para sa'tin
Kahit sandali patawarin ang pusong 'di tumigil para sa'ting dalawa
Ang maling pagkakataon na ika'y magiging akin"

Haha! Mismo bro! inaral ko na nga sa gitara para may "getting over" song ako kung sakali hahahaha!

11 hours ago, simonnag said:

Here’s a thought that a GM usually needs to contend with when entering this kind of relationship:

Behaviors become embedded in their nature because of their work. Once they are deep into their work, the behaviors that are required in their jobs subconsciously spillover to their personal lives. In short, they themselves do NOT know when it is sincere and when it is an act. As a result, you will be pulled into their subculture.

For example, initially, outside of their own colleagues, there is hardly anything definite. Things like age, names, kids, exe’s, or just anything to pin down identity, will always be in constant flux. Its in the nature of therapists to be protected by their layers of misinformation

Well said.. The misinformation is a two-way street though. Both parties tend to lie to protect their identity. I remember what I've told someone, "Kanina pa tayo naglalampungan kahit hindi natin alam pangalan ng isa't isa". Natawa na lang din sya. Lol! Kaya mahirap makipag patintero dito dahil parehong may tinatagong baraha. I guess the only thing that's certain here is your chemistry when you're together.

3 hours ago, SDMNXIX said:

 

I think ok nmn ung usapan nmen. I think she heard what I said and na-confirm din naman ung hinala ko na she's not really looking to get into anything serious. Ako din naman not ready to be in a relationship pero may mga feelings kse na nag grow. There wasn't anything to reject nmn ata since I didn't ask her for anything. Pero sinabi ko sa kanya na since we met, may nade-develop akong feelings for her. Kinausap ko na sya ng ganun primarily for my own sake kasi umaasa ako that she would feel the same way. Unfortunately, it didn't seem like that was gonna happen. So para lng hnd nko mag-suffer emotionally, sabi ko hindi nako aasa and if she needs a friend, willing ako maging friend nya. Pero kung ano ibig sabihin nun na friend nya ako, hnd ko alam..haha. Siya na bahala kung pano nya ako i-treat as a friend. It's my way of letting go.

So I think safe to say na wala siyang pahiwatig.

Yea ayoko rin nmn ma-obsess kaya din kinausap ko na sya. Kumbaga, nip it in the bud before it gets worse for me. Yun lng, may mga lingering feelings pa pero hopefully with a bit more time, magiging ok na din.

 

 

Good for you bro.. Atleast you know where you stand. 👍

2 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

Listening to a YouTube Music generated playlist of OPM music, this song came on and reminded me of a "partner" who was humming it late last week. This is December Avenue's "Huling Pagkakataon", a song that may be appropriate for this thread.
 

Hindi mapigil ang bugso ng aking puso
Sa tuwing ako'y papalapit sayo
Maaari bang hingin ang iyong kamay
Hawakan mo't huwag mong bitawan

Hindi mapigil ang tibok ng aking puso
Sa tuwing ako'y nakatingin sayo
Maaari bang huwag kang humiwalay
Dahil sandali na lang

Darating din ang gabing walang pipigil sa'tin
Kung hindi ngayon aasa bang maibabalik ang kahapon

Kahit sandali palayain ang pusong 'di mapigil
Sana'y tayong dalawa sa huling pagkakataon na ika'y magiging akin

Hindi matigil ang gulo sa aking isip
At para bang walang kasing sakit
Alaala mong hindi ko malimutan
Oras lang ang may alam

Kung darating din ang gabing walang pipigil sa'tin
Kung hindi ngayon aasa bang maibabalik ang kahapon

Kahit sandali palayain ang pusong 'di mapigil
Sana'y tayong dalawa sa huling pagkakataon na hindi na para sa'tin

At sa bawat minuto
Ako'y 'di natuto
Ipilit mang iba ako'y maghihintay sayo
Ikaw ang aking kapiling sa huling sandali
Kasalanan ba kung puso natin ang magwawagi

Kahit sandali palayain ang pusong 'di mapigil
Sana'y tayong dalawa sa huling pagkakataon na hindi na para sa'tin

Kahit sandali patawarin ang pusong 'di tumigil para sa'ting dalawa
Ang maling pagkakataon na ika'y magiging akin

Medyo malupit nga mga bagsakan nyang December ave idol.

