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My favorite thera

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Playing hard to get

13 hours ago, FF said:

my ex crying ... calling me and saying she got punched by her hubby (for the first time  in their two year marriage ).

Told her to see a doctor to get a medical certificate for her injuries ( mostly a split lip ) , contact a lawyer to find what legal recourse she has and to find a marriage counselor if she still wanted to work things out.

Hubby had erstwhile directed his violence on objects and things but the physical assault may signal the beginning of something worse I warned. Hay. Hay talaga .

Tsk tsk. Very bad. Need makuha yung cert proving trauma from assault within 24 hrs. Make sure you get it from a government hospital...

1 minute ago, Eric Draven said:

Cheers. Isang case ng Red Horse Mucho diyan, sagot ko na. Hahaha.

Cheers!

30 minutes ago, mosy_24 said:

This is my own opinion lang...

We all know na yung mga thera na nasa ganitong industriya hindi rin naman nila ginusto mapunta sa ganitong trabaho e ito lang ang alam nilang paraan para makatulong sa pamilya o may mailagay sa hapagkainan sa araw araw pero wag sana natin gawin dahilan yun para hindi sila respetuhin bilamg isang babae. Tao lang sila na deserve ng pagmamahal at respeto.

I very much agree.

38 minutes ago, FF said:

comrade hindi mo pagsasawaan dahil may TRUE feelings ka sa kanya at may TRUE feelings siya sa iyo. I hope you read my earlier post bout her immortal line to me.

Ung "pagsawaan "sa fave thera mo lang yan na hanap mo lang ay sex . Yan ang pinagsasawaan . OO marami sila dito. Tapos move on ka . Been there done that. And maybe for most GMs still doing it too. Wag mo sanang lahatin.

For a lucky few ... they found someone they  loved , cherished , respected and sacrificed for . And they were loved cherished and respected and sacrificed for in turn.

Very true...

1 hour ago, Eric Draven said:

I just can’t stop to fall for her.

1 hour ago, mosy_24 said:

Same here sir!! Di ka nag-iisa!! 😍

1 hour ago, FF said:

 

 

comrades we all rode the same boat pala. I remember her immortal line to me " Oo alam ko may pera ka. Pero hindi importante sa akin yan . Importante na mahal mo ako . At mahal na mahal kita."  PAKTAY NA ! 🥲

Hindi pala ako nag iisa! 🙂

On 4/30/2022 at 7:09 PM, Richang said:

It is possible na kaya nag cut sya ng communication is that she likes you and hindi sya ready. Or ayaw nya mag fall totally. Or she is protevying you  na sya ns lng iiwas para hindi k n mag fall.

Experienced this also. Close n kme ni thera. Dalas ko n din bumisita sa spa kahit hindi ako magpa service. I was falling na. Then she stsrted to keep distance and also pushes me to try other theras. So ayun. Hindi natuloy ang pag fall ko. Which is a good thing cause i am married.

Yun lng. 

Hi sir Richang. Thank you for your comment. It is nice to imagine na sana nga mga ganito ang nangyari. Sadly, I will never know the truth.

I don't mind falling for her, despite the difficult road ahead. I was willing to go the extra mile/s. Kahit gaano pa kahirap yan, kakayanin if gusto.

I am no longer with my wife, so it is not an issue...  I would have preferred being with her, kahit mahirap ang circumstances....

18 hours ago, Ernest Ty said:

At the end of the day, life has to go on

Agree sir.

23 hours ago, FF said:

comrade .... the poster you are agreeing with kid fighter has been suspended by MTC because of uncivil behavior in his posts and for his feeling superior to others ( calling them inggitero). he has an army of alternicks to do his job , bashing and downvoting those who displeased him.

he is a hypocrite par excel-lance. go to his profile makikita mo suspended. look at his followers . he has THREE pages of followers most of which he created himself. may suspended na alternicks. The others unsuspended ones ( like sleeper agents ) are lying in wait . 

welcome to the seamier side of mtc 😞

PS para hindi OT , this thread is the flipside . comrade baka dito ka makahanap ng pwedeng ligawan ahahahaha

Noted sir.

