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  1. Thanks for the input

     

    I dont think ibwould require monogamy since i met her in this industry and she has her reasons for it. At ndi kami. Hahaha. D ko nga alam kung alam nya feelungs ko sknya. Hahah

     

    What i meant is dont really know what she feels for me because othr gm gets treated the same way (i think) . I am also afraid of asking since i have this big fear of rejection :( but i do my best to make her feel special.

     

    the first time u was with her i just wanna hug her and get to know her more. (naniniwala ako s love at first sight) hahaha

  2. As with all relationships, I think it's important to understand and accept things your partner does, their jobs included.

     

    If you're falling for a flight attendant or cabin crew member you better deal with the fact that she will be traveling a whole lot.

     

    If you're falling for a doctor you better accept that she will have those long, 24-hour shifts.

     

    If you're falling for a girl who gets paid to make guys cum (to put it crassly, but I'm making an oversimplification to illustrate how conservative we still all are despite being on a forum that deals in the flesh trade, not to offend), then you better accept that too, and all that comes (sorry) with it.

     

    That's what relationships are about, mostly... Understanding and accepting things about your partner.

     

    Relationships need many things to work. Being on the same page is one of the primary things.

     

    Is she falling for you too? Just as hard and just as fast as you are? If things aren't mutual it isn't a relationship... they're just your personal feelings, and it's yours and no one else's responsibility to deal with your feelings.

     

    Another question is... what do you think "love" is? Is it exclusivity, physical and emotional monogamy?

    Cause a lot of us like to throw these words around, words like "love" or "faithfulness", without really examining what they mean to us.

     

    And a therapist/MPs job calls into question those ideas of monogamy and physical intimacy as prerequisites or sole domains of love.

     

    A therapist for sure doesn't fall in love with every John with an open wallet and a lonely dick.

     

    But sometimes Johns fall too hard too fast for the girlfriend experience, focusing solely on the "girlfriend" part and not the "experience", as in PAID "experience" part.

     

    What I'm saying is... proceed with caution. Not just when falling for an MP, but falling for anyone, or anything, really.

     

    "Love" means different things to different people, and a good understanding of what it means both to you and your potential partner (if she even feels the same towards you) is essential.

    Yes, you are correct. In my situation i am sure that I can understand and accept the nature of her work. But i am not sure if she also feels the same for me specially after reading an FR from a GM having a similar experience (ouch) .

     

    Even though she might not feel the same for me. I am ok with that, just keeping my expectation low.

  3. Yesterday was extra special. She gave me a kiss on the lips. It may be just a little peck but it was so sweet and it really meant a lot to me.

     

    She really is the sweetest.

     

    I hope she stays that way. Only to me.

     

    When u really love some one, a peck on the lips is better than a full service from another thera (at least for me).

  4. In a perfect world, it would be great if your favorite thera doesn't give the same attention, the same care, the same love, to others the way she does to you.

     

    Masakit isipin na nangyayari din with other guys ang nangyayari sa inyong dalawa inside the room. I don't want to even entertain those thoughts.

     

    But, in the real world, it doesn't happen. Sabi nga ng mahal kong thera: kailangan ko magtrabaho eh.

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