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john clark

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  1. i did address this already but since you weren't clear on my posts i will repeat for you. as long as she's not hiding anything, i wouldn't begrudge her. and we have a set of rules like both of us can't be bareback we both use protection. it's lust not love. there's a difference when you have sex with another woman you don't love as opposed to a woman you love more than yourself.

     

    i'm guessing this is a very hard concept for some guys to grasp given their cultural, and religious beliefs affecting how they view certain situations

     

    and to be quite frank, she keeps comparing me that i look like this celebrity. personally i wouldn't mind if she does it with a model or good looking guy. i would feel very offended if she said it was with a guy who i think is not up to the standards of what a good looking male would be.

     

    i pick good looking girls so why shouldn't she not be able to do it. i'm all for equality. i'm not narrow minded enough to let only the males eat their cakes.

     

    let's be real here. i'm sure more than half of the GM's wives' and GF's in the real world fantasize about other men. same thing we do when we fantasize about other women and im pretty sure each and every GM would be offended if their wives and gf's had an opportunity to sleep with those men they fantasize. if any of your gf's or wives were had a chance to sleep with brad pitt or ryan gosling would you feel offended? im sure the answers would be yes.

     

     

     

    that's right may. some people who react to my posts are affected so much they take offense to what i say. they even judged what my situation is, why? because your situation is any better? i'm not the one hiding things to my gf/wife about my extra curricular activities in spas and even falling in love with a thera at the same time? and yet they have the audacity to say my situation is not up to their own standards.

     

     

    anyway, i've already talked about that.

     

    what i want to know May is this. you've always talked about yourself from a therapists side.

     

    let's give you a scenario where you are playing the role of a wife/gf of a guy who you don't know is a GM. how would you feel about if you caught your bf/husband doing these things behind your back. see nobody asked you this question. i wonder why. would you rather have caught him in an awkward position or would you rather have him confess these things to you? would you have accepted him doing it? since you mentioned in your previous post that since you are a therapist and if you had a relationship down the line you would rather have the guy not doing these things

     

     

     

    --this is a side note i'm adding and you don't have to answer this since i'm just thinking aloud. i'm not sure if its a culturally acceptable norm for the filipino male to have more than 1 girl in his relationship status. since this is a predominantly roman catholic religious country. the majority of males here act like they're muslims who can have more than 1 relations with females but they want to keep they're roman catholic card. just an observation i've witnessed in my years

    Its human nature to react and somewhat take offense if someone Says something negative about you. You branded spa goers as losers and liars. Take note that only a handful reacted, the others chose to be silent about what they felt.

     

    The judging didnt start from us who reacted.you did the judging first.

     

    We all pursue flesh while in this community,we all commit the same transgressions yet you point out that we (the gm's you unfairly branded) should be ridiculed and singled out. You are preaching water but drinking wine. And thats putting it mildly. The others may have a stronger word for what you are doing but they chose not to express it in this thread. I wish i could be as decent as them,just turning the other cheek, but i cant.

     

    Before you say that you're being judged, take a look at a mirror first.

  2. From what ive read and seen in movies, swinging is when PARTNERS search for intimacy with persons other than themselves. If only ONE party does it, its called PHILANDERING. AFAIK, ITS one of the mortal sins.

     

    Now, if one person does this and preaches hellfire and brimstone to spa goers like me what do you call that person? Incorporating religiosity into a forum where a majority of the topics are dedicated to the pursuit of flesh?!? This takes the cake...

     

    Some posters in this topic used to malign theras, some attack gm's. Now we have one who takes on all comers (pun intended).

     

    Sorry for the somewhat ascerbic tone.

  3. I don't need to lie to her. I'm open with her. She knows what these places are. She understands what these spas represent. She would have an issue with it if it had an emotional aspect to it. She appreciates my honesty and loves me more because of it. She told me that she would have resented me if she found out i was hiding it and lying instead of being honest from the start.

     

    My situation doesn't apply to people who try to omit their "truths" to their loved ones. Doing that only serves your own purposes and justifies the reason for lying, it doesn't serve the purposes of your relationship with the loved one. To me, that's being selfish and only thinking about yourself.

    Mabuti pa si sir. He's above all of the losers and liars that frequent the spas (his words, not mine) and his spouse/gf/so is aware that he goes to one without consequences.

     

    I salute you. If ever reincarnation is true, i hope i come back just like you.

  4. I confess that i'd really want to beat the sh*t out of douchebags who act real hard and talk like they were born and raised in the ghettos or the projects, especially when they front and pose about their supposed conquests of women and hate on other mtc forumers.

     

    For all we know this douchebag is a pencil-neck, afraid of his own shadow, never ever been to the hood or pj's, wannabe thug,30 year old virgin.

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