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  1. Fall out love...

     

    i had the hardest time to recover..pero finally i moved on.

     

    i can talk about our past...

    i can sing the songs we sang without feeling any hurt...

    i can face my ex with confidence..

     

    among others...

     

    i am not hurting.. i am actually talking to my ex now... as friends!

  2. In my case, i fell in love with three, this happened when i was in college...all of three of them are colehialas, one is from ceu, the other from la consolacion and the third from sienna college (na malapit lang sa amin), i choose the one from ceu coz siya ang pinakamabait, masipag at responsible in a lot of things....ok sana yung taga-laco kaso dalawa din kami sa pu....so niya then yung taga sienna naman conceited

     

     

    huh? nice choice of gurls... nakakalito talaga kung sinu ang pipiliin mio! :lol: :D *xsems

  3. actually, i agree to the previous post. we should learn how to prioritize. there are things that we should risk not because we dont like it anymore but because we NEED to do it. there is a certain urgency kasi. and we can live to that dream forever.

  4. Is there such a thing as dumping someone nicely? Just be honest and make it quick, don't prolong the agony. :headsetsmiley:

     

     

    i guess, its better to know how to dump in a very humane way... but i agree, breaking one's heart is very traumatic to the person dumped. the best way is to be honest on what you feel and do it with conviction. wag ung nakikipag communicate pa tapos ssabihin pa na mahal pa kaya lang...o derechahan!!!

  5. PARA SA MGA SUGATANG PUSO! :cry:

     

    The Art of Letting Go

    by Consrael

     

    It's over. He's gone.

     

    Why do we have to part while the love is still there? Why do we have to suffer? Why do we have to cry when somebody bids goodbye? Why do beginnings have an end? Why do we have to meet only to lose in the end?

     

    There are questions left unanswered, words left unsaid, letters left unread, poems left undone, songs left unsung, love left unexpressed, promises left unfulfilled.

     

    In a relationship, one of the hardest things to do is saying goodbye and letting go. It is as hard as breaking a crystal because you'll never know when you will be able to pick up the pieces again. More often than not, they who go, feel not the pain of parting:it is they who stay behind that suffer, because they are left with memories of a lovethat was meant to be, a love that was.

     

    At the beginning and at the end of a relationship, we are embarrassed to find ourselves alone. Unfair as it may seem, but that's the way love goes. That's the drama, the bittersweet and the risk of falling in love. After all, nothing is constant but change. Everything will eventually come to its end without us knowing when, without us knowing how, without us even knowing why. And we must forget not because we have to but because we have to.

     

    In letting go, sorrows come not as a single spy but in batallion. It seems that everywhere you go, everything you do, every song you hear, every turn of your head,every move of your body, every beat of your heart, every blink of your eye and every breath you take always reminds you of him. It's like a stab of a knife, a torture in the night. Funny how the whole world becomes depopulated when only one person is missing. Just imagine, there are billion people on earth and yet it seems you feel lonely and empty without the other.

     

    I don't know if it's worth calling an art, but letting go entails special skills sparkled with a considerable space and time. Time heals all wounds but it takes a little push on our part. Acceptance plays a part. Not all love stories end with "...and they live happily ever after."

     

    Sometimes we have to part because of circumstances beyond our control. We have to suffer if it would mean happiness for others. We have to cry to temporarily let go of the pains. Every beginning has its end like every dawn has its dusk. It's something we can't control, something we had to live up.

     

    It's over. He's gone. But life has to go on. Goodbye doesn't always mean forever. There will always be a place and time where questions will be answered, words will be spoken, letters will be read, poems will be recited in the night, songs will be sung in harmony, love will be expressed in solitude and promises will be fulfilled. Somewhere. Somehow. Someday.

  6. A Letter to God

    (written by Tigress Luv )

     

    Dear God,

     

    Why do You torture me so? When will You ever let my hardships end? When will my endless suffering abate? Why am I so tortured?

     

    "But, my child, I have given you everything you want. Why are you tortured so?"

     

    Because, God... Oh wait, God, while you are here I want to thank you for my children. My children are such beautiful blessings. Thank you, God, for these wonderful gifts. Thank you for their wit and their charm. Thank you for their health. I will cherish them with every breath I take, and forever be grateful and indebted to You.

     

    "You are most welcome, my child. But, please tell me - why are you still tortured so?"

     

    Because, God... Oh, and God? I wanted to thank you, again! Thank you for the food on my table, and the roof over my head, and these many precious moments of my life. My life has never been better!

     

    "You are welcome, my child. But, please, please, tell me - why are you tortured so?"

     

    Because, God... My dear God? Are You still there? Good. I thought You might have left me. I want to thank You for this most latest blessing. This wonderful new man You have placed in my life. How did You know, God, that we would be so perfect for each other? How did you know that the time was finally perfect in both of our lives...that the time was right for us to meet?

     

    "I know everything, my child. And you are most welcome. Thank you for your patience. But, please, please, tell me why you are still tortured so."

     

    Because, God. I am tortured so because...because now that I have no worries, no griefs, no more battles to fight, and no more strife, I am tortured by the 'peace'. It is unnerving, baffling, and uncomfortable. Tell me God, how can I stop this endless torture and relax in my joy and the gifts You have bestowed upon me? Tell me, my dear God. When will my torture end?

     

    "My dear child, don't you know that I send you 'grief' as my biggest gift to you? So that you may have sight to appreciate my other gifts to you? So that you may rejoice in the glory and not be blinded to your blessings. So that you may feel these gifts that I give you?"

     

    Oh, thank You, God! I understand fully now! Of all my blessings, my torture is truly my biggest blessing from You, for without it I would not know of all my many other blessings! Thank You, God! Thank You for the gift of grief!

     

     

    :cry:

  7. gosh, sobrang cliche na ltalagaang "you deserve someone better" na line. actually, my ex told me the same thing. kapal ng mukha. siya ung nakipagbreak. kapal... kung lam lang nya ginawa ko for him.... well, some people talaga dont know how to appreciate things did for them.

     

    but, one way or another, he is right. i dont deserve such a shitty A$$hole. hehe!

  8. SAY A LITTLE PRAYER FOR YOU - MY BEST FRIENDS WEDDING

    YOU DONT KNOW ME - NOTTING HILL

    THE WAY YOU LOOK TONIGHT - MY BEST FRIENDS WEDDING

    I WILL - RUNAWAY BRIDE

    I'LL BE OKEY - NOTTING HILL

    FALLEN - PRETTY WOMAN

    I DO - NOTTING HILL

    WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS NOW - MY BEST FRIENDS WEDDING

    WISHIN N HOPIN - MY BESTFRIENDS WEDDING

    AINT NO MOUNTAIN HIGH ENOUGH - STEPMOM

    MY HEART WILL GO ON - TITANIC

    IRIS - CITY OF ANGELS

     

    Julia Roberts Fan here!!! :mtc:

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