Ok na ako sir. Back to normal. I learned my lesson. I guess there is no point going that route. It is like shooting your own foot...

Again, thanks sa words of wisdom sir.

On 2/21/2022 at 4:36 AM, KID FIGHTER said:

 

Sorry, but honestly, I put a downvote (red mark) due to your lowest sense of civility. My first time in many years to put a downvote.

Theras, doctors, lawyers, billionaires-- we all have the same level of human dignity. PLEASE RESPECT EVERY ONE AS EQUAL TO YOU IN DIGNITY!

Thanks and God bless!

4 minutes ago, FF said:

Ur welcome comrade. And before I go here's a toast :

To women ..and to their wound that never heals !

Cheers sir!

1 hour ago, Christian.Grey said:

Okay lang ma fall wag lang sa sahig. 

Haha. Agree sir.

2 hours ago, FF said:

comrade thanks again for the honest share. On hindsight her "no attachments rule" should have been a cue for you.

Ako rin siguro ma-aattract sa thera kung beauty +work ethic + with belief commonalities. Kahit may no attachments rule pwede namang mag pa charming pa rin and see if the ice would melt.

Pero pag wala ka namang nararamdaman na warming up to you , cut it short na agad. Unlike some women outside her profession na pwedeng daanin sa tiyaga and determination ( ung sis ng bff ko 4 years na niligawan bago sinagot  ung manliligaw niya ).

If you continue to pursue not only would it be wasted effort but it could backfire like her wanting to avoid you and your unwanted attention ( at nangyari na nga yata. )

It may also help to understand her viewpoint bakit no attachment. For women as hardworking as your thera TRABAHO lang ito. Naghahanpbuhay si thera ...hindi naghahanap ng jowa. And she decides to keep it that way because it simplifies her life . She looks to be a strong woman who will seek love on her own terms and in the time of her choosing.

so move on comrade. imho you may want to seek love outside the confines of the spa / mp. may tinder naman at iba pang dating apps.  Dito may mga gustong makipagkilala at kung type mo e  pwedeng pwedeng  ligawan .

 

Thank you again for the concern and your comment sir. Very much appreciated.

Yes sir, narealize ko naman yun nung nagcut na siya ng communication. I did not pursue her anymore the moment na nagrefuse siya ng meetup. Yun lang, may isang ugok na naattach na. Hindi ko rin naman po intention talaga. Normally, I just f**k and go, wala na gaano pleasantries, kaya nga laging enough na ang 1 hour, tapos back to work na. Wala na extensions. Who would have thought na doon pa sa hindi ko type ako maaattach. Hindi rin naman ako naghanap ng pagibig sa ganitong field sir, bigla lang nangyari. No need naman po for tinder, etc.

Malungkot ang mga sinabi mo sir, but very true indeed.

Moving on and recovering naman na sir, buti na lang maraming mababait na theras na magaling magpagaling ng mga sugat. 😊

Salamat sir sa pagpapayo at effort to write your comments. Buti rin at nakita ko itong thread na ito.

21 hours ago, FF said:

quite understandable comrade. and kudos for sharing. we felt your pain and frustration and every emotion you shared in your post.

mayhap some words to consider .

are you single or attached ? This will have a large bearing on what I am about to share. 

If you are single all it takes is to take the next brave step and to consider asking her to be your gf.

One of the main problem here is financial. Kaya nga siya pumasok sa ganyang trabaho e dahil malaki laki di hamak ang kita kaysa min wage job. What are her financial needs ? Is she supporting her family ? Am just guessing here kasi the next step for you maybe is asking her to quit her job. In that case what are her job alternatives ? Can you fill in the financial gap that may result ?

Second is the emotional. Are you just intensely attracted to her or do you feel that there is an emotional bond that can grow over time ? This is a two way street .  Does she have equally strong feelings for you?

Pag attached ka ...financial and emotional pa rin. Pero may complications added dahil she will just become number 2 ( not unless you are considering leaving your wife or gf )

 

Thank you sir for your comment. I appreciate it very much. I feel better now that I was able to share my predicament in a "safe space" like this forum. You can't share these kinds of issues in the outside world.

