little_boy

To heal.

Emotionally or physically? Hehe

He is 21

Yan talaga "iho"

Humorous

sexy talaga ang humerus bone noh?

Real men use three pedal.

Rich men need only 2.

Meshwe sa teachers vllage

Just to add more tease

 

Watch out for the cameos! Chances are you will miss many of them. But there is one that I really really liked!

I already watched the film, what cameos are you referring to?

Career kasi wala akung lovelifeCareer kasi dun ako kikita kesa sa lovelife wala kang mapapala

Nasan na nga ba 'yon

Mga pangakong kinapitan ko

Sayang ang panahong

Pinaglaban kong itakas ka

Sa bakuran na nagbawal sa iyong magmahal

At nung nabuksan ko ang pinto di ba't walang kasing tamis

Kahit saglit at kay tamis lang ng ating

Pagkakataong tayo'y lumago

Ngunit ikaw ay umalis at doon na nagsimula ang hinagpis...

Tagalog naman tayo...

Kung alam mo lang kinakausap kong sarili't sinasabing ayos lang Makakayanan din ang hirap ng katotohanan na wala ka na

Di rin magtatagal

Meron ding papalit sa pwesto mo

Sakin'y magmamahal

At pakatatandaan mo ito

Di ka namakakahanap ng katulad ko

"They say we're perfect together. I don't think they see that it's only perfect because of you."

Yan pang kilig at pag appreciate sa mga partner niyo.

I will be many things for you but I will never be the person who holds you back.

Kung gusto niyong makipag balikan Ito sabihin niyo. Expert ako sa mga linya hehe

Being with you was the last time my life made any sense. I barely remember any of it, except how I felt. I want that feeling back...I hear your voice and it cuts through me, like I haven't heard it in years...Never even realized how much lost I was without you. But I always was. Just some lost soldier who forgot he ever had a home. Until you gave me one.

You want to know what really pisses me off about you? Is that you don't hate yourself enough for giving up

Meshwe

Meshwe nga! sarap dun. lalo na garlic sauce nila! the best

I just want to make it clear ano? These are the things that I want to highlight.

 

1. Looking at the business perspective, why would you like your customer to go over and get someone else if he can get you?

 

2. It's just my preference and I believe many of you wouldn't understand. YMMV belongs to someone who has a connection with you. Now, if you prefer a hopper and cut off the ties, so be it. Its just that, i'd rather have a regular than someone who would just dip me to try my service and poof. Gone.

 

3. Not all men are like you. Some men, even with all the intimacy and s@%t, kahit nga sex my dear, they still won't care a s@%t about you. Otherwise, I wouldn't be a single mom. Right? Not all people who do intimate thingy fall inlove and get affected by it.

 

As I have mentioned, kung clients may karapatan mamili ng therapist. Since hindi naman ako therapist and I just rendered my service for a different kind of marketing scheme, I do have my rights to choose my client especially what I want to do with them.

 

Pero sabi ko nga.... Magkakaiba tayo lahat ng preference and regulars would always be my first priority. Hihihihi

1) Tama from a business perspective of a thera, why would you want to share a client kung pwede mong solohin? Kung ang waiters nga nagaagawan ng table especially if the customer is known as a big tipper. Same rule would apply for theras. Good point.

2) YMMV. Ngayon kasi vague na yan. But based on testimonies I read here from older gms, iba ang spakol dati. And YMMV really does exist. And to get that you'd have to invest with one thera. Which is really nice and cool in my opinion. So, pro yan for getting only one thera. Parang ngayon ang YMMV depends on how much you're willing to pay.

3) True that not all men easily fall. Pero it's all also true that there are men who may fall. Sa mga nabasa kong stories dito, yun ang ngyari. Nahuhulog sa kinukuhang thera na regular. So, let's say as long as both parties know that this is a business relationship where money is rendered for services, getting one thera will be better in building a proper relationship and YMMV.

Just want to open another discussion related to this thread. Mia recently posted and has posted in the past her preference for clients who stick to one thera. Is this a smart thing to do? Sticking to one thera? Mia finds it repulsive when a gm treats the spakol/mp scene as a buffet platter kung saan lahat gustong tikman. Kayo anong say niyo dito? Is sticking to one thera a smart thing to do or better to change every now and then? What are the cons and pros?

By sticking to one thera, you form a bond with her and become more at ease. And if that thera knows what gets you going, her service is better. Sure ka din sa bayad mo na sulit. But this is a cause for you to fall in love with the thera or vice versa. Kung madalas mo na siyang nakakasama sa ganun ka intimate na setting, you may eventually fall for her. NOW, don't judge me. OK lang ma-inlove sa ganyan. Basta't ba'y single kayo parehas at kakayanin niyo ang pagsubok etc etc. But most thera here in MTC claim that most of their clients are married. Kaya nga ninja moves eh. So, wouldn't it be better na paiba iba ka to not develop intimacy?

I can only say two damn words, "thank you".

