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  1. just quit august last year, but not totally. i still smoke sometimes especially when i'm bored or during trade shows or business activities. other than that i don't smoke or at least just socially. i have managed to control my urges or cravings to light up.

     

    quitting is no walk in the park, i had to out of the country just to quit :lol: :lol: :lol:

     

    but the trick is for you to be firm with yourself. also and more importantly don't stay with people who smoke, it is easier if all your companions don't smoke at all that way you will be somewhat embarrassed to light up.

     

    i know it's hard to quit if your environment will just tempt you to keep on smoking. so just change your environment.

     

    oh and chewing gum really does help. :)

  2. I learned that even if a relationship takes a conscious effort to maintain, I'd still prefer to allow things to take their natural course. I appreciate it better when things are free-flowing, because control is an illusion. People's choices are a consequence of who they are. I'm a lot happier knowing that we both keep the relationship not by force, but out of choice.

     

     

    aren't we controlling the direction of the relationship by the decisions we make?

     

     

    i for one believe that a part of the equation to make the relationship work is to make a conscious effort to help the relationship along. the decisions we make along the way will likely dictate where the relationship will go. of course, it still takes two to tango, so decisions must be mutually reached.

  3. a friend of mine sent this to me...just want to share it here

     

    Inspiring quotes from Sex in the City...

     

    1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

    If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

     

    2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

     

    3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.

     

    4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

     

    5. Stop changing yourself for a relationship

     

    6. Don't force an attraction.

     

    7. Slower is better.

     

    8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

     

    9. If a relationship ends because the man was not

    treating you as you deserve then heck no you

    can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

     

    10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,

    but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.

     

    11. Don't settle.

     

    12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

     

    13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that?

     

    14. Don't stay because you think "it will get

    better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for

    staying when things are not better.

     

    15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.

     

    16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

     

    17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.

     

    18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a

    bunch of different women. He didn't marry them

    when he got them pregnant, why would he treat

    you any differently?

     

    19. You really have to kiss a few frogs before finding your prince

     

    20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.

     

    21. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

     

    22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If

    something bothers you , speak up.

     

    23. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.

     

    24. Be honest and upfront.

     

    25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.

     

    26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on)

     

    27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will

    treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his

    family (not just mom).

     

    28. There's more than physical abuse, there's

    emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of

    them...flee.

     

    29. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.

     

    30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not

    willing to follow himself -- double-standard.

     

    31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more

    important than you are...even if he has more

    education or in a better job.

     

    32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a

    man, nothing more nothing less.

     

    33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you!

     

    34. Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see

     

    35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.

    Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go.

     

    36. Actions speak louder than words.

     

    37. Never let a man define who you are.

     

    38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to

    yourself for that.

     

    39. Never borrow someone else's man.

     

    40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

     

    41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't

    mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean

    that you are meant to be with him.

     

    42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time.

     

    43. Know that you deserve to be the number one

    person in the life of the #1person in your life.

     

    44. Love is a verb ...

     

    45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to

    make someone unavailable-available, someone

    ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.

     

    46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

     

    47. All men are NOT dogs.

     

    48. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two

    way street.

     

    49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.

     

    50. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.

     

    51. You need time to heal between

    relationships...there is nothing cute about

    baggage ...deal with your issues before pursuing a

    new relationship.

     

    52. You should never look for someone to

    COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two

    WHOLE individuals...look for someone

    complementary...not supplementary.

     

    53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

     

    54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it.

     

    55. Never become your man's "therapist".

     

    56. When actions and words conflict, believe the

    actions. Respond to the actions.

     

    57. A real healthy relationship requires two

    people. One person can end it - but it takes two to

    make it work.

     

    58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (WITHIN REASON) that he wouldn't do for you

     

    59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man

    always know where you are,

    and you're always readily available to him he

    takes it for granted.

     

    60. Give him his space...let him go out with his

    boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you,

    You cant force a man to hang out with you.

     

    61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't.

     

    62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

     

    63. Never move into his mother's house.

     

    64. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone.

     

    65. Ne ver co-sign for a man.

     

    66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.

     

    67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.

     

    68. Never let a man mess up your credit.

     

    69. When it's time to let go; let go.

     

    70. Good men should be treated like good men.

     

    71. Don't play games.

     

    72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

     

    73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

     

    74. Compatibility in terms of educational

    attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career

    goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.

     

    75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.

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  4. give your guy around two weeks. i don't think whatever decision he has to make will take that long for him to reflect on or consider. if after 2 weeks he still hasn't tried to get in touch with you then maybe you should start to accept things as they are and start moving on with your life.

  5. chabacano, i think it's their overall image medyo baduy na trying hard. their songs are ok if you like juke box songs like those of victor wood. medyo pa feeling gwapo kahit hindi. kaya maraming ayaw sa kanya. pero pang masa siya.

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