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That goes both ways. Of course there will be trust issues. Alam nyo ang pinasok nyo dba. You are trying to find love sa spa. Alam nyo sweet kami sa madaming clients in 1 day. At least kau GMs may option, you can choose cno gus2 nyo maging thera. Eh kami?Can we choose cno mkkasama namin for a session?

 

My point is, nakita ko na to several times. A GM courts a thera, pretends he is single and her would be savior, but in the end, all he really wanted was free sex. Of course there are always exemptions (like ung isang manliligaw ni May) but these men are a bit rare.

 

Yeah that goes for both parties. Kaya nga mas understandable yung situation niyo kasi you dont have the sabihin na natin freedom the GM you want to be with unlike sa amin we have the freedom on whom we want to get, but as far as i see i committed to her, na as much as possible mas maganda outside the spa kasi i really want to know her very well, the real her. Sometimes di maiiwasan na thera thinks ahead regarding yun lang tlga habol ni GM but not all are like that. Im not saying na karamihan.. rare nga lang.. the question to you thera.. how would you know if this guy is genuine or not??

Interesting thread. Even more interesting with the inputs of my 2 former co-theras. Hahaha

 

To May/Mavic,

 

My unsolicited advise. be very careful on who you give your heart to. Always ask the question why do these GMs like me. Remember, the spa business is very competitive, there are a lot of other theras there who could be prettier, sexier than us and how can you have the assurance that the GMs promising you his heart won't go running to the next fresh face out there? Most of the time, a lot of these clients are very good at the start, but once they get their benefits, that's when things really change. I did not experience that myself, but I have seen it happen to a lot of my closest friends in the spa. Liligawan kuno but being left out in the cold once nagsawa na c guy. After all, there are always a fresh supply of theras coming into the business so meron at meron bagong star thera na darating.

 

May, I happen to be a bit updated sa luvlife mo....all i can say is...one of the names being linked to you, all i can say is wow, swerte mo sa knya. He is single,totoong single nde gaya ng ibang manliligaw mo (yes, i know some) na meron mga asawa o jowa. Sana cya na c Mr. Right mo, he is also successful enough in life that he can take you out d2 sa work na to anytime you want to quit. Its your decision of course, but I am just saying why go for a Nokia when you can have an Iphone 7.Lol

 

Mga GMs, umayos kau. Some of you are familiar to me and I know some names here who have partners. If you can't respect your own relationship, how can we expect you will respect your would be relationship with a thera?

This is a good advice.. pero there are times na trust issue pa rin.. what if si GM eh single naman tlga, having a good life that thera have a security of leaving the industry. Pero there are instances na si there tlaga yung may ayaw or she is the one having trust issue kay GM like she's having thought that GM might get another thera.. even though he's not.. so the point is GM is willing to go all through this but si thera ang nagiisip ng mga bagay na hindi naman dapat..

Ok lang yan bro. Malalampasan din yan.

Maliit ba bagay bro.. pero sayang lang din kasi.. pero ok lang..

Nope. Specially if she's a therapist

Parang may hugot ah hahaha..

I think once is enough na.. ayos na yun maexperience mo.. but im still thankful for that experience.. bad thing sh*t happens..

Many fell for that "Spark" Spell.

Once a GM fall in love sa thera. Especially the GM told her everything about his life he is genuine and true to the thera. Not because you two met in this f*cking industry for me trust should not be an issue if you both like each other. I will always repeat this, if the GM is willing to understand your situation regarding your job they are sincere to you. Dont think that the cannot love the way you want to be loved. Mas seryoso pa sa inaakala niyo.. sana lang din sa mga thera konti unawa din kasi kaya naming unawain ang trabaho niyo.

Ako naman, ayaw ko muna magpaligaw sa mga Guest ko.

 

Dapat ganyan keysa yung magpaasa pa.. paligoy ligoy pa nangagamit lng tao eh..

Your post

You don't make sense. And you don't know how to listen. What discussion are you talking about? You're r hiding behind those big words and fallacies that you don't understand. Think before you jump into conclusion. Saka OT ka na. Asar ka na. I'm entitled to my opinion. Wag mong pansinin kung senseless. I can quote you kung gusto ko. Wag mong sagutin pero di ka makakatiis. Baka di ka pa makatulog sa kakaiisip kung paanong gamitin ang mga words na binitawan mo. Opinion ko yun. Kung ayaw mo deadmahin mo. Try mo maexperience si Mavic. Ewan ko lang.

