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Pumatol sa prostitute ang asawa ko ng walang protection. My worry, late ko na nakita video scandal nya sa spa room kung san sya gumawa ng sex video, pano ko malalaman kung may hiv na din ako ?

He previously donated a blood in red cross and its clear naman at tinanggap yun blood nya, so inassume na safe sya. My problem is, i got a severe head ache and flu, almost 2 weeks na and not normal na nagkakasakit ako:( pinatawad ko sya because of my daughter. Then we make love after a month na pinatawad ko sya, then now, after that im sick... Im paranoid and is it possible for me to have an hiv even sya wala. Possible ba na hiv carrier but not hiv positive? Im worried for myself at parang ayaw ko na sya tabihan uli. Naiisip ko adultery nya. I think our marriage wont survive this.

Please give idea. Possible ba na hiv carrier sya but not hiv positive?

I am truly sorry for what you are going through. I don't think you can change your husband, as only he can decide to change himself. What you have control however, is your own happiness and the love that you have for your daughter. I wish you the best of luck in dealing with your trouble.

 

Thanks for the wish, really need the best of luck and a strong heart to deal with this trials.... Leaving with a cheater is very difficult and painful. Sa tamang panahon lang yan... I just keep my gratitude highter that expectations

 

focus on your child. tapos huwag mo na sya sitahin sa mga lakad nya. kumbaga... hayaan mong magparaya. enjoy your time with friends.... it works for every one naman. find a hobby, get into a sport, set a life goal. there are more things to life than a defective husband.

 

magpaganda ka lalo... there is no better revenge than to look good and him noticing.

Thanks sa advice yup! Thats what im doing now, nakakaloka ang parang spy tapos wala din naman ako magawa, iiyak at masasaktan lang ako lagi...

Kaya better take care of myself nalang, Mukha na nga kaming mag-ama pag may nakakakita samin, anak namin nalang ang focus ko. Hayaan ko nalang sya sirain nya buhay nya. When time come at talagang mahuli ko uli in actual, magaling na kasi magtago eh... Pero once nalang, mahuli ko lang uli at may evidence uli ako... No more chance...

Mahirap lang kasi dahil most relative, idol ang family namin, we are a perfect inspiration ng lahat, hindi nila alam na devil pala husband ko its just, kinakaya ko kasi ang lahat at tinatago ang problem.... Happy couple lagi outside, pero inside, we are totally broke and im really not happy, my daughter keeps me holding nalang.

Cheater na, lier pa and porn addict din.... Hopeless... What a life, very misserable marriage and don't know how to deal with this.

Wala naman divorce dito at mahirap din makipaghiwalay kung nakataya ang happiness ng anak. Iba pa din for them ang may buong family.

They wont change hanggang nasasayahan sila sa ginagawa nila.... Karma karma lang yan, im really hoping na wag ako madamay sa karma nya if in case na magkaSTD or HIV sya.... Well anyway, im leaving on a sexless marriage na din, enjoy nya ang mga paid girls...

Talo ang maganda at matinong asawa ng malandin at magaling na babae. Cant really believe he's like the others, kala ko matino nakuha ko... Wala din.... Hhhaayyyyzzzz buhay.... Inhale exhale, bigat sa dibdib

My husband is a cheater... He always go and f#&k some filthy prostitutes or in Spa..... He even defend himself, it's normal for a guy to try those act and it's only for fun and tempted to try lang daw! Pucha! Hindi ko ma-gets! ....

I learned that once a cheater, he will always be a cheater. I gave a Second chances, worth giving, even a 3rd, but never fourth and so on.... But still im stuck on this marriage, because i want to protect my daughter and she doesn't want to have a broken family like her classmates daw:(

Im now starting to love myself and keep my decency, I won't live in a miserable marriage. I deserve to be happy. And it is also not a recourse to cheat back. I won't stooped down to their level. He's not worth the love, time and effort.

Very difficult to hold on to a family with a cheater... Hope our daughter won't experience this kind of pain.

Any suggestions on how to deal with this kind of husband? Hhhaayytzzz...

Adultery and sex with prostitutes ba grounds for annulment? If possible may HIV or STD yung husband, grounds din ba? If no intimacy or wala nang sex sa marriage or ayaw na ng asawa mo sayo grounds na din ba for annulment?

Always ignores me and im living in an emotionally miserable unhappy life with my husband.

