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mental health kalaban mo dito

On 2/28/2024 at 12:31 PM, Midlurker2005 said:

Here’s an old personal tale that can be a warning:

Just a few weeks after my top-thera GF and I broke up, I attended a by-invite only dinner conference in a fine dining restaurant in Makati. Since the conference was intimate, my male industry colleagues, the ones who I knew beforehand, were a little relaxed and the free flowing fine wine loosened the locks of the story vaults. The topic of massages, escorts (or PR), theras, and ES came up. As expected everyone inebriated had a story to tell. Imagine my shock when the name of my ex-gf came up. I knew that she was popular but I didn’t expect for her to be THAT popular.
 

Worse, two of the gents knew her much deeper than the others and before we had a relationship. They knew her background, surname, address, and even her personal digits. It didn’t stop there. I heard details where they would eat dinner prior to the trysts, or the resorts they went, or even the bars they would frequent with other therapists. Of course, I pretended to have been amazed. I even took the offer of getting her number (confirmed). 
 

I was brokenhearted, of course! Not because of the information I got. It’s the details that contradicted the stuff she swore to be true about her (i.e. she said she didn’t do ATW. I was so naive). This was a girl I dreamt of building a new life together. 
 

But that wasn’t even the worst. Apparently, while we were together, she went hanging out with them (gents) and with fellow therapists a couple of times, with wild after parties in condo units. 
 

Anyway, again, and again. Fair warning. It’s the biggest delusion of all. And the hurt doesn’t stop at the point of break up. It goes further and beyond. 
 

Happy Hunting!  

Of course self interest thats why they lie everytime. 

they want so many options just in case it goes south

if your an average guy earner i think it will failed sanay na sila sa easy money and baka mas malaki pa sahod nya sa guy. Need mo support yung extended family niya.

loyal

dapat tropa lang don't fall

kapag gusto mong complicated life then go ahead 

if you want a peaceful life look outside of spa industry.

pwede kasing starstruck ka lang sa situation ngaun but after a long time na realize inde pala sya love.

6 hours ago, BrandonV said:

It's nice to fall for a therapist because she is very honest. Her experience with many different guys has made her stronger than most other girls. So if you treat a therapist very well, she will surely be totally loyal to you. And sex life is a great bonus too.

1 percent lang honest na thera. assume ko mga bago palang yun kc inde pa nila alam pasikot sikot but years later magiging experience na + kapag naloko pa sila ni GM expect mo na na magiging hardened yang puso yan. trust issue will arise 100 percent.

On 6/6/2022 at 11:06 AM, handsomebob said:

buti sana kung anak lang, pero kung buong pamilya..masyado na mabigat!!

dapat man unli pocket ka hahaha

kapag type ka and feeling horny that a possibility 

magkaroon ng abs 

17 hours ago, handsomebob said:

oo nga eh, I know someone like this bro...

gentle yung bf niya sa kanya pero pagdating sa akin, sampalan na lang kulang, wahahaha...

I might try to slap her one of these days if possible...LOL..

 

iba kc yung thrill sir mas exciting

wish for a better PH.

2 hours ago, handsomebob said:

nakaka loko yun kasi alam mo yung sarili mo, paano kung yung guest niya na katulad mong hardcore?? LOL

 

malupet yan ikaw gentle (gentleman effect) and mas enjoy pala nya hardcore

4 hours ago, Howdy Doody said:

Guys, always remember that they are only in for the money. Imagine if you run out of money to burn, will they stick with you? Also, think about the body count baggage they have gone through. They are even worst than a promiscuous woman. They use work only as a convenient reason to have their cake and eat it too. So guys, if you ever find your self in this dire predicament, just think of all those pipes that went inside her which she enjoyed. Don't let yourself be a laughingstock.

they will drain your emotion, wealth and time.

just enjoy the ride!

10 hours ago, Eunice of Clam said:

bakit naman no ? kung ayaw mo makabasa ng mga alm mong nakakasakit why not di mo alisin sa gantong trabaho ? kaya naman nya siguro mag bago para sa inyo kung mahal ka tlga basta tulungan para makaalis at dina bumalik sa gantong work ? sypre kaya monga sya minahal kasi nga di mo sya hinusgahan sa sitwasyon nya kaya mo tanggapin anu ang past nya ? tama ba ? 

applicable yan if may business or managerial position yung lalaki

if average i think babalik talaga sa spa yung giri to cover up the finances

isa pa big factor kung breadwinner pa si thera.

LDR pwede

the thin line will break you or make you happy

choose wisely!

10 hours ago, samlcd said:

So the story continues. I swallowed my pride and contacted her again. Made an appointment around 4PM punta ako sa Spa. 

3PM she messaged me na may client daw sya. Naisip ko fine, mga 415 pa naman ako makakarating giving time for her to rest. Dumaan muna ako grocery para may pasalubong sa kanya. Then dumaan ako bike shop pa to kill some time. 

Eto na nga. 4:15pm she messaged me. Pagod na daw sya. So titanong ko kung hindi na kami tuloy. Sabi nya "Oo e, pagod na ako". Then sabi ko sige labas ka nalang bibigay ko nalang ung pasalubong ko. Pero deep inside sobrang sakit kasi medyo nagexpect na ako. E di bumaba na ako at naglakad pauwi iniisip saan ako nagkamali.

After mga 15 mins nagpost sya sa MTC. Avail na ulit sya. Mas lalong sumakit. Hindi ko alam kung ako lang inayawan nya. Alam mo yung feeling parang naconfirm mo na wala ka talaga para sa kanya. Sabi nga ng kaibigan ko, Wag mo tigilan sya kitain pero tigil mo na yung nararamdaman mo. 

Kung may off switch lang e.

ok na yan for early warning na wag mo ng pursue yung balak mo.

move on and get a girl na wala sa spa industry.

13 hours ago, Richang said:

I am not sure kung nka move on n b ako. Dahil d2 s omicron at work from home, bihira n ako bumisita. Although i still miss her from time to time. Siguro nakakatulong n din n bihira or minsan n lng din sya mag reply s mga messages ko. And she always pushes me to try other theras. Ramdam siguro nya n i am falling na, kaya ganyan n sya ngayon.

malamang sir inde ka type.

and besides pag client isa lng tingin ng thera dyan either may sabit,bolero,gusto maka score.

success story is 1% and the rest is failure.

spare yourself in losing time,money,emotions,effort,heartache,peace of mind.

by the end of the day they will choose the bad boy or ex bf.

spare your heart from heartache and stress.

just be inlove for an hour and then back to your regular life.

3 hours ago, theoneandonlymistressmia said:

That's actually my worry. Not myself. I'm strong eh. Yung mga tao sa paligid ko. 

 

Possible but todo facemask at faceshield na eh. Hehe. Hopefully to get my senses back. Gusto ko kumain ng kumain eh. 

 

1st time to heard yung ganyan side effect

well a swab test will verify your theory.

stay safe and get well madam z 

in my opinion, we only experience infatuation.

invest on memories not on heartache