Putting into consideration everything I said, thinking about the possible backstory of a thera and why she is doing this kind of work, the sacrifice and fear of being found out by her family and friends, and the shame she feels for choosing this industry rather than working elsewhere. I can't help but think about that. They are so young and once innocent. They are someone's precious daughter, beloved sister, favorite cousin, best friend, bff, etc. In any other day, I can and may have passed them by in the mall. Doing regular things like grabbing a bite to eat, hanging out with friends, watching a movie, going to a concert, or simply hanging out. They are human beings with emotions. Even better, they are women.

They have a story. They too are suffering. Yes, I know not every girl is in the same situation. Some might say most are really slutty and low class girls who have no remorse and don't mind the work. They actually find it attractive and better than a regular job that pays less. Like Mia said, not all deserve or want a second chance to change. But I'm talking about the ones that never wanted to be here. The student, the naive probinsyana looking to help her family, the desperate single mother left alone and broken...

I read Sitti's story. It broke my heart. She fell in love with a GM who treated her so well. She hoped. She fell in love with someone who she thought would be her knight in shining armor. She enjoyed and appreciated being cared for by someone, to feel loved by someone and accepted for who she is... Then to be told "kung nakilala lang kita sa ibang lugar at hindi sa spa..." That is so brutal and painful. It breaks my heart. Kung mabasa mo ito sitti, I hope and pray you find a way out of this life. Sana makahanap ka ng paraan makaalis sa ganitong buhay at sana mahanap mo yung lalaki na iibigin ka ng totoo at tapat. Di ako nagtataka kung bakit maraming babae sa industriya na ito ay nagiging bato. Pagkatapos sa lahat ng naranasan nila at nakita nila...sino bang hindi magiging manhid?

Every one deserves a shot to a better life. Every person deserves to be treated properly. Every one should know that they are loved. I believe in love and hope. Please people, you make take away a person's pride, dignity, and morale. But never ever...NEVER take away someone's ability to hope. To hope for a better day, to hope for a better life, and to hope for a better future. You never know, maybe the only thing that person has left in their life is hope. Let us be better.

Back reading the posts of Sitti and reading the first hand stories from Mia about theras falling in love with clients is heartbreaking as well. Yes, there are theras who were slutty and bitchy even before entering the trade. Most of these women come from the poorer sides of town. Iba yung kinalakihan nila. Ugaling squatter, gets niyo? All of them are in it for the money. Money for what purpose is where it varies. Some theras who are still in it after so long and are considered top theras or known are most probably addicted to the money and need it to support their lifestyle. Or like what Mia said, simply don't know how to handle the money they earn.

Some need the money to support and feed their siblings, parents, and/or children. Some of these girls were innocent and had no idea how to earn money but then a friend, ate, or tita comes along and tells them about a trade where they can make money. They are sucked into doing something they never planned on doing. These reluctant theras are the ones that suffer the most, in my opinion. They don't enjoy the deed but need the money and know they have to put up a show (GFE or PSE) to gain clients. Like sitti said, it sucks their dignity away one client at a time...

Another group of girls who need the money temporarily to finish school. Their parents can't afford to pay the tuition fees and they may have to stop studying but they don't want to. They somehow find themselves making quick and big money in this trade. the hours are flexible to fit around a student's schedule and they can come in and work only to get the amount they need. Most of these girls try to set limits to their services to maintain at least in their minds some dignity (no atw, no touch, etc).

It's sad and unbearable to think about. The dilemma is, if all men stopped going to spas and mps then these girls won't whore themselves. But they wouldn't make the money they need. I mean, GMs do you stop going to spas to show you're against the trade of using women or do you go to the spas to help these girls by giving them business? That's a good debate.

IMO, most men are cheating assholes who want to sleep with every hot girl they meet. Horny and lustful men will always be there, lonely and sad men as well, single and looking to have fun or relax, and of course the barkada looking to have a good time. (I think that covers the general clientele) This is a degrading job where most of the girls are in it out of force and not by free will.

So, if you must go to a spa. BE KIND. Tip accordingly, don't be rude, don't be forceful, don't be physically abusive. Don't degrade and abuse these girls any more than they are feeling. (Ibang usapan naman yung mga babae na halatang rude, at sasabihin niyo sa akin eh paano binayad ko etc etc)

nung HS sa harap ng jeep..para ksing ang angas mong tgnan pag dun ka nkasaky nung HS

haha tama!

Not a professional but here's my opinion...nothing is ever simple. This industry is neither black nor white. It is a lot of gray areas. It's hard to generalize all GMs and theras. But definitely most generalizations do apply. In regards of a GM falling for a thera and vice versa, well I don't think either parties planned for it to happen. It's love! You never know when it hits you. It may be at a bar, a club, restaurant, party, school, work place, coffee shop, church, mall, park, and at a spa/mp.