What's applicable in our situation? Divorce, annulment or legally separated? How to file and whats needed?

What's the early signs of HIV? If not aware you have hiv and not treated, how long will you live?

Pano kung hindi mo alam na may HIV ka at nag donate ka ng dugo sa red cross? Malalaman ba nila? Nakakatakot kasi kung yun donor is hindi alam, magkakalat na ng infection, kasi questioner lang ang fill up sa red cross. Then if ever naman ma test nila na hiv positive yun dugo mo na nidonate, mag inform ba sila na positive ka?

How can i ask my husband to test for hiv? Im paranoid if he got it then if ever i'll get it too if we do have intercourse.

I dont want to avoid him, and want to give him another chance... But im really worried, i still got lots of plan for my family future.

Nakakahiya din kasi mag pa test. Is there any test kit that we can buy over the counter? Where n how much? For the test namN, how expensive din?

More that a month na and iwas ako na magkaroon kami ng intimacy. But how long ako iiwas. And i also fear na din, continue na sya sa spa dito sa qc, kasi may pagkukulang na.

Hiv cannot detect at early stage daw and need to wait for about 3 months or more to be accurate. Pano yun if you dont know nA nahahawa ka na pala, kasi expect mo negative then continue lang kayo ng asawa mo, after 3months mo pa malaman na meron pala sya kasi macheck pa late na. I cannot comfront him naman kasi infidelity and cheAting naman hindi aamin kung patuloy pa din sya sa pag punta nya sa mga spa and pay girls. Cannot understand him why he's doing such thing. Sobrang mahirap dalahin, both infidelity and paranoid of having hiv. Im starting to see hin very low. But i dont want to compromise my daughter, ayaw ko magkaroon sya broken family

Can hiv be detected in pap smea?. Natatakot din kasi ako, very conservative family ako and respected in my career. Ayaw ko masirA because of my husband lng. Medyo nahirap ang situation but most fear ko talaga is magkasakit. Hope wag naman, once lang naman kami sex and hindi kasi ako aware sa ginawa nya.

Hope our daughter will understand when time comes na makasure ako na may hiv sya at no chance for the marriage to continue. Im doing some research din what is hiv n aid, nakaktakot talaga and ang dami ko pa plans for the family. Hope this can be prevented and cure. For now wala naman ako symptoms nararamdaman. I'll get my pap smear result this week. Hope no abnormalities, kasi pag abnormal, maybe ill try to chek hiv test.

I suspect my partner has an hiv cause he has a contact with paid girls. Its to late when i discover that he is cheating & its possible that he's being exposed, because he didnt use condoms. My fear is, we have contact(sex but he didnt cum) once, is it possible that I also got infected????

I suspect that he got hiv because, he refuse sex with me(don't know if its guilt or its not me that he wants), he didnt cum, bad breath before hindi naman, mouth sore(singaw) hindi gumagaling, lagi may tubo pag gumaling isa singaw lng, lots of skin tags, always tired, night sweat, may makati sa singit nya Hindi lng alam what exact, kasi Hindi nya pakita....

I was being paranoid, pls tell if possible ba na mahawa agad if ever na Hindi maingat ang cheater ba asawa??? Suggestion... Pacheck ako ng hiv or hiwalayan na?

Sa mga massage spa with ES sa qc may kumakalat ba na std and aids? Please share, idea lang. Kasi may time i didnt wear condom

Even happy/good husband do cheats. Not even bother if his wife would get hurt much....

There's also a fact that wife get tired also to forgive.

Time will tell, if love and respect is gone... Ewan ko nalang if the happy husband will be happy pa if.....

8, maybe because heart and trust was broken. But being paranoid is not good in relationship kaya move on nalang and if ever i felt paranoid again, its an instinct nalang or kutob na somethings wrong again. Divert nalang to other things that is good for myself. Nothing is good if you are paranoid always, sarili lang ang pinahihirapan. Being paranoid is thinking negative, to overcome it, think positive

Sad and hurt. Still trying to move on and accept all the pain of thinking that it's not the same. When it's broken, it's broken. I cannot turn back time na sana hindi ko nalang nalaman ang lahat or sana hindi nya nagawa. Very hard to believe but it's true. Denial and not accepting his mistakes means, he won't change because he knows in his mind, wala sya ginagawan masama