 

 

I asked you to point out the post wherein I posted a non-sequitur statement, you could not answer it. I asked you if you are sure I fell for a therapist, you also could not answer it. The next time you tell me that I am using non-sequitur, point it out. Hilarious. You tell me something but when I ask you to point it out, you can't point it out. Checkmate.

How do you know I am pissed? Are you a clairvoyant?

Baka hindi ka makatulog kasi iniisip mo pa isasagot sa mga tanong ko.

 

 

Relax lang mga boss...this Thread is not meant for us to have an arguments lang this.. relax lang konting lamig..

 

May mga taong nakakakita na.. everyone is subjected to every opinion here.. thats why we have a forum like this..

It all starts with trust and respect right? I got a bit curious with the term, wala sa lugar. How did that turn out, if you don`t mind me asking? It`s totally cool not to reply to it if you`re not comfortable.

I will answer regards your question about wala sa lugar.. lets say that you find this kind of love in the wrong place. Meaning in the spa, as GM-THERA relationship. Dito papasok yung trust issue since sa spa nga nagwowork si thera. How would us GM would be able to accept or understand the nature of work ni thera. How is the level of understand of the GM. Na ok lang sa kanya yung ginagawa ni thera on the other GM. While kay thera naman how can she truly accept the genuinity of trust that GM can offer/provide. Na tipong anu ba mas mauuna niyang maisip yung pagmamahal pa rin niya kay GM or her guilt towarda the nature of her work.

But for me as long you can love a person genuinely regardless of what situation your relationship status is. You will disregard all of that negative thoughts that may occur. Especially the trust issue between to two of you..

Everyone here has experienced love one way or the other and to me thats a blessing.. truthfully I am

in sooo much pain right now, but Im still thankful because I know now how to fully be in love with someone. The first time I saw her I could barely look her in the eyes, but she held her gaze to mine and I saw something very precious. Before meeting her I thought I already knew what love meant, but she gave it a whole other meaning. Right now all I wish for is her wellness and joy. Ive been out of it for the past few days, because I wish I can be the one for her. Because I never really saw her as a therapist but a woman. Never assume things, because that will eat you up inside, be truthful and ask how they feel. It gave me great joy when she said she has feelings for me but gnawing fear as well knowing I cannot fully commit myself to her. Everyday I wake up that I wish that I am someone else. Guys if you really respect them as person, just give them your unrelenting trust,because it shows them you care. Besides as you already know, they do this for the money to support themselves and their family. We cannot hold it against them to do their jobs. To the few successful stories here I salute you, to the ones who got hurt and bitter, I tip my hat to you since you survived the pain of loss and came out just a little bit wiser. For the hopeless romantics who are pursuing who they believe their love is, I admire your courage and wish you the best.

You are right. We should treat them not as a therapist but as a fine woman. Still the deserve to be loved and love no matter what job and circumstances are having right now. Me as a GM i can proved to her that no matter how hard to understand these circumstances. Ity choice to understand her..

interesting topic. Madaling mahulog ang loob naming mga GMs.

Yun na nga mabilis mahulog tayong mga GM minsan to the point pinapaasa na lang tayo.. dami pa paligoy ligoy di na lang diretsuhin eh..

From my last thera relationship, how did I know it was real? It started with little things then went into bigger decisions from her side.

 

-She was the first one who initiated we date outside

-She got very jealous the one time I got another thera (d pa kami nun)

-She also gets furious if I don't do my usual last call with her

-She cried when she accidentally saw another theras msg in my phone

-She cooks at her house and brings me food all the way from where she lives during her off

-She was the first one who said "i love you" and asked me to be in a relationship with her

-She introduced me to her family as her BF

-She left the spa industry in our 2nd month together

 

At first, I did not take what we had seriously because well, she was known to be a top thera who is quite generous with ES. But as we got to know each other more, she began to show signs her feelings were indeed real. And yes, the high point of it was when she left the industry for me.

Ang saya naman ng story mo sir Les.. sana ako din ganyan kay thera ko.. i thought the feeling is mutual yun pala ako lang ata.. minsan kasi you will feel thru their actions din tlga if genuine eh.. pero maybe its too early tell pa pero sana nga mali ako ng iniisip.. pero right thats what i feel eh.. ang saya basahin ng ganyang love story eh noh.. na its not all there sa espa lng. Especially not all about money matters lang..