Regarding po your questions,

1. I am still legally bound but physically separated from my wife for 2 yrs already.

2. For the financial issue, I think I can support her financially. For me hindi naman siya issue. Although I have not assessed kung maluho siya. 🙂 I was not given the chance to do so.

3. Emotional aspect. It is not the physical attraction actually, although she is very pretty, but it's not that.  Nafeel ko SIGURO na yung kausap ko yung tipo ng tao na sure akong magcclick kami. We also have important things in common. Ma pride siya and hardworking, ayaw niya ng freebies at handouts, gusto niya pinaghirapan niya. Something you don't see in many theras ( just being honest, peace po tayo kung sino man ang tamaan 🙂 ), that is why I liked her even more.

I never got to ask her the GF/financial part kasi she cut communication already. I forgot to mention earlier na may "No attachments rule" siya, probably why she is avoiding me now. Or maybe I am just too ugly, and I am not her type. 😄 

This is probably mostly my fault. The dumbass that was me got attached, and I did not see it coming. I got a taste of my own medicine.

I never got any explanation WHY biglaan siya nagcut off ng communication. Nor did I get the chance to explain myself and express my thoughts. Sobrang sudden. Last thing she told me was wala namang issues. The idiot that was me believed naman. 

Well, shit happens... I guess that's that.

18 hours ago, IZZY of Tosen said:

One of my favorite clients. 🥺 

 

Ako naman maam, the opposite.

My favorite thera.

On 3/30/2022 at 12:14 AM, Eugene8888 said:

been there bro na-inlove na din ako sa isang therapist na na book ko online via facebook, nagandahan ako sa kanya sa picture nya kaya nagbook ako agad pero nung nakita ko sya sa personal sobrang ganda pala nya pagpasok pa lang nya sa room natulala agad ako. "Sya ba yung na-book ko?" yun ang nasa isip ko nun 😄 As in hindi ko inexpect na mas maganda pala sya sa personal. Dalawang beses ko rin syang inavail then pabiro kong tinanong sa kanya if pwede ko ba syang maging girlfriend (pero sa deep inside seryoso talaga ako), hindi lang sya kumibo 😅. So ayun after a week, a month di ko na makita yung picture nya sa FB sabi ng handler nya umuwi na raw sya sa province nila. Nalaman ko nalang na may asawa't anak na pala sya 😥 pero hindi pa rin nawala feelings ko sa kanya. Matagal din bago ako naka move on. Hanggang ngayon inistalk ko pa rin FB nya.

I absolutely feel you bro. Kahit anong sabihin ng mga tao na "not enough emotional stability" kaya nafall ka, there will always be that one. "The One". That one unicorn...

(Share ko lang, wala ako mapagkwentuhan...)

I have been a member of MTC, the older site since 2014? 2015? I have visited many Mp's and spas, availed of many theras, I can no longer count them. I never developed feelings, never got attached, no matter how pretty, sexy or skilled they all were. I was always confident that I would never be attached. Not to brag, but many theras tried making relationships with me, but I never developed feelings.

This year though, I met my unicorn. "The One". Hindi ko alam ano at paano nangyari. She was not even my type na chinita, maputi, malaman at ka height ko. She was the complete opposite. Don't get me wrong, very pretty siya, physically fit, pero not significantly unique. Mas maraming mas maganda, mas sexy and definitely mas skilled sa kanya sa services, but I knew I would regret getting her the moment na spend ko yung 1st session namin. This time, it was different. I felt alive. Not because she was pretty, or sexy. I could not even tell her that she did not have the skills necessary to do the services. I was not physically pleasured that much, and yet I enjoyed every damn second I spent with her, to a point na siya lang ang thera EVER na napa extend ako ng time for the room. I no longer wanted her services, but instead just wanted to literally hear her voice and hear about her day. She is nice and very hardworking.

I broke my strict and tight work schedule for her. Cancelled department meetings just so I can spend time with her.

She broke the fuck out of me. I no longer had interest in other theras and services. I just wanted to see her smile and listen to her talk.

So, to sum it all up, no matter how careful you are...

Shit (a.k.a. feelings) will happen. Maybe not today, but one day it will.