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Ang gusto kong maka date?... Syempre, yung gustong makipag date sa akin.

RULES & PROMISES...ahhh ...so much have been said about it... Definitely, rules are not meant to be broken, otherwise if it is meant to be broken, then we do not need rules and that will be anarchy. It became so "meant to be broken" because we always wanted the easier way & usually breaking rules is the easier way...the reason why we break it. While rules are set to be used as guideline & norms, breaking them is really incumbent about the person. Because these rules are not meant to be broken but meant to provide order & standard and breaking them is our decision but not the norm.

Promises are actually assurances. However, in uncontrollable situation, they are usually unfulfilled. In some instances, promises become rhetoric when people used it for personal gain or to get "pogi points". Nevertheless, promises should be anchored on commitment & word of honor. It is something that is not just given for the sake of comforting the other party but a fufillment that puts to a test your credibility & integrity and a manifestation of your decisiveness.

Rules & Promises are therefore not meant to be broken but meant to do better. It is incumbent upon us if we break it of honor it, else you will be judged...

be careful though...ganun lang kase talaga sila at first...that's how they compensate for their lack of "looks".... but i tell you..

they're the worst kinds...kase eventually lalabas din yung true colors nila..magbabago din at mawawala yung pinakikita nya sayong treatment ( he treats you like a goddess...and all) pag alam na nyang he owes you na talaga at ang matitira na lang ay ang pangit nyang itsura... magsisisi ka promise.... ( sorry to be so harsh guys ...i'm just saying what i think is true...from past experiences...)

I believe this topic is refering to Physical Aspects ... ( particularly the Face of a person)

Beautiful ---people w/ pretty faces ( breath taking...stunning...may x factor..masarap tingnan...proud ka pag kasama mo sila...halimbawa...kamukha ni Natalie Portman...yan beautiful yan... )

Ugly --- not very pleasing to look at ...di ka ma aatract man lang pag nakita mo sila...minsan nakakainis pa face nila...minsan naman nakakatawa rin yung mukha nila ( halimbawa: Allan K. ...sino magsasabing beautiful yun? )

Para di OT:

Beautiful women fall for ugly men...because of the wrong notion ...that ugly men tend to be more faithful...mas mabait...mas iingatan sila...mas takot sa kanila.

I beg to disagree. Are you saying that women are that dumb to have the notion that uglymen are more faithful???? Again, Physical look is only one aspect. Yes, you may or may not be attracted but the next level is whether he is ugly or handsome, women still has to discern & not judge based on face value. The face value has nothing to do with the deeper values & attitude of a person. One cannot conclude that the face value has something to do with breeding, attitude, fidelity or infidelity. Unless there is a concrete study that will prove this to be true.

At the end of the day, women should discern for themselves the real person behind that face, whether ugly or handsome. Perhaps they should not be carried away by the face value or even by the good things being shown by the person. She has to undersand the motive & intention. This may require sometime though unless you can honestly discern the person behind that looks. But nevertheless, whatever decision, one makes, is her/his responsibility & we should learn from the experience without necessarily co-relating it with looks. For all you know, it may be coincidental. Sometimes, kasi because of our excitement or perhaps adverse experience, we generalize people. Each person was created by GOD in His own way & uniqueness. The challenge is to find out the real person behind the looks & decide whether we are taking unecessary risk or whether its just a matter of luck or perhaps our own doing of not able to discern the right person for us. Yes, it is tough but that's where we grow & mature & keep moving forward despite some unfortunate experiences.

Please dont get me wrong. Just my two cents of sharing again.

on looks being secondary -

i think one has to reach a certain level of maturity to appreciate the totality of the person. there's a phase in our lives that we put a high premium on the physical aspect - looks above all things. but then again, this varies from one person to another.

 

it's the total package. the looks is equally as important as the person's attitude.

