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Kung mahal mo talaga cya matatanggap mo past nya

Paano kung hindi lang past? Future pa?

Hope you can move on dear. Kung hopeless na at nag move on na sya, wala ka na ring magagawa. Pinapahirapan mo lang sarili mo

 

kayo na ba nung nangyari yun?

Yes kami na

Parang mababaw ata masyado yun para ma feel betrayed boss... Mas marami pa akong nalaman at na kilala that has done way worst than just "dating" a guy. Imho kung gusto mo ng honesty bka mahirapan ka na makuha yun if you get mad at whatever happened in the past lalo na kung nung hindi pa kyo. Mad ang sabi ko kasi iba nmn ung upset. I think its okey to be upset, but its not okey to be mad...

Kami na nun. Wala ako paki kung di pa kami

Eto namam kwento ko.

My long time thera gf admitted having dated a guy 3 years ago. Same guy she claimed before na di nya type at di nya papatulan. Syempre bad trip ako. Nagalit din sya. Bakit daw gusto ko pag usapan e years ago pa daw yun at nag try lang naman daw sya na makipag date dun. Wag ko daw sabihing pinatulan nya yun kasi kung pinatulan nya daw e di sana nag date pa sila uli. Trial lang daw yun kasi one date lang. Am i wrong to feel betrayed? Baka kasi old fashioned ako and iba na pananaw ng mga babae ngayon? Feeling ko kasi naging spare tire lang ako habang naghahanap sya ng mas ok na guy. Gago ko no?

Yun din sabi sakin ni thera my love...

Yung iba nanliligaw lang at nagpapafall ng thera para maka mileage lang sa kanila...

Kaya medyo hesitant sila sa mga GM..

Paano naman yung mga thera na enjoy sa mga manliligaw. Proud sila sa gifts and flowers brought by their admirer-clients. Yung mga pumupunta sa bars so boys can fawn over them and buy them drinks? May iba they even brag that GMs pay them just for the privilege of having dinner or drinks with them. At wala daw sex (if you believe that)

Yun din sabi sakin ni thera my love...

Yung iba nanliligaw lang at nagpapafall ng thera para maka mileage lang sa kanila...

Kaya medyo hesitant sila sa mga GM..

Paano naman yung mga thera na enjoy sa mga manliligaw. Proud sila sa gifts and flowers brought by their admirer-clients. Yung mga pumupunta sa bars so boys can fawn over them and buy them drinks? May iba they even brag that GMs pay them just for the privilege of having dinner or drinks with them. At wala daw sex (if you believe that)

Question sa mga ladies here. My long time thera gf recently admitted having dated a guy 3 years ago. Same guy she claimed before na di nya type at di nya papatulan. Syempre bad trip ako. Nagalit din sya. Bakit daw gusto ko pag usapan e years ago pa daw yun at nag try lang naman daw sya na makipag date dun. Wag ko daw sabihing pinatulan nya yun kasi kung pinatulan nya daw e di sana nag date pa sila uli. Trial lang daw yun kasi one date lang. Am i wrong to feel betrayed? Baka kasi old fashioned ako and iba na pananaw ng mga babae ngayon? Feeling ko kasi naging spare tire lang ako habang naghahanap sya ng mas ok na guy.

Pag sinisimulan ko na magstalk hahaha! Nafafall na ko niyan, pahirapan din ako macontact madalas due to a busy sched pero ill make time sa GM na to. Yung hindi ako pala phone pero mapapagload ako ng one month para sure na makakausap kita lagi. Hmm reg dun sa manliligaw, Dun nalang ako sa hindi alam trabaho ko, nakakatakot din irisk kasi pag alam work mo, yung sumbat na pwedeng mangyari, yung kaba na baka pumupunta din siya sa iba, yung baka after lang siya sa full mileage mo, pero mas pipiliin kong wag magboyfriend habang nasa ganitong field kasi iputan sa ulo to eh. Kahit ba trabaho lang diba.

Iputan sa ulo. So true. Puede magpa martyr na naiintindihan work ng gf na thera or psp pero deep down masakit isipin na nagpapaligaya sya ng iba ibang lalaki several times a day.

Natahimik na thread na ito

For example Kung ikaw bf ko; gusto mo ba ikwento ko sayo ginawa ko sa client ko? Gusto mo ba malaman kung ano position ginawa namin at kung nag c@m ako sa client ko? Can you handle those details?

Di naman ganun siguro. More of trust in terms of agreed limitations lang. Sa thera kasi, iba iba service and there are those who claim they dont go atw. May iba hj at b2b lang daw. So masaklap if she assures you na she doesnt do atw tapos somehow you found out na gawain nya pala yun or she does it pag type nya yung guest

Baka libog lang yan tol. Subukan mo kumuha ng MGT o class A na PSP. Pag nasa harap mo na in her bday suit, tingnan mo kung maiisip mo pa yan gf-thera mo.

