Marco_W

Normal magselos kapag hindi pa kayo or ligawan stage palang hehe.

Pero kapag kayo na, dapat wala nang selos. Kubg meron pa, its a sign of insecurity and lack of trust.

Couldn't agree more. The things you mentioned are also on my mind when I always say take care.

 

Well this is one level, and tbh not the worst that can happen (if you are afraid of a woman's orgasm... that's an interesting issue), I mean if she enjoys sex, you probably may have liked that to begin with. Also, having purveyed some of the Top Theras, many of them don't really enjoy most of the sex, its just a means to an end, and orgasms are overrated for them since those tucker them out. What really turns most of them on is money, but that's another discussion.

 

No, the question you should ask yourself is if you fall in "love" what happens when (1) she gets raped, some guy overpowers her and f#&ks her live; OR (2) she accepts an invite to go on a holiday to Boracay; OR (3) she goes to work in SG or HK for a month; OR (4) she gets pregnant and you're sure you aren't the father.

 

Where is the love? The love; the love; the love?

Unless the girl's first impression to the guy is not oozing with sex appeal, its normal for the guy not to be getting all horny and thinking about sex during falling in love stage.

But, it will still come.

Maybe he is trying to prove himself to you.

Is this true? Because my man is like this he just want companionship

But no sex involve thats it

I think its def not a normal circumstance not to want it. In Japan there is growing trend of males not wanting sex or having a gf because of being preoccupied with many other things.

Hindi kumpleto ang kainan kung walang gulay hehe.

Iba iba pa din ang ugali ng theras. Yung sinasabing okay sa madaming bf sa tingin ko kahit hindi thera ang job niya, ganun pa din ang kanyang ugali.

Meron pa din diyan yung disente na ang habol talaga lang ay pera pero matino sa loob.

On the other hand, i would imagine na addicting din ang amount na pumapasok kada araw sa bulsa nila.

I just hope na yung mga talagang kelangan lang ay pera ay hindi malunok ng sistema habang tumatagal..

Soondooboo jigae

Respect comes many forms. If you are talking at the level of familial respect, then you are beating at the wrong door. I suggest to start a new topic.

I think what's being said is a simple form of respect in that even if we are going deep in the underground world of the black market, there is still a sense of order to be had that separates us from animals.

Be friendly or love her, but teach yourself not to expect anything in return. Give it all, but take nothing. Appreciate if there is something but take a pause. Let it grow slowly whatever it is. Do not try to win. Cherish the good, forgive the bad. Believe the good in her. Rinse and repeat.

But before doing the above, choose wisely.

Generally mahirap talaga ldr lalo na if we are talking years.

If once a year lang nagkikita, masakit din for me sabihin pero mas magiging good for both parties na cool off muna. It will let both of you grow as a person and character to meet and learn from other people and culture. And if you are really meant together, love will find a way sa huli. Of course, Im referring to 2 people with the most sincere of intention and trust with each other.

Now if you feel na you've grown enough and that you can already see her/him as your future hudband/wife, then by all means do everything you can to be with her. Lay out a plan. After 1,2,3 years nakadecide na kung paano kayo magsasama ulit.

How is your relationship with your husband prior to finding out? Maybe start with that. I would like to believe that taken men go to spas because something is wrong in their current situation. If not, then things will get more complicated.

Thank you MTC. Thank you that my husband left his old phone. Being the the pakielamera wife(havent checked hubby's phone for a long time now, when I did Booommm!) I saw MTC in his browser.

 

 

Then boom.. saw his inquiries.

I wasnt sure if that acct was his.. it has a code name. I was stupid enough to ask.. if that acct was his. Then while browsing, suddenly I got kicked out of his acct, bec he changed his password. Change the email acct was associated with, changed display name. I am good in hacking so I was still able to read all his FRs

 

He went home right away after knowing that I found out his dirty secrets. He left work and went home trying to appease me. Then he slowly tell me the truth. Even the excruciating details I had to dig it in. It was a month of digging and digging.

 

 

My heart is broken..

I feel like I am the ugliest woman in the world.

He has been asking for forgiveness.. doing his best to court me. We even tried to enroll in marriage encounters. He is doing his best.. but am totally hurting.

 

Tell me...why should I give another chance to a guy who has been to spakol for 5 times?