As to the looks being equally important as the person's attitude.... It is relative. Yes it may be very important to some but again looks is relative...some may see one as having good looks yet some may see him otherwise. Some may see it very important, others may not. While it is true that looks are important , it does not however ends there...one has to go to the next level...the person behind that looks.. For me, insofar as physical look is concerned, I go for the "X" factor instead.

aah...ok...since you suggested...ginawa ko nga...narealize ko...nung gwapo yung mga bf ko pa noon...di wala pa akong alam sa sex...kaya...pinapalitan nila ako ng magaling or older girls ...yung may alam na sa sex...eh dahil akala ko ang reason ay dahil babaero lang ang gwapo...humanap ako ng panget...awa ng dios naka dalawa naman ako...sa una kakaiba ang treatment nila...para kang dyosa......pag alam nilang mahal ko na sila...ayun lumalabas na lahat ng kapangitan...andyan yung...batugan naman pala...selfish naman pala talaga din...mahilig din sa babae...at....may mga kadiri habits pa..like nag pipick na ng nose sa harap mo...nafa-fart na...normal lang yun pero...ampangeet lalo na pag pangit pa ang gumagawa ng ganon ...btw...hindi ako ang iniiwan nila ...ako ang nagiiwan...so hold your horses pare. I'm just saying na...kung pag aaralan mo...wala talaga sa itsura ang pagkatao ng isang tao...pero come to think of it...ang kapangitan physically ay masasabi nang isang misfortune...merong psychological effect yan...malamang mas flirt pa ang mga di gwapo kase they've always wanted attention from the opposite sex. Madalas pa tinatrato lang nilang trophy ang isang magandang babae na maging ka affair nila.

Just two cents of sharing.... Believe, it's not the physical aspect really that matters. Beauty or good looks is only skin deep. What really matter is the inner self. Something that you just do not know at one instance. Attraction for the looks - YES . but getting to know the person whether good looking or not is another thing. There may be good looking who are also fine & a gentleman & also ugly physically who may also be ugly inside but it all boils down to personality & values. That is why getting into a relationship is not a matter of looks but a matter of choice based on our discernment. Again, we are responsible for whatever decisions we make, the looks are secondary. Let us be reminded that ' We cannot judge a BOOK by its cover" It's incumbent upon us to get to know the person not only physically but emotionally, psychologically & spiritually. The misfortune we may have suffered has nothing to do with the looks of the person but our own inability to discern the real person behind that looks.

Just my sharing...

(let me try this out, since i'm kinda new)

 

Can you give a random list of the MTC women you find interesting? Thanks!

Actually alot but of course depending on your definition of interesting. Interesting sexually, intellectually, physically or whatever...

For those whom I met : ( May just find out interesting in what? i'd rather maintain the confidentiality of it )

1. Dermachiq

2. Sweet_lass

3. Ma

4. BMW

5. Mitchiko

6. Flirty

7. Misteryosa

8. Power F*ck girls

9. night_sirene

10. Vannilla Ice

11. There are those I forgot the handle because it's quite sometime.

For those whom I have not met :

1. You are on my top list

2. Transcience

3. Victoria 23

4. e_rotica

5. vietnamese doll

6. And more...just couldnt remember the handles....hahaha

For you.... Big_D

 

1. What does your nick means? does it applies to you?

2. What is the very interesting part of a woman's body that you want to touch that would make you very aroused? (except those commonly touch)

3. What is Erotophobia? Do you have that?

 

yaan muna more to come.....

 

Woh, I am in the hot seat???

What is this? A big_Dyok!

1. Yes my nick applies to me. It's something I want to whisper to you when we get the chance to see each other.

2. Again, I'd rather tell it to you privately so that women may not be aware of it & for them to discover it.

3. Erotophobia is fear of marriage, dating or romantic relationships. Definitely I dont have that since i am happily married & yet not afraid of dating & romantic relationships.

Thanks

Hi Ms. E,

I seldom post outside of my thread but since you are in the HOTseat, will take this opportunity to post a Q.

As I browsed through the pages, I noticed that i'm running out of Q to ask so I want to ask you

WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO ASK YOU so that you can articulate the answer that you want to be publicly known????

err... actually, you have to avoid women whose lifestyles will result to STD.... or women who don't impose safer sex practices.....

