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On 5/26/2024 at 12:57 AM, blast3r said:

Hi fellow GMs and theras! nung mga nakaraan ngpost din ako dito na parang i'm falling nga.. madami din nagsabi na usually after 5th time or meet mawawala din,, I already lost count pero sa tingin ko tinamaan talaga ako.. alam ko naman na malabo talaga.. may kids xa, may family din ako.. nung una nffrustrate talaga ako eh.. pero ngayon mas tanggap ko na,, ineenjoy ko na lang yung time na magkasama kami, less drama.. minsan na lang 😃  sa ngayon, ineencourage ko xa na mag-aral maging VA (Virtual Assistant) kasi may experience naman sya sa CC.. and nag-aaral naman sya, papahiramin ko muna xa ng laptop and kung makakuha na xa ng 1st client nya sa VA tsaka ko xa tutulungan kumuha ng Laptop.. sa akin ok na yun, matulungan ko xa sa transition sa paglabas ng industry na to, kahit it will mean na d ko na din xa makuha as thera mas ok na sa akin yun.. nagtry din ako ng iba ulit nun, mdami din,  pero iba yung connection sa kanya.. madami na din kaming alam about personal life ng isa't isa, and sana after all maging friends pa din,, takte.. di naman ako matalino pero pagdating talaga sa ganito tanga talaga ako... parang the one that got away talaga.. sa ngayon xa lang nbook ko na thera, pero xa xympre need nya din kumuha ng ibang client.. pero 2-3x a week ako nagbbook.. i even send advance payment pag need nya.. she doesn't do GFE sa chats, hindi xa malambing 😃 pero that's more i like it kasi totoo lang xa, kaya pa minsan minsan, pagnglalambing xa, alam ko totoo yun.. napahaba na yun kwento ko.. until next time mga tol.. 

 

buhay pa pala tong thread damn

good for you man, seems like you really got good intentions for her

2 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

I met someone through MTC, my good friend @courtesanhunter.

We met so many times including an out of the country trip. We never had sex (and I didn't pay for her time at all) because she did not treat me as a guest.

In the end, nagkasumbatan about me being jealous of other guys and she also blurted out to me, vivid to this day -"Ikaw nga jan, walang tigil din magkwento tungkol sa mga thera mo!"

 

Jealously on both sides? Cool.

Also asked several theras about their opinion on falling for a thera in the first place- some were along the lines of "having deep pockets for pag-garahe", but one comment stood out and it's pretty insightful:

"Expect trust issues on both sides."

- Trust issue on the Thera and GM both possibly developing / cultivating a connection with others (selos basically)

- Trust issue on the GM is there for a freebie

Among others. which makes sense.

2 hours ago, AngGwapo said:

@courtesanhunter and the rest of GMs.

In this world, we all strive to improve our standing and actually even before improving our standing, we look out to survive since it's basic human instinct. 

It is unavoidable to want to find a stable partner whether here in the industry or in real life. It really becomes a matter of where and how you meet. I still remember someone I know back in college who said:
"I cannot just date anyone as the guy needs to improve my standing in society."

Would you really go for someone who will make you worse off? At least, you will want to be with someone who will make you better - whether from a financial standing, emotional crutch, human connection, etc.

This goes both ways - women looking for a man/woman or man looking for a woman/man. Are we going to survive with this person? Are we going to be there through thick and thin (if you don't want thin, then, continue usual activities in MTC)? Can this person help me in life financially, emotionally, sexually, etc.? That other person needs to improve the other's life in one aspect. That person uplifts the other with what the other doesn't have.

How many have heard of the statement "Yeah, that's a power couple." vs. "Yeah, hindi sila bagay." vs. "Yeah, parehong pumangit buhay nila dahil sa isa't isa." 

In the case of non-Filipinos, there is a misconception that a Filipina will take care of them - cook, clean, and others for them. Even hyphenated Filipinos come to the Philippines looking for love - and I know at least two women who came here to live to find "the one." One was successful. 

Misconception because that may be very short-term. There are so many Filipinas, especially those who outmigrate with their partners - who may leave their partners after getting the proper papers. More common may be outward laziness once the legal commitment is there. But then, there are also Filipinas who stick by their partners, legal or not, through thick and thin.

Introducing your partner to family, wherever and however you meet, is part of cementing the commitment both ways. The older person gets someone s/he may not have in other aspects of his/her life and the younger one gets the same. It is always mentioned here that it's about the money of older gentleman that makes the younger go after him. If they do end up with each other, the woman gets a more stable (sana) life and man, while it's hard to think of - gets someone who will give them the caring they need especially in their older years. That is the other side of the story perhaps the reason why older gents look for younger women who, chances are, will outlive them by decades.

Natutunang mahalin? I've heard this many times. I've also heard that some do not fall in love. They're just keeping the person for the support, in however fashion, they get which may be short-, mid-, or long-term.

Forever after? Who knows? But that's how it is outside of this vacuum we live in as well.

Lastly, the women in MTC are here with lots of men because they don't want to lift up their lives for the short-term (gipit), medium-term (makapagipon). Those who want more especially with single men may do enter into long-term relationships (makapagipon and build a family). If they find someone they like, why not? The same goes for the men, why not? Body count? Sorry but I bet there's at least 100 guys here who have been with 100 women (hindi yung fake FRs or know-it-alls who don't really avail, ha).

My two cents this weekend.

Happy Friday!

Wow. Solid take. Happy friday to you!

14 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

🤪

 

Variation: "I love you ka ng I I love you may pang garahe ka ba" 🤣

21 hours ago, LookingOswald said:

Haha pretty sure we just made out for 2 hours kahit nag ubos oras kami dun I would have been okay with it 😂

Well worth it? 🤣

1 hour ago, papagur0 said:

Reze..Denji's Totga..Tinamaan ka boss! pero alam mo naman golden rule sa bisyo na to..haha pero kung hindi mo kayang pigilan "It's better to burn out than fadeaway" haha lol

Kaya nga for the most part guarded ako hahahaha ewan ko rin ano meron during / after the third booking. Meron narin naman ako na kuha more than 3 times pero di ganito HAHA lakas nya

1 hour ago, chnky said:

I feel you man. Minsan may ganyang feeling talaga. Wag ka lang masyadong magpalamon sa kumunoy

Usually guarded naman ako sa lahat ng bookings ko. di ko alam anyare, guarded naman ako sa first few bookings ko sakanya. tas biglang waw shet ano to hahaha

6 hours ago, papagur0 said:

Noice chainsawman..

Based manga hahaha ALSO LALABAS NA SI REZE SA ANIME

This meme fits this thread.

then again, I'm currently in that gruesome delusion of getting interested / falling for a thera. or baka libog lang to.

All I know is I'm interested to get to know her more.