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congratulations.

 

may scholar ka na.

 

i hope you guys weather through.

sya mag papaaral sa sarile nya kung sakaling ituloy nya...she makes way more money than me

just an update

after 2 months of dating she decided to quit her job and deciding if to go back to school or get a different job. sabi nya isa daw ako sa mga reasons kung bakit sya aalis sa work nya. I suggest na mag go back to school sya and pursue nya degree nya downside is sa province sya mga aaral at ayaw nyang magaral sa manila. Mdami kasi syang clients na nanliligaw sa kanya some stop after nilang malamang na may bf na sya and some wants to meet me... weird lang. marami na kasing nag ooffer sa kanya na i bahay na sya then suddenly umepal ako. I wanted the best for her thats why I suggested na mag aral sya pero mukhang magiging long distance relationship kami. ewan ko kung masusurvive namin to. wait and see parin ako .

i've bee in this situation for several times and worst part is, it's always the same girl. i ditched her many times already but, she always comes back. minahal ko yung girl but, she has a hobby of lying kaya parati ko nilalayasan. masarap na mahirap ma-inlove with them. i tried to put direction in her life but, minamasama pa niya most the times. i just thought maybe, we have different princples in life kaya hindi nya makita what i'm trying to do for her.

sa mga ganitong situation talaga mas matimbang dapat ang trust sa love. May mga weird agreements kayong minsang ginagawa para lang ma maintain yung trust na yun but dude really you are torturing yourself malas lang pero keribels mo pa yata eh sana lang each time na ganyan na nanaman may wsier resolve ka na and hopefully final

if she's there... she's there. just enjoy the ride.

 

if there's one thing that i've told her over and over again...

 

Wala tayong happy ever after.

 

So pag may nanligaw sa yo na type mo at binata. sige na.

 

ill be slow clapping in the side lines.

thats the idea na iniisip kong mangyare sa situation ko. just take it as it comes.........

The problem with this environment kase, it's too easy for some people, lalo na ang newbies, to conclude na mahal mo ung tao dahil nga may physical contact na nangyare. Minsan dumadating sa punto na nagiging vulnerable ung tao, either ung client o ung babae dahil nadadamay na ung emotions sa madalas na pakikipagsalamuha sa isang babae o client lamang. Nasa satin na un kung pano natin ihandle ika nga ung emotions natin at wag basta basta magpadala dahil unang una, alam naman natin na hindi pagibig ung binibili mo sa kanila kundi ung serbisyo. Let's not get our emotions mixed up kahit na sabihin nung isa na may crush sya sayo or sabihin nya na mahal ka na nya. Madali lang un sabihin, pero ano ba talaga ung pinag ugatan nun at ano ang kaya mo isakripisyo para sa kanya? Like any other business deal, kung talo ka at alam mong malulugi ka, umatras ka na.

Its hard na ibalanse ang emotions and utak. lalo na kung may sexual physical contacts madalas naloloko ka ng hormones mo.

It just happen nasa getting to know you more phase pa lang kami. Enjoying the moment pa planning mag out of town blah blah adjusting both scheds etc etc mga usual plans ng mga bago. so far so good steady pa din. puros mga short term plans pag naging successful edi long term naman.

eto din naman profile pic ko sa fb ko at skype. basag sya ah and wasak pa din....poor kid

Eh bro, from a male standpoint sa ganyang profession kung mamarapatin mo, have you ever fallen inlove with a client or vise versa? Would you recommend it? If so, how do you deal with it?

multiple times on the clients side. never pa sakin because sa dami nila naooverwhelm ako parang kasing semi celeb and dating. as long as its mutual madami akong kasama na kinasal na dun and happy pa rin naman sila. sa mga clients ko? Ill date them a few times and all the time naman hinde ako ang nagbabayad so walang financial damage sakin and later one theyll realize that im unavailable habang lumalabas kami kasi lagi kong ikwekwento na may anak ako kunyare bread winner ako kunyare just to make them think that i have different priorities. some are stubborn enough to offer me financial support. it was so tempting that I almost said yes one time but most of the time ill just answer that i dont want to take advantage of them.

 

 

Sabagay, naalala ko sa Japan, maraming clubs na nag-o-offer ng ganitong services. Parang GRO services na may halong GFE pero most of the time clean fun lang. Walang sex na kasama. At huwag ka, kung merong para sa lalake, merong din club para sa mga babae. May mga boyfriend for hire din sila. Pero yun nga, kadalasan clean fun lang naman ino-offer nila. Boost ng ego ng costumer. Maglalambing lambing, pero may rule yung establishment na walang sex.

after graduating from college yan ang unang work ko male host sa japan. we entertain them girls/women/gays poured them some drinks. basically the goal is make them spend more money sa club and create a good relationship for them to comeback.

