phoenix 2017

I've written my two cents about falling in love with a thera. Now am in a relationship with an ex-thera. Its working out just fine.

Found out that she is no different from the girl-next-door. I cannot be a hypocrite na babalikan ko siya because of her past. Dahil naging laman din ako ng MPs.

All her life as a thera, she have to fake everything as her mindset was to provide for her brothers and sisters. Wala siyang other way tulad ng sinsabi ng iba dito. Di siya nakatapos ng 2nd year high school since inuna niya muna ang pagaalaga ng mga kapatid niya. t=Then her father died and that was it. Either magutom sila or she can sacrifice herself for them. Di naman lahat tyao afforded ng equal oppotunity to get ahead in life. Kahit anong gawin niya di sapat. Napatapos niya ilan sa mga kapatid niya. Nakapundar siya ng maliit na bahay. Me isang tindahang maliit,

Ngayon she is moving ahead as I gave her the support and opportunity to move forward. She is now a businesswoman. With her own products to sell.

Between the two of us, sexually speaking, we are very active and she is giving her all to me. Dati she used to fake everything with me but now I can see her desire and intimacy grow.

Bakit ko siya napili? Honestly, that I don't know. Its not the sex, as I can get that from anybody else.

One thing good about her is she does not want to talk about her past experiences and her customers. Kahit papaano daw nakatulong din sa kanya and she just wants to fade away from their memories.

Sa part niya, she cut off all communications with them. At the very start pa lang na nagsama kami.

Sa umpisa mahirap din. Dahil andyan yung selos ko.Siya naman ang fear na baka di ko siya pagkakatiwalaan. Nagseselos din siya dati pero ayaw niyang iparamdam sa akin.

habang tumtagal nawawala na. Mas lalong ngaiging normal.

We have a quite life right now.

So good luck sa mga GMs na na-in love sa thera.

rule ng mga karamihang thera: nobto fall in love with a customer. trabaho lang dapat.

if you fall in love then you have to:

- convince yourself that your feelings for her is true. hindi libog.

- tanong mo rin sa sarili mo ano ba talaga ang gusto mong mangyari sa inyong dalawa? magsyota lang? magsama? magpakasal? etc.

- then you have to convince her of your intentions.

- then find a way to court her outside of her workplace. walang halong sex. if you court her inside, walang mangyayari.

Di naman tanga mga thera. they know most men seek their services for sex. So, any promises made to them are met with very strong resistance.

Iwanan ba nila ang trabaho nila for you? What can you offer her? Remember, that they entered into the flesh business with the primary intention of supporting their families. Well, not all. Some just want pleasure and money.

Congrats sa inyo.Pero Kanya kanyang pananaw lang ito.Pero kung ako tatanungin niyo-KUMPLIKADO ang magkarelasyon sa Thera.So wag na lang.At alam ko wala din kayong pakialam sa opinion ko.Wala na lang basagan ng trip.Haha!!!

At least I am not experiencing any kind of illusions regarding my relationship with a former thera. Some people here just equate thera with sex, money and lies. This sweeping generalization of a thera is not always true. Well at least in my case.

She reads the posts here and thank those people who are supportive and feels sad with those who are not. She does not owe anybody any explanation. However she feels that you people who are in a relationship who keeps on f#&king her kind owe an explanation to your wives, girlfriends or lovers. Be it man or woman. LOL.

She dares you to speak here and say how many times you'e cheated on your partners in life. How many times you licked other women's pussies and go home then kiss your wives. How many times you sneaked out of the house or lied to your partner just to get a fix for your libog.

Man she makes me laugh saying these things. She is not angry. She just wonders why the judgements are so vicious and one sided.

I have no illusions neither does she. There are no pretensions.

I fell in love with a thera.She fell for me.

She wants to build a life with me. And I with her. For better or for worse.

She sacrificed her earnings.

She does not obligate me to support her family.

She wants to make it in the real world as an entrepreneur with me as her guide.

She wants to forget her past and ask me to help her hold her head up high.

She asks my forgiveness whenever she cries at night thinking why she had to go through this kind of work. I have to wipe away her tears and tell her everything will be alright.

She told me all these years, she felt dirty when men touch her. She would cry after every sexual service she went through. But have to compose herself and wait for the next one.

She felt demeaned and small, when her guests would talk about her performance in forums like this. What some GMS do not know that it is all an act in order to support her brothers and sisters. So they wont suffer her fate when they grow up.

And through all of these, I listened and let the tears wash away some of her pain. And i whisper...you have me now.

I will hold her hand until we grow old. I will make her whole again. I will make her a proud woman which was not afforded her because she sacrificed her whole life for the betterment of her siblings. Since there was no one else to take that responsibility.

Most of us will judge them. Most of us will vilify them. As if we ourselves are so clean and honest in our lives. Mas masahol pa ang iba. Me mga asawa pero kakantot pa rin ng iba. So why do we judge? You can analyze things to death. But the answers are so simple.

Take a chance.

Make it work.

Take good care of her fragile state.

Let her grow.

Let her cry.

Treat her as you would treat yourself.

I LOVE HER NOT BECAUSE OF....I LOVE HER DESPITE OF....