Ang hirap mafall kahit may takot ka, pero you can't help it.

I shared that my first thera relationship was way back in college (late 80s). Hindi ako sawi. Iniwan nya ako since she went to Japan. Wala naman akong k pigilan sya since wala akong kayang ipakain.

Now share ko naman na i met a thera last year, (not the thera that i used to know), who I really liked too and we only became friends (di raw sya pwedeng magfall sa akin kasi we met sa spa). Wala syang tiwala sa loyalty or sincerity ng gm. Kulitan, textan, masaya naman ako, masaya naman sya siguro kasi lagi syang nakangiti and tumatawa whenever nagkikita kami pag dinadalaw ko ang lobby ng spa nila sa Banawe area. What i liked about her is hindi sya paasa and frank na hwag mo akong ligawan kasi dito kita nakilala.

Sir Usebyo i think she somebody that you used to know also. Yun ang gusto ko sir. Wala ng paligoy ligoy pa kasi siyempre tayo gusto natin sila eh.. sabi ko walang kaso sa akin yun kung dito kami nagkakilala.. mahirap dinnkasi yung ganito na nakahang ako.. sinasabi niya namimiss niya ko and friend din naman kaminsa facebook which is very rare na mangyari am i right?? So ayun.. medyo naka hang pa rin kasi ako eh.. sa totoo lng..

Hehehe...good luck sa love story nyo.

Sana nga May.. sana nga nababasa din niya yung mga post ko dito..

Hello!Kilala ko?Hmmm...starts with letter "M"?Lol...and I think I know who started to use the word "spark" in this thread.

 

Tama ba ako?Cya ba?Lol

Haha oo galing ah.. actually hindi "M" eh haha.. di ko na lang lalagay.. oo siya nag start nun pero sa isang post ko rin niya nireply yun.. kaya nung sinabi niya yun sa akin mismo na baka ng talagang meron "SPARK". The feeling is mutual. Or siguro assuming lang ako cguro din..

Hi Guys,

 

 

Its been awhile since I posted here...Took a little hiatus after the issues in the other thread.

 

Anyway, seems the posts has gotten more interesting since I last visited. To share, I do understand the frustration and hurt that some of you feel.The "complications" due to the nature of our job is bound to strain and break most relationships. A thera-client partnership is not for the faint of heart and I say that for both parties involved.

 

From a thera perspective, I believe if there is blame to be shouldered, the bigger piece of the pie should be on the side of the GMs. First, you know what our job is, you guys know what we do. You are aware we do "GFE" to our clients and we apply that to most of our guests as a way gain patronage. You did not go into this situation blind. Yet, despite all these factors, some of you still pursue us and treat us like we are ordinary women. Well, we are not. We work in the flesh trade and you do not have monopoly on our bodies. Thus, when you get the point where you have really fallen, why blame us for the jealousy that you feel when you hear a certain client experiences high mileage? Why say, "kala ko sakin mo lng ginagawa un?". Why blame the thera when you know everything that we do right from the start?

 

You say pera lang habol, well, thats why we are in the industry in the first place. Because we need the money. But that goes in the other direction. We all know why you guys ventured into the spa in the first place. Katawan habol nyo. That is why the enterprise thrives. There is an exchange of "needs" between client and thera.

 

Having said this, there are always exemptions to the rule. As I have emphasized several times in my previous posts, love can strike anyone at anyplace and even in this "indecent" world we thrive in, there is still the possibility that something real can develop between a thera and GM. That is what I am holding on to. And to be fair, I have met a few clients who have crossed into the threshold of being "real" and have gained my trust. Whether that blossoms into something romantic, that remains to be seen.

 

Have a good morning gents.

 

 

May

Hi ms. May i understand what you are trying to say. Oo this industry is a little bit tricky talaga. Pero tao lang din tayo. All the negative aspect i know can be turned into positive diba. Money andyan na yan eh thats why you are in the industry diba. Kasi para sa akin walang masama mainlove sa thera, siguro for me if tlgang walang pag asa sabihin na lang agad kasi umaasa din naman kami.. Saying that there is a "SPARK" coming from her.. being jealous naman its depends na lang din tlgansa level of understanding ni GM for me ah.. well thats my side lang naman..

