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    no disrespect, but really, just wanted to say that if you love the thera then you should take her out of that s@%t place.. if you can bear having a nice dinner with her and hear her talk about her clients and how they trash her, then that's not love.. you just want company and some sex.. let me re-share my story..

     

    Posted 17 May 2018 - 04:06 PM

    mikebustos, on 02 Apr 2018 - 6:19 PM, said:snapback.png

     

     

    mikebustos, on 06 Apr 2018 - 1:23 PM, said:snapback.png

     

    UPDATE:

     

    My wife and I started talking again and discussed about getting back together. Meanwhile, my love-thera messaged me and told me na pagod na siya sa work niya and that she wanted to leave the industry already but does not know how to start a new life. We had several exchanges. A day after that, she bid me goodbye and told me she has finally decided to leave the industry. She promised me that she will never look back. She told me how thankful she is for meeting me, that I am the reason why she is leaving her work because I made her realize her self-worth and that not all hope is lost.

     

    My love-thera and I had a happy ending. But I guess a happy ending does not necessarily mean "they lived happily ever after". Yes, we do love each other and we're destined to meet each other. Not to be together but to serve a purpose to each other. I was going through rough times when I met her, somehow she helped me keep my sanity intact by making me smile all the time. I, in turn, helped her get out of that godforsaken place and help her get back up.

     

    Masaya kami parehong nagpaalam sa isa't isa. Oo, malungkot.. Nagkaiyakan,. Alam kasi namen na mahal namen ang isa't isa.. Pero sa isang banda, masaya kami dahil naitama namen ang mga pagkakamali namen sa buhay... She gave me a kiss when we parted ways... That was the sweetest and most sincere kiss I've ever had... she gave me a kiss while holding my face and crying... Salamat sayo... May isang bagay na kahit kelan hindi ko nagawang sabihin sayo dahil bawal.. pero hindi ko na kailangang sabihin dahil alam naman naten ang nararamdaman ng isa't isa.. pero sasabihin ko ngayon, MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA...

     

     

    Pardon for the harsh words, brother. Ayoko lang i-pass off in general as "libog" yung mga ganitong kwento, pero I actually pale in comparison sa kwento mo. At least ikaw happy ending, hindi mo binigyan ng pera/trabaho like the typical route others might think of, dinaan mo sa matinong usap.

     

    I tried talking her out of it, pero wala naman akong ibang kayang gawin to back my words. Siguro I should've just continued like you did until she finally leaves the industry, instead of ghosting her. I just happened upon her FB and nakaalis na sya sa industry, may BF na ding iba and happily shares her newfound Christian views sa buhay. Di ko na lang din kinausap, I'm just a non-existent shard of her past.

  2. Kung kayo gm naiinlove samin; inisip ba nibyo na kami din kaya napapaibig ninyo

     

     

    Sa akin lang po, kung in love man ko sa isang tao, hindi ko iniisip na in love din sya sa akin, kasi mas masakit yung to much expectation at ang hirap mag speculate,,,it's up to them kung tutumbasan nila ang pagmamahal ko kahit na swempre ung ang hiniling ko...mahirap ipilit ang sarili, kasi hindi magiging masaya ang isang relasyon kapag sapilitan lang...magiging #onesidedlove lang un...sa akin lang po ito

     

     

    Madaling malaman if napapaibig mo na ang thera mo. It usually starts with more mileage and leniency, then favors.

    Also, being in a GM-thera setup in ESpas, usually you are in your own little world for at least an hour, usually no holds barred, usually heart-to-heart talks if you really are fond of each other.

     

    Ewan ko sa iba, pero this kind of setup makes me sensitive thoughts/feelings ng thera. We bare our bodies to each other na rin lang, mas lalong madali to bare our innermost thoughts and feelings. Sabi ko nga about my past experience, madalas kami nagda-"the talk" ni thera ko, kahit nung hindi pa kami.

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  3. In a way alam ko sinasabi niya; in a way hindi normal sa lalaki na umibig ng damaged goods like us; tao din kami; marunong din kami umibig

     

    In a way, I agree. I almost had a relationship with a top1 thera sa isang spa sa Antipolo. We had a connection, we had affection. Pero in a way, libog lang talaga pinagmulan ng lahat.

     

    I know mahirap tapatan sweldo nya sa ESpa, I'm a learned professional and I can't even begin to think how to help her practically / financially. For me untouchable yung trabaho nya, we had "the talk" many times, kasi she's aware na she can't always make me feel special thru bareback sex while hanggang Body2Body and Jakol lang sya sa GMs nya.

     

    Many times kinakaya ng libog at concern, pero di rin kami nagtagal. I ghosted her. I was in the wrong. Pero I wanna acknowledge it, it was the only way I can keep her existence present, by acknowledging that I ghosted a thera GF.

     

    Lahat naman tayo damaged goods, we are all twisted. And these twisted stories we have won't be heard so much for sexism, double standards and hypocrisy. We are all twisted, I just loathe those to look down from their moral high horse when convenient.

  4. If you are in love with someone and you can bear the fact na ginagawa siyang parausan ng kung sino sino para lang sa pera, then there's got to be something wrong with you... Libog lang yan.

     

    I think kaya nga ginawa tong thread na to to have a deeper discourse about this topic. Because some GMs are in this predicament now, and some theras (s/o to Ms. shampooh) are here to banter and share honest thoughts and actual experiences.

     

    If you could nonchalantly pass that of with "there's got to be something wrong with you, Libog lang yan", then there's got to be something wrong with YOU. Your bigotry and arrogance is poison to this thread.

     

    Buti pa si georgemarts naghahalungkat for something that might change his mind.

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  5. Rather than 1month without sex, I'd use the phrase 1 sex per month for me.

     

    Nurse kasi si GF,so magaling siya mag calendar method. She wanted to have sex with me only when she is safe, and also so that I can go all out w/o using protection for maximum pleasure.

     

    Not that maarte lang kami kasi ayaw naming magcondom kaya tinitiis namin once a month lang, but rather I want to have safe sex w/ her.

    Dati kasi nagcocondom din kami, kaso nabubutas lang.

    Kawawa c GF kasi buong month siya stressed and worried if nakabuo ba kami or hindi.

    And it took a toll on her body kasi nga nurse siya, so alam niya na hindi yon mabubuo kung puro softdrinks, alcohol, and food deprivation and diet niya.

     

    With that premise, kahit siguro c manoy ko hindi titigas bcoz of guilt.

     