Di naman siguro pre. And, yes, i tried doing that.

And yet di kayang lumayo. Hay

 

you are in a better situation that we were years back; as you had described being a thera is different from psp; all of my clients were always ATW 2 pops in a meet; I used to have 2 to 3 clients in a day during my time; since you are single you are in a better situation to help her; as most of the time married men are most of my clients and I think nothing had changed even with theras; so what I can say; if you love here that much; help her; but this time communicate with her on her restrictions when she does her job; mahirap mag build ng trust Lalo na sa ganitong industry; pero it is a hard pill to swallow; in the end best to get her out ASAP; I wish you luck and will pray for you

Yun talaga pinaka mahirap dyan. Yung pag build ng trust.

Gustong gusto ko maniwala sa kanya. Na di nya ako niloloko. Na totoo feelings nya. And for me the best way to know that is if she does not lie to me. Kaya lang, it seems na di kaya yung walang tinatagon siguro white lies. Para daw di ako masaktan. Or maybe because isip nya di ko maintindihan. Problem is, yung mga lies, eventually natutuklasan din. And when that happens, ang hirap mabalik yung trust. Specially kung paulit ulit nangyayari. To the point na sobra na doubts. Na baka may mga ginagawa sya na di ko magugustuhan pero ginagawa at gagawin pa rin pag naniniwala syang di ko malalaman. Hay. So complicated talaga.

Clearly di mo sya mahal

Hindi naman love affair kung sex lang

Alam ko din sagot diyan...

They tasted the money that can be earned from this industry...

Malaki kita and easy money...

Mahirap talikuran talaga..

At hindi pa nila alam o hindi pa sila nakakakita ng work na kasing laki ng kinikita nila dito lalo na kung top thera siya ng spa establishment nila...

Well for my thera it all change the perception nung nagimpisa siya sa present work niya...

She earns 80k and up per cut off...

By the way she's a top thera ng spa na pinagtrabahuhan niya dati...

Korek. Plus the fact that most girls in this trade do not have the educational background to find a job that will earn even 20k a month. An amount they can earn with just two days of work as thera.

Isip ko lang, maybe they have learned to shut it out, so they no longer think may mali sa line of work nila.

the only think i can offer my bf GM before is that I make sure I only have the O with him; so pag may client ako; sorry kung may makabasa na previous client ko; I was faking it para mapabilis;

also for some reason din I can only have the O with him kung penetration; maybe kasi gawa ng CD pag client; nag O lang ako pag live; so most of the time pag sinusundo nya ako pag from client; super horny ako sa kanya;

most of the time we end up doing it in the car kasi bitin ako sa client; it was fun while it lasted

Paano kung sasabihin nyang nakakaraos din sya sa guest? Kasi tao lang sya. Sabihin nya na L lang yung sa guest pero walang love. Sakit pa rin di ba? The fact na na-L sya sa ibang guy. Isip mo agad: type nya yung guest? Baka palitan ka o maging sila pag naging regular nya yun?

Kung na inlove ka sa thera at alam mong gustong gusto mo siya pero nahihirapan ka dahil sa status ng work niya advice ko tulungan mo maghanap ng ibang work na same income yet decent...

If kung ayaw niya lumipat at gusto niya mag stay sa work na to well wag mo na ituloy dahil kahit sabihin mong open minded ka at liberated ka masasaktan at masasaktan ka lang...

Unless sobrang yaman mo, mahirap tapatan ang income nila sa work as thera or MPA. Pag nasa top 5 sila, they can easily earn 100k to 200k a month. Not many GMs can give away that amount monthly. Kung hanapan mo decent na trabaho that pays that amount, kelangan may MBA sya kasi VP and higher sa malaking kumpanya lang ang kumikita ng ganun. O lawyer or doctor or some professional. After years of experience.

I can't get her off my mind, i wanna visit her but it's wrong, how, what, why......

Be sure its not just lust. Baka kasi ita just because she has skillz

face then body.

naisip mo bang mag aral uli habang may sponsor ka? para mas malayo sana marating mo.

masarap talaga ang bawal. hehe

I cant see how hurting a woman can be justified. Pabugbog na lang ako sa babae pero di talaga ako gaganti.

Yun ba usual na compication? Yung may ibang mahal habang nasa isang relationship? Posible ba yung dalawa mahal mo? Magkaibang level nga lang? Or is that an illusion? Isa lang mahal mo pero akala mo lang mahal mo yung asawa o gf mo or akala mo pang mahal mo yung third party?

Nahuhulog na ako sayo.. tinitiis ko lang kasi may gf ka..ayuko naman masira samahan niu dahil skin..kaya kung anong meron tayo tangap ko...basta alam ko masaya ako pag magkasama tayo...

wow. Martyr! And i do bot say that as an insult. Hirap yan di ba?