 

if the girl will just spread legs for you at the drop of a hat... w/o even discussing protection w/ you... and w/o even a vague conversation of each other's sexual history....

 

mag-isip ka...

Perhaps we really dont have to avoid any woman for that matter at all.. They are human beings & women are gifts that complement the men... What we need to avoid be it "man or woman" is a situation that would compromise health, trust, friendship, or would bring us into a compromising situations which were all cited in the previous postings...What do you think??? opinion lang po...

Hello! i'm currently in a big blob... any suggestions on quick money fix???

Easy money yung multi tel, MMG scam..... pero kung talagang kailangan mo...lapit ka kay JV Ejercito baka matulungan ka nuon bago mabuksan ang bank account niya...hehehehe

Being lonely or happy is  a decision one has to make...Example would be... If we are battered, and still allow our partner to continuously do it to you, it will be your choice to be desperate & eventually lonely... but if we decided to be happy, we can be capable of giving up this kind of relationship....Therefore, it all depends on us to decide..it's our choice to exercise our right...our freedom...because this is one of the greatest gifts God has given us ...the freewill...the freedom of choice...what matters though is how we make use of this choice....be it good or othewise, we should be reponsible for the outcome of our choice.....do i make sense???  

 

  " Unless we become responsible for all our good lucks & ill fortunes, we can never make it.." Anonymous

parang ganun lang kadali yun ha. maraming factors din to consider eh. hindi ganun kadali.

Kaya nga sabi ko ay desisyon iyon....di mag isip ka bago ka magdecide...kung di ka makadecide..problema mo na iyon....peace bro..

s@%t Happens, but don't let the s@%t stays.....

Being lonely or happy is a decision one has to make...Example would be... If we are battered, and still allow our partner to continuously do it to you, it will be your choice to be desperate & eventually lonely... but if we decided to be happy, we can be capable of giving up this kind of relationship....Therefore, it all depends on us to decide..it's our choice to exercise our right...our freedom...because this is one of the greatest gifts God has given us ...the freewill...the freedom of choice...what matters though is how we make use of this choice....be it good or othewise, we should be reponsible for the outcome of our choice.....do i make sense???

" Unless we become responsible for all our good lucks & ill fortunes, we can never make it.." Anonymous

To live my life with purpose

Ano nga po ba ang purpose ninyo????peace

To give LOVE ..for it is in giving that you receive....

Pag di busy..sa office but not at home..kasi reserved ko sa pamilya ko time ko...hehe

Mga lawyers, help naman po.

 

I'm poor and penniless as of the moment. Could anyone of you make me an affidavit of loss? My bag got stolen last night. In it was my wallet (with id's, your calling cards, and all the money that I have left) and my cellphone.

 

Your help will surely be appreciated.

 

Thank you.

So...sorry to hear that Fire..surely, our lawyers here will be more than willing to help.

Meantime, re: your cellphone, if you know the IME number of your cell ( that is the serial nuimber of your cell), call the NTC (National Telecommunications Commission) & request to block it so that the one who stole will not be able to use it even with a new sim card....thanks.

" Anythingoes" --hehe. one word yan ( meaning walang problema..basta magpakatotoo ka lang!!!)

Taurus....the Bull

Birthstone : Emerald

The best part is...you have the job...The worst part is ..you are not happy with the job....ano ba talaga gusto ninyo?????just asking??

Why work? we all need to work to support our basic needs and share something in excess to the less priviledged..but we should not work like hell...because there are those .. who work, work to save money..then when retired...spend...spend all that he saves for his health....Lesson... Work to live & Not live to work...balanse lang po.. we should not be a victim to work...we should find time for our well being, our loved ones & God and surely work will find its worth...heavy ba???? heheheheh

I have a dog..it is a black LABRADOR...It's being currently trained by a K-9 trainer every afternoon...very playful siya. ... Her name is Bubbles...oooops sori kapangalan ng isa sa powerf#&k girls....

General Manager - Multinational Telecoms company

4 decades & 3 years

Undergrad - MIT, Graduate School - Ateneo