Clue for her.. somebody you use to know.. kilala mo siya.. haha

Hindi naman sa masamang tao o kupal ako, pero eto lang sana point ko, please dun sa mga thera, kung alam nyo na may feelings na sa inyo un client, sabihin nyo kagad up front na wag na haluan ng feelings kung anu man pinagsasaluhan nyo sa loob ng 1 oras, iwasan nyo na din, don't play with the feelings of a vulnerable guy, kasi may iba, inaabuso, tulad ko, I can say na naabuso un situation ko noon.

 

Para dun naman sa mga Client na marupok at vulnerable, wag nyo seryosohin ang GFE, kaya nga Girl Friend Experience, it is only good for 1 hour, minsan nga wala pang isang oras tapos na, pera lang yan, wag mo na papaniwalain un sarili mo...

 

peace =)

Sobrang agree ako dito sa sinabi mo na to sir.. meron kasi dami dami pang dahilan eh.. magbibigay ng number at iaadd ka pa sa fb niya so what we expect that diba?? Yun lang mahirap sa ating mga guys we are very vulnerable pag dating sa ganyan.. once namannkasi nainlove ang isang gm eh lalo na wala naman gf at asawa o anak diba parang its a matter of pride ba kaya mo lunukin para sa kanya. Well salamat sa payo bro.. basketball na lang di ako nag muay thai eh.. hahaha masakit.. at baka mapapunta ako ulit ng ESPA pag nanakit mga katawan haha..

This is an example of a double whammy. You didn't know that she had a boyfriend and, not content with this, she insulted you. I really think a customer should have the mindset of treating the therapist as his girlfriend for an hour and shutting that thought it down after an hour. This is the only way to enjoy going to a spa, in my opinion.

 

Well ako never naman na darating sa point na ganyan mangyayari. Malalaman mo naman if pera pera na lang habol sayo eh..

Yes padre, totoo un, I Won't deny, in-fact baka mabasa pa un discussion before, circa 2014, kung hindi pa binubura ng admin, yes dinepensahan ko talaga sila, blinded talaga ako nun, nung mga panahon na un, I came from a very bad break up, kinda run away bride un nangyare, that's why I resovled to try this realm of carnal desire, masarap kasi labasan, it eases the pain of losing someone you've been with for 7 years, kaya nakaka confuse un pag ibig at libog during those days, kaya nga I'm speaking from my own experience, kaya sa mga gusto pasukin un sakit sa ulo nato, wag na hahahaha... pera pera lang talaga, napatunayan ko yan, ok lang have fun, f#&k a lot, pero wag na ma inlab, sakit sa ulo lang...

Yun nga bro what i am seeing right now is the situation you have before.. tipong she's a run away bride yung tipong nag ipon ka tlga abroad para sa kasal niyo then suddenly ayun nasulot ng iba.. sayang ang 5 yrs namin.. somewhat infatuated siguro dahil nakasama mo nga si thera.. well i guess tama kayo mga brad.. dinlang tlga maiwasan coming from a very hard break up 9 months ago. Kaya siguro until now hirap pa rin.. still looking for a affection ng iba kaya na rin siguro nagkakaganito..

Will you still love me even if the-rapist ako?

Oo naman mamahalin kita. It not because of the work naman eh.

Dapat balance lang..

Falling in love on a therapist is very hard to believe for both side either for a GM or therapist herself. But i experience this one yesterday. Its too juvenile to say that i fall for her easily, but whay can i do this is what i feel and i want to let her know that somebody as in somebody can love them seriously.

It doesnt matter if she's single mom i can accept that. Even shebis asking me "is it alright that this is my job??" Yes i will accept that. Because im that type of guy.

I told her my story that i've been through worst from my previous relationship and i will not elaborate regarding this anymore.

But my point is that if you that "spark" as you are saying i know you have the time to read this. I was holding to your word that there was a "spark" between us. Even though is hard for both of us i know we have alot of question going on our mind. As i am saying to you I dont care about then job that you are having right now, its just that its you thatbi want to know, i want to be with. Because if we kept on thinking that way we will never understand each other.

I dont care what other people or GM will have to stay regarding on this post but i just want to know that the time that i saw and be with you, i'd wished that someday we can be together in a way that we want to be.

Totoo pala yung "SPARK". Buti naniwala ako..

Big ears

Ms mavic muhkang pasado ako haha.. kaya ko pa pagalawin yung ears ko..