 

His visits were

1. Nuru

2 and 3. BJ/NPD/Shower together

4. HJ

5. BJ/NPD/**DATY**/B2B/Shower together

The best way in the long run is hindi makialam. Kung buo ang tiwala ko sa partner ko hindi ako magdadalawang isip na alam niya paano irereject yung guy. Syempre kapag harrassment na, ibang usapan na yun at maaari na akong pumagitna.

That love is 100% trust, 100% happiness, 200% sacrifice and hard work

What makes you think we gms are trustworthy at all for them?

As far as they're concerned,

we are dirty dudes looking to pay for a girl to mess around with.

Our d!@%s have probably also slithered their way into countless holes.

Epiphone

Dread

Maybe 3rd date kissing

Yiruma - Greatest hits playlist

Ganyan lang talaga takbo ng pagibig. It comes when you least expect it.

The day I met her that was my mindset as has been eversince, pasok paservice get out then bahala na if i avail her again but things happen. Really can't pinpoint why this time around i fell.

My advice is never ever take each other for granted. Always prioritize what's needed for the relationship above all else.

Complacency is the number 1 enemy. Its a silent killer.. works slowly in the shadows and strikes before you'd even realize it.

As for sex, it is needed yes. But during the long haul, it needs to be supported by something meaningful. Guys like smart and strong women who know how to think for themselves, and can rise to any occasion if need be, but knows when to submit to him and vice versa.

Yeah I think giving and charity is definitely part of it. In my case, I would also put in sacrifice.

I suppose LOVE at its essence is basically GIVING. Thus, I agree with you that the way we love (or give) to our children is completely different with the way we love our partner or our therapists for that matter. As the saying goes "you cannot love without giving." Ultimate love is when you give without expecting any returns, in a word "CHARITY."

 

Has the pie already been cut or it's totally another pie/love/relationship?

Statistics would argue against you. Majority tend to look for emotional affection(love) elsewhere when there's a problem with their curreng relationship. Hence, the pie has already been cut.

Also I think the way we love our children is completely different with the way we love our partner.

Questions: Pag meron ka ng minamahal (GF o Asawa) at nagmahal ka ulit ng iba (thera, officemate, new GF), nabawasan ba ang pagmamahal mo sa taong una mong minahal? Ang pagmamahal ba ay parang oras o isang pizza pie, na pag binigay mo sa iba eh mababawasan o mawawalan yung isa?

 

My personal answer, at pwedeng mali ako, pwede kang magmahal ng iba ng hindi nababawasan ang pagmamahal sa "original." Parang ganito lang yan, mahal mo ang iyong asawa. Tas nagka anak kayo..syempre mahal mo rin anak mo pero di nabawasan pagmamahal mo sa misis mo. Tas nagkaanak kayo ulit...syempre mahal mo rin yun pangalawang anak, pero di nababawasan yun pagmamahal mo sa panganay na anak at kay misis.

 

Kaya sa aking pananaw, ang love ay di parehas ng oras (time) o pizza pie na nababawasan pag binigay mo sa iba. Palagay ko, ang love ay parang isang ilaw ng kandila, na pag binigyan mo o inilawan mo ang iba pang mga kandila ay hindi nababawasan ang ilaw o liwanag ng original na kandila.

Bryan Adams

When you love someone

You'll do anything

You'll do all the crazy things

That you can't explain

You'll shoot the moon

Put out the sun

When you love someone

You'll deny the truth

Believe a lie

There'll be times that you'll believe

That you could really fly

But your lonely nights

Have just begun

When you love someone

When you love someone

You'll feel it deep inside

And nothin' else

Could ever change your mind

When you want someone

When you need someone

When you love someone

When you love someone

You'll sacrifice

Give it everything you got

And you won't think twice

You'd risk it all

No matter what may come

When you love someone, yeah

You'll shoot the moon

Put out the sun

When you love someone

Im afraid there is no short cut to this. All who have loved and lost must go thru the hard road.

One thing I learned is that we should never be bitter. Take the high road. Love them back in our thoughts and wish both of you well. Lastly, do not lose hope that in the end, everything will be okay..

A lot of things.. but I guess for me as a couple, one is when you feel completely at ease and confident with her actions and you feel no jealousy when she's around other guys. I think that shows just how much you respect and trust her in that scenario. I've only ever met 1 girl that made me look to her like that.

Dark knight ost