I'm sure most guys would not want to get into a relationship (the take home to meet the parents kind) with a woman whose job is to attend to the sexual pleasures of men. It could be for several reasons such as: she's a dirty whore in his eyes making her beneath him (classism); living totally different lives and educational attainment (classism again), she's not good enough to introduce to the parents. If you notice, it all has to do with classism. Basically, what Mia said is true. Most theras are from poor backgrounds and were brought up with different values and decorum. Yung sinasabing "ugaling squatter" may apply to some here. This alone should be reason for you not to get into a relationship with anyone if you have nothing in common and live different lives. I'm sure in your circle of friends, you hangout with people who are close to your status in society or class. May it be being from the same village, work area, university, etc. Baka nga yung visits mo sa MPs and Spa are the only place you have contact with women of lower class (they wouldn't be working there if they had financial resources). But let's say you still fell in love with her because of the care and attention she gives you that fills a hole inside you? All I can say is, I wish you the best of luck in making your relationship work. Maybe you do have somethings in common and share a lot of similarities, that's great. Gives you something to work around.

It's also true that a lot of these women will use men that fall in love for them. Pineperahan na. No different from other women who scam foreigners to give them money. This has nothing to do with being a thera. This is about a woman having financial needs and thinks of devious ways to get the money. Don't get me wrong, some basically marry Americans or other foreigners even without loving them for exchange of financial security. That's ok. Mutual relationship and understanding kung saan parehas nakikinabang sa arrangement. What you should be aware about are those that take as much as they can from you and then disappear.

Now, let's say the thera and the gm are both in love with each other. As in yung totoong may feelings. I think what matters is acceptance and proper planning of where they're headed to as a couple. I agree with Mia, that the guy has to be able to financially support her. But there has to be effort from the girl as well if she really wants to change her life. If the guy agrees to support her needs but asks her to stop her current work, she has to. But if the guy can't afford to support her needs, then don't dream she'll leave the industry to be with you because of "love".

Share ko Lang na libog ako pag gising ngayon umaga

Ang importante healthy ka. Pag nagkakasakit ka na and if your weight is affecting your day to day activities. mali na yun....

"Kasya pa isa...tapos aalis na"

Sa ngayon basta ba'y mahal ako.

Face, boobs, ass. Not particularly in that order.

Just sharing..

 

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy..

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten..

 

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable..

Just sharing..

 

I, myself, have been a Thera before in a MP, 6 years ago.. I've been through this kind of relationship wherein one of my guests got me out of this industry and supported me financially.. His name was RM, he was my regular for about 3 months and he used to visit me in my workplace around 3-4 times a week (with ES) and he picks me up from work almost every night.. We are not in a "commitment" as what he always say.. He insists that he's a businessman and he doesn't have time and chance to engage in a romantic relationship.. He said he just wanted to help me, that's all.. I was then a nursing student who stopped for two years due to financial incapacity. An amount of 30k is hitting my account every 8th of the month, nothing compared to how much I am earning but a great start for people like me who wanted to quit the job and focus on my studies. Just so you know, this started as a deal between us. The only thing he's asking in return is for me to quit and forget the industry I have been for more than a year. He asked me to change my number and not communicate with anybody from the said business - friends, guests, co-theras, everybody.. He wanted me to meet new friends, new environment.. I did so not until his mom found out about a "ghost employee" in their company's payroll.. Yes, he is a bachelor, a businessman, an expat and a mama's boy..

It was so sudden when I stopped receiving my monthly 'support', and haven't heard from him for a month, wherein he used to call and chat with me every night before he goes to sleep.. Just heard about his "mom" thing from a former colleague.. Yes, he still visits the MP.. The awkward thing is, from the day we had the deal, he stopped "doing" it with me..

He said he wanted me to feel like a normal person and get the respect that he wants me to receive.. I loved him, yes... I loved him that much that I feel jealous whenever I hear about the different therapists he is getting everytime he visits my former workplace.. But of course, I can't complain.. One of the rules is for me to not get in touch again with anybody from the 'business'.. Afraid that he will question me back.. I have broken only this rule.. But I NEVER EVER did it with ANYBODY again.. I don't have a boyfriend that time and it's him that I consider as my boyfriend though he doesn't see it that way..

To cut the story short, I went back to college to pursue my studies with the help of his money.. I was in my 3rd year then.. Though it lasted for only 6 months, I kept the promise to myself that I won't go back since I already got out.. I managed to be a scholar in a university.. fees weren't that high, my dad was self employed, my mom got a job from a security agency as a lady guard.. In short, I made it.. I graduated last 2010, passed the board exam in my first take.. I am working as a staff nurse here in Abu Dhabi for 2 years now.. Still single, 28, yet love life is in the least of my priority..

Haven't heard of him until now.. He changed his number 6 years ago..

If we will be given the chance to bump with each other again, I would really want to give him a big hug and express my gratitude and big big thanks for helping me "get-out".. Wondering if it weren't for him, I may not be where I am now.. He's got a special place in my heart and he will never be forgotten..

 

Sorry, I'm not that good in composing a blog like this but I hope it's still understable..

ganda ng storya na ito

Careful with the ladies. Money instead of boys are temptation to these women. You will rarely find a woman worth loving. Be careful. Although, I would like to see a love story that will work.

 

Yes, I'd love to see an open minded man, take a woman out of this industry and work for her and her family. This is rare and I'm currently seeing a possible love story right now by a friend and one of my thera. I am greatly hoping they can prove that this relationship will work.

How bout you Mia? Do you still believe in love or at least hope that it can happen?