"Kasalanan ba kung puso natin ang magwawagi"

Mukang matindi ang pinaghugutan.. "Huling sandali" ata yon bro hehe

9 minutes ago, klausm said:

na obses at nabasted nga ako. pano retarded n dom ako. binuhusan ko ng juice at minura ko. tanga kse ako umasa. di nmn ako mka moveon kaya ko hinaharass.

araykobeh! 😫 nainlab si sir

3 hours ago, SDMNXIX said:

Ahh I see..I don't think I have that kind of distraction right now. And if she was into you as well, then yea magkaiba nga sitwasyon nten..Mine is clearly not mutual.

I don't think I'd go cold turkey muna ngayon, mejo wait and see cguro. If lumalala lng kalagayan ko as I continue to see her then I'll stop.

If wala nmng endgame I don't see the point na dagdagan pa ung pain 😅 just seems unnecessary. Kaya din kinausap ko na sya agad ng maayos.

Gets ko nmn to. Thats why hnd rin ako nagkakandarapa nmn sa kanya. Also why I floated the idea to be her friend instead.

Kamusta yung usap nyo ng maayos? You got rejected ba or may pahiwatig pa?

Just be careful bro. Don't dig the hole too deep, you might find yourself stuck in it. Worst thing can happen is you wake up one day and find yourself obsessed with her. Daming ganyang case dito. 

Nag pause muna ako sa MTC non to get my sh!t together. Then I dated other girls outside spa then luckily i was able to open a new business kaya nabaling na din attention ko. After months nakita ko instagram nya, then dun ko napatunayan wala na spark. Didn't follow her sa insta but from what I saw, I'm quite happy for her. 

But iba sitwasyon natin bro. She was on board and muntikan na kami.

5 hours ago, SDMNXIX said:

Any additional advice? 😁     

Nakakatulong ba ung tryng other theras..? Iniisip ko kse either i stick with sya lng tlga or i meet others. Ang concern ko if sya lng, yes masaya pag magkasama kme, pero aftr nun i know na balik sa dati na wlng pansinan nnmn so prang nireremind lng ako of my sad reality

5 hours ago, SDMNXIX said:

 

Advice? Well let's see...

If you're letting go, it's a matter of where and when you want to get hurt. It's either you get hurt now hanggat mababaw pa or sa dulo when you're in too deep na. Can't reiterate enough which one will be more devastating.

If you're planning to pursue, well sorry man. I haven't gotten that far yet. Though I know it's every man for himself. 

And yes. Nakakatulong mag iba ng thera,,,,... for a day or two 🤣 Hahahaha! Di mo maiisip masyado si orig during those couple of days. However, after a few days you'll find yourself wanting the orig again. And again. And again. 

1 hour ago, SDMNXIX said:

 

Na-leche na tlga...

 

Prang 2-3 weeks after plng ata nun, masakit na e. Kaya nakaka kaba mgbrowse sa FR Journal bka may mabasa nnmn ako na bago. Umiiwas nko dun.

I promised myself pa naman that I won't let myself be hurt again. Pero wala, may pagka marupok tlga.. 😅

 

Pero nag 'let go' na din nmn ako in an attempt to move on. Sabi ko nlng sa kanya, kung kelangan mo ng friend, willing ako maging friend mo. Pero kung ano ibig sabihin nun, sya na bahala. Bsta hnd nko aasa ng any special treatment (ung pra malaman ko na hnd lng ako just like every other customer. but, the truth hurts 🥲). Ayun, hnd na nagreply sa chat, 2 days na..haha fml.

 

Baka busy lng tlga sya.. 🤡

 

 

Hehehe! Been there bro 😅

6 hours ago, gboy59 said:

Thank or Kiss? How about a kick in the face? Ulooooolllll!!!!! palit ka pa handlename chefcurry. 💩🤡

Joined January 8 yung account mo idol. Ikaw siguro yung laging galit na galit sa mundo. 🤣

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