kingkamote87

Good day MTC

hiwalay na kame ng wife ko for 4 years and kinausap ko siya about sa annulment. Pumayag naman siya PERO meron siyang conditions. Tinutukoy niya ang financial aid ko para sa anak namin. I-secure ko daw muna yung college fund ng anak namin.

Her statement goes like this:

My questions are:

1. Is that even legal? Kailangan masunod muna yung condtion niya bago ako makapagfile ng petition

2. mababaliwala ba yung petition ko dahil hindi nasunod yung condition niya.

3 ano ang dapat kong sabihin/gawin in this matter

Please help. Thank you Lawyers of MTC.

 

First, assuming that you both reside within the same Barangay, a quick fix on this would be the filing of a complaint before the Lupon of the Barangay and asking them for the issuance of a Temporary Protection Order (TPO) against your psycho ex-girlfriend. Here, they will try their best efforts for you and your ex-gf to reach a settlement or reconciliation at the very least. If no settlement or reconciliation is reached by the both of you, it is only then that they will issue a clearance for you to pursue legal actions from the courts.

 

Now, to answer your inquiry,

 

As to the cursing, there is none since her words would not fall as threats against the complainant as defined under the Revised Penal Code (RPC) nor can you claim Damages from such words under the pertinent provisions of the Civil Code since to claim for such, actual injuries and/or besmirched reputation must be sustained by the plaintiff.

 

As to her, messaging your relatives, there are two options:

 

 

A) File a civil case for Damages anchoring your claim on besmirched reputation, severe anxiety and sleepless nights; or

 

File a criminal case against her for Slander by Deed or Intriguing Against Honor.

 

 

Just a quick note:

 

In the filing of civil cases, the plaintiff merely asks the courts for payment of Damages, be it actual, compensatory, liquidated, etc. The remedy availed of here by the plaintiff is the mere payment of monetary value as prayed for in the complaint, whereas in the filing of criminal cases, the complainant actually seeks the imprisonment of the defendant/accused and/or the payment of fines.

 

So be really careful in choosing your option. Think twice and hard. Plus, think about the actual cost of litigation and the hours that will be spent, should you choose to pursue legal actions against your psycho ex-girlfriend.

 

Good luck, I wish you all the best!

Thanks for answering my query BBB.

one last question, if something bad happens to her (knock on wood) like hurting herself and slit her own wrists and ends up in the hospital.

Will i be held accountable?

Thank you.

I have an inquiry.

i have this psycho ex-girlfriend. She's suicidal and can't move on when things didn't work out between us.

She's been saying things like "isusumpa ko kayong lahat simula sayo hanggang sa pamilya mo at anak mo", "mamamatay din kayong lahat" and to make things worst, she messaged my friends and relatives about the awful thing that i have done to her in the past (we aborted the baby when she got pregnant).

Is there any lawsuit that i can file against her?

Thank you.

parang mali ata yun. 24 hours malinaw eh.

Well, ganun naexperience ko sa Eurotel Cubao paps.

Try mo magcheck-in ng 4pm, before 12nn kinabukasan tatawagan ka na sa room.

Astrotel, Hotel99, Sogo vs Vista Hotel mas gusto ko Vista lalo na kung 12 - 24hrs

Saan pa kaya sa Cubao may murang 12hrs below 700 meron kaya?

Hindi ko na alam kung saan meron paps. Stick lang ako sa Vista hehe.

First time to try Eurotel along Cubao EDSA. Checked in around 4pm for 24hours, room was good and breakfast buffet was okay. But i didn't expect that they followed the standard checkout time of most 4 stars and up hotels which is 12noon ( i expected to be checked out at the same time when i checked in )

I was not informed by the front desk and it's a lesson learned for me.

Vista hotel (along EDSA, below Cubao MRT station)

24hr rate: p1500

12hr rate: p750

For me sulit na to compared sa other hotel/motel basta long hours ang stay na kukunin mo, no more waiting time.

Cozy pa ang rooms. Downside lang is yung ibang rooms walang signal reception, pero pwede ka naman magrequest ng room with windows.

Wifi is good, food is good, AC is good as well.