 

Dude, if this is your way of thinking you are not dealing with your issue maturely. What you are trying to do is romanticize everything. Ganito yan ha

 

Una, having feelings and pursuing a relationship are two very different things. Just because you have feelings for her, it does not mean you should pursue her. Because it requires a lot of practicality to make a healthy relationship work. Di lang yan puro kilig at lib0g.

 

Second, you do not need to be in her industry to understand her situation. This is rubbish. Its like saying kelangan mo maging adik din muna para maintindihan mo na masama sa katawan at pagiisip ang droga. A lot of people come to this thread overanalyzing the situation, romanticizing every trivial detail, when its just plain good old common sense.

 

OK sayo na yung babaeng gusto mo mahalin hinahawakan ng ibang lalake? Comfortable ka sa idea na yan? Isa pa, hindi ba hindi naman yan patas sayo? Don't even get started with the "Babae din naman sila na may karapatan mahalin" BS na paboritong linya dito. Ang pagmamahal ilalagay yan sa tamang lugar.

I know relationships is not just kilig at libog. Im not worried that someday it might just be one big mistake but its a mistake I choose. I can live with that. In this situation

I get your point about being on her industry and youre right but I was once in that industry so I see it way differently from others. The only thing I analyzed about having a relationship with her is the potential risk in a lot of ways and I dont find it risky enough to back down kaya sakto lang

I met her that way if she decided to change her lifestyle/job someday edi ok kung hinde Im still ok with it. kung parehas kaming masaya edi ok kung one sided lang ang happiness. check kung ano ang problem. kung unfixable edi move on. tama din naman yang popular line na yan and tama ka rin naman. kaya ko nga na share kasi unconventional sya

Bro, the way you're talking seems like nakapag desisyon ka na sa gagawin mo, although i wouldn't condone it, kung talagang desidido ka jan sa binabalak mo, ang sakin lang, you better have a good escape plan when the time comes. Diko din pwedeng sabihin na wag ka muna mainlove kasi mukhang inlove na inlove ka na nga or attatched sa kanya for whatever reason. Hinay hinay nalang and ingat sa mga outside factors na pwede sumira sa diskarte mo, dahil madaming hadlang sa ganyang klaseng relasyon, also remember kung nainlove sya sayo na isang client, what's to stop her from falling inlove with another client?.Just be smart about it as much as you can and when this escapade is over or has bloomed into something else, learn your lesons and please do share it with us.

Yung decision ko is to explore it and enjoy it. Her falling in love with her other clients could happen but if it does happen I think I can live with it. Im a very easy going person kaya madali lang sakin mag move on. Ive realized those outside factors can be trouble from the start and I already have figured some solutions to handle it. Ill figure it out along the way

good or bad comments is actually helpful. I take no offense sa mga sinabi nyo. Na share ko na rin to to my closest buddies mixed reaction din naman sila and they basically know me. at least here I dont have to buy you guys beer para maipon lol

Just happened to me. Ended a three month relationship. Not worth it in all aspect, money, time and the destruction of yourself. I may have the good intention of pulling her out from the mud but it was me who went to their level. They have the skill, experience, reasoning to play the game everyday to every clients. You can't win. If I were you, better get out early and don't wait for negative sign. It's going to be harder but the end result will still be the same.

para sakin ba to,kung sakin? I never assumed na iba level naming dalawa plus I dont consider na this is game where someone will or lose. Ive played the game on my early and mid 20s. I try to approach this with maturity and put everything in consideration. Maraming cons masasabi sa kanya but im not a saint myself. I have work to an industry that could understand her occupation. so its not much of a big deal.

 

ako bos nde ko babasagin yung trip mo.

 

if she says she loves you, di sige... we'll take it at face value.

 

ang sa akin lang eh, pakwento lang dito how it goes down the line...

 

kumbaga... ikaw muna yung guinea pig natin.

 

manalo or matalo, lehitimo o huwad yung pag ibig.....

 

everyone learns from the experience.

 

please do check in here from time to time to tell us of your current relationship's comings and goings

sure lol.

Bro listen to yourself... She was the first one who said it and not you (mas malala yan). I don't know her so I can't judge if she's being honest with you but can you absolutely be certain that she means what she's saying? can you honestly say to yourself na hindi nya un sinasabi sa ibang clients or nasabi lang nya un kase you seem to be a nice guy and she wants you to keep coming back for whatever reason other than the obvious? maybe she didn't charge you but still may binayaran ka pa din sa front desk for the room etc, so it's not totally free. Ang nangyare jan binawasan mo lang kita nung girl. Don't complicate your life kid, if you're looking for free sex then look for it somewhere else or take her out of the workplace. If you really care for her, dapat pilitin mo na tanggapin nya ung bayad unless nasa labas kayo ng workplace nya, otherwise di ka din nakakatulong sa kanya, remember, you're taking up her time by being there and it doesn't help na mabawasan kita nya everytime you go see her at work. You need a long term plan if you're looking for a relationship/gf sa ganyang lugar and not decide on a spur of the moment, hindi biro yan brad madaming complications at madaming skeletons sa closet ma madidiskubre. Sa ganintong scenario there's nothing wrong in being more protective of yourself.

 

Tol yang sinasabi mong "love ish" na sinasabi mo may tawag dyan. "Infatuation". That is entirely different from love. Kasi you can love people you are not really infatuated with. The problem comes when you try to interpret it more than what it is. Papano mo masasabi na love yan ni hindi mo naman pala kilala pa ng lubusan yung tao di ba? Isa pa, the mere fact you got too much complications going on means one thing, you are not ready to pursue a healthy relationship.

Guys Im not really sure but im willing to find out and it would take time. It only just began weve already talk about having plans to go out on dates etc etc. she already knows most of the complications I have going on from the start. and when she said she loves me it it felt really genuine so I never question it. maybe I am infatuated but I wouldnt know for sure unless ive tried. sometimes the beauty is in the attempt thanks for the replies I really appreciate it. I do need some reasoning the last thera I dated was a total mess and I need to be more careful for both of us. Ill probably post it here again whatever may be the results between me and her. but im less scared but more happy from what it become

Guys Im not really sure but im willing to find out and it would take time. It only just began weve already talk about having plans to go out on dates etc etc. she already knows most of the complications I have going on from the start. and when she said she loves me it it felt really genuine so I never question it. maybe I am infatuated but I wouldnt know for sure unless ive tried. sometimes the beauty is in the attempt thanks for the replies I really appreciate it. I do need some reasoning the last thera I dated was a total mess and I need to be more careful for both of us. Ill probably post it here again whatever may be the results between me and her. bute reall im less scared but more happy from what it become

 

Ang tanong, kaya mo ba sya panindigan? Kaya mo ba sya pakilala sa pamilya mo? sa mga kaibigan etc? If you just intend to keep her as your dirty little secret, then mas mabuting putulin mo na yan. Isa pa, are you sure in love nga kayo o dala lang yan ng sarap ng sex?

I dont know I have to get to know her more to answer that but meron something talaga inbetween like to love ish but leaning towards to love more and I want to know her even more. but that the plot twist is a really nutty case that i have to handle asap

Pano pag sila na ang in love sayo kasi recently lang nangyare but pag pumupunta kasi ako dun sya lang talaga kinukuha ko and hinde na ko kumukuha ng mga sikat dun kahit uber ganda ng fr sa kanila but last time during heated coital which we are both enjoying she said she likes me then i said i like her too after nun after we continue copulating then she said she loves me and then I said I love her too. She didnt charge me and now I have a girlfriend. but I have an interesting plot twist that I couldnt share and rather keep to myself......

I think she just made you her personal atm.

I didnt gave her that much money wise lol her lost

I dated a thera before kaya lang parang nabulilyaso kasi yung type ng work ko requires me to travel around. everything was looking good but recently nag sara na yung spa and palipat lipat na sya sa ng spa and of course she had this money problems Ive met her sister, cousins, I was even also had sleep over her place. but tingin ko lang yung pinaka prob is that she kept borrowing money pero hinde ko pinauutang so nagaabut na lang ako ng kung anung kaya and last time is na destino ako sa province then she messages me borrowing money again willing naman akong magbigay but hinde ako pwedeng umalis sa post ko because security reasons. simula nun parang tumabang na sya sakin and I tried reaching out to her after kong makabalik sa manila kaya lang mangungutang nanaman sya so yun hinde na ko nag pursue.

Around Marikina area YAWYAN Buhawi nangka near seaoil and puregold jr....nagtuturo doon ng MMA hinde lang basta turo. mga instructors dun will train with you

May Starbucks de leon st sa don antonio isang malupet na tambling may latte na ako

Mas gusto ko ang bar na chillax lang volume ng sounds

it was a beautiful attempt by the team

Whey pa rin kaso napaka procey

168 and the the other malls around divisoria is always a treat

Work and gym the usual routine

Planning to go there sometime next year any decent hotel you guys to recommend