zhyper77

start with wrestling.

peace, companionship, and stability. You may want all that other stuff, but in the end, power, money, etc etc won't make you truly happy IMHO

i don't think you can make your daughters work as part time models just like that. what if hindi sila bagay sa work?

laro laro lang mga boss

depends on chemistry. sometimes, i'm not even trying and nandun na agad... sometimes, dami effort nauwi din sa wala

san ang jing city dito?

I have a regular thera I can honestly say I'm friends with. we go out for food, hang out, etc. good vibes lang.

legal wife always. wag lalabag sa utos ng Diyos.

Deuteronomy 21:15 "If a man has two wives, and he loves one but not the other, and both bear him sons...."

sabi ng diyos OK lang

opportunity cost din yan. kung kaya mo naman ang work, hard to find a job that pays as well, particularly for someone without academic qualifications. may risks din, but if the girl is smart, kaya naman i-manage. though with the competition lately (economic profit is/was positive, so a lot of players entered the industry), i don't know if that is still true. i hope it is.

nothing really lasts... happiness isn't guaranteed... things change with time.

suwerte naman

network building lang paps. wala namang nangyari, haha. tanong contact # ng manager/handler, kung sinong girls ang pwede sa ganito sa ganyan... for future reference kung baga haha

laro laro lang mga boss! just went out with two theras/models/casino workers last week (lots of girls hop from one job to the next). had some drinks and food. enjoy naman kasama. gained a lot of insight into the way the industry works behind the curtains, so to speak.

kung malaki ang network at may nangailangan bigla (at may disposable income ka naman), e di maganda haha!

Sino nga ba? yung bf ng mga theras siyempre hihi...kadalasan gm din naman bfs ng theras hihi...basta ako tama na yung may nakarelasyon ako na isang thera dati hihi... ayoko na maiputan sa ulo ng mga gms ahahaha...ngayon paiba iba ako ng thera ayoko magstay sa isang thera.

tama! laro laro lang guys!

pero, ika nga, who is to say you can't find something real in the illusions of the spa industry? so sa mga nagbabalak dyan, good luck sa inyo!

 

Yes sir, I would not be good looking and "curvy" forever, thus I had to maximize what I have now to earn and save as much as I could. Yes, I could have gone the usual route, accepted the offer of the bank that hired me, get 15K monthly salary and maybe get promoted in 2 years. That would have been the more "respectable" thing to do. But everytime I go home, I would need to listen to my siblings complain about their broken shoes, having no baon for their school, my parents arguing about where to get the money to buy tomorrows groceries etc. We are not a rich family, if you guys have followed my posts, you would have known my only dream then was to treat my family to an out of town trip. Yes, it's shallow but it was something that we haven't done together until last December....Thus, I made a choice. Should I get employed in the bank but be almost powerless to help my family? Or enter a spa and give my family a good life? I chose option 2. Does that make me less of a person because I did so? Does that me unworthy to be loved by a GM? There are times I cry myself at night, thinking what have I done to myself, but remembering the smiles of my siblings as they open their toy gifts, my parents pride as I financed the repair of our home, I say to myself it was all worth it. I would make the same choice 10 out of 10 should I return in time and be faced with the same situation.

 

Do I have an exit plan? Yes, I do. I have saved enough for me to start a small business. To GMs close to me, you have probably all heard the "eatery" I have always wanted to establish. Haha....Well, i have pampered my family quite a bit already, now its time to go to phase 2 and go into entrepreneurship. Once the flow of income is stable and I know for certain we will never again have monetary difficulties, then I shall step away and retire from being a thera....and know what, that time is not far away. I am almost at the finish line.

wishing you the best of luck in your post-spa endeavors ms. may! pati sa lovelife na rin haha!

 

That's a nice thought sir, but you have to realize we theras made this choice because of circumstances in life which guided us in this industry. I am a degree holder, i already got accepted in a bank, but I chose this profession. Why? Because I have dreams for me and my family and going the usual employment route would not allow me to reach my goals in the timeline that I desire. Do I have plans to exit the spa world? Of course, that is always the long term objective. As you said, we have the FV/BV puhunan, thus, I am maximizing my "assets" at this point of my life to earn and save for tomorrow. I felt that doing this is the best chance I have to provide my family with a good life at the soonest possible time.

 

Cheers sir. Good afternoon all.

that makes sense, actually. maximize income at every life stage! kung ganyan 'yung potential income, mapapaisip sigruo kahit sino. so i guess top theras must earn about as much as managers or executives (perhaps even more)? i just hope na most theras realize that this isn't a forever thing, na kailangan may exit at long-term plans.

pero i guess same thing applies for GMs din. habang hinde pa tanders at dependent sa viagra sulitin na ang pagpunta sa spa hahaha

 

If the GM is really serious about helping out the Thera, the GM should get the Thera out of the SPA Industry and provide for the Thera.

 

How much young dapat e-provide ni GM? Depends the iyan between the Thera and the GM.

 

However, we should consider the opportunity cost of the Thera getting out of the SPA Industry. By way of example, if the Thera is getting Php60,000 a month from the SPA Industry, and the GM is willing to provide only Php20,000 a month, then the Thera is loosing, by way of opportunity costs, the Php40,000 additional amount per month that she could have earned if she stayed-on as Thera (computed at Php60,000 less Php20,000).

 

So, unless the GM is willing to shell out Php60,000 a month for the Thera, medyo mahirap din for Thera to quit the SPA Industry.

 

If Thera quits the SPA Industry to join GM, later on pag nagka-labu-an, Thera will make sumbat to GM that sinayang ni Thera yung panahom kay GM kasi nga Thera gave up the Php40,000 additional income for GM, then iiwan lang pala siya ni GM (that is assuming na walang kalokohan na gnawa si Thera). YUng cpmplication pa ditto is if nagka-iwanan and si Thera at may katandaan na at "pormang manang" na si Thera at hindi na siya attractive to work as Thera. Panu na lang iyon?

 

Hayzzzz.......ang complicated naman nito......................

kung ganyan lang naman, pag aralin na lang kaya ni GM si thera pag tumigil sa spa? para makapag build up naman ng human capital. kung ayaw mag aral medyo red flag yan para sa akin... may mga thera akong kilala nasa spa lang para makatapos ng pag-aaral... yan ang commendable. kasi tama si pareng jega, kung FV/BV lang ang puhunan, unti unting nawawala...

'yung mga ganyang lalake salot sa lipunan haha! bottom line, if you really want something like that to work, the minimum imho is that the GM should be able to support the thera na hindi na niya kailangan magtrabaho sa spa. anything less than that sobrang complicated na.

ganito, what if hindi ka naman naghahanap ng relationship? what if naghahanap ka lang ng mga tao to hang out with? na pwede mo ayain lumabas every now and then? pwedeng with benefits, pwedeng wala. pwedeng pay for play, pwedeng hinde. kung ayaw mo ng attachment, parang mas honest siguro ang ganyang relationship...

 

I made that reply in the context of the discussion at that point. I believe there was a previous post that GMs who profess their affection to theras should be allowed to enjoy other girls since the thera is being touched by other gents anyway. I just expressed my thought that I disagreed with that mindset.

 

If you truly love a thera, then one of the best ways to express that is to partner only with her and no one else because like what I said, GMs have that freedom of choice. Why not choose to be monogamous to prove your affection to the thera?

wala ba kayong options if nag request sa inyo guest na hinde nyo ma sikmura? kasi in the thread of a now-defunct spa, i heard na may client na talagang iniiwasan ng mga thera doon... but anyway, thank you for your insights into the industry. it's interesting to have a look behind the curtain every now and then...

I do not believe theras have no choice. They may restrict the es they can provide to the gm. That's how it works. If the theras are looking after the money they may earn, then, they have to go all out destroying themselves.

kaya onti lang yung pagka depress ko brad haha *tapos sabay punta ng spa ulit*

 

Hi GMs,

 

 

Been awhile since I posted here. Good to be back.

 

Anyway, I understand your point sir, but I have to respectfully disagree. Our case as therapists is different. This is a job for us, for you GMs its purely entertainment. When we entered the thera world, we gave up the freedom of choice on who can touch our body, who we can get intimate with us...You GMs still have that freedom that we don't.

 

Thus, we cannot stop you from choosing other theras, but we will definitely appreciate you more if you stick with the one thera that you have admitted having an emotional attachment with.

 

 

May

honestly, na depress ako ng onti reading the highlighted portion of the quote... i know it's an exchange naman... theras get the GMs money, GMs get a good time... but still.

bakit ba naghahanap ng "the one" mga brad? Pwede naman the two, three, five, or seven! LOL that there is one and only one person in the world for you and that you will only find happiness with that person is a fairy tail. there are people you care about and there are good times to be had, but that's about it. most relationships are inherently complicated. there are no guarantees... pero di din naman pwede na i isolate mo lang sarili mo. kailangan mo din naman ng companionship kahit papaano. kaya ok lang naman mag dive in at i experience ang good at bad. pero kailangan bukas ang mata mo. bad trip nga lang, nagpakasal muna ako bago ko na realize hahahaha

and why did i work so hard? in the end, there was no point.

everything about my life right now.

i hold my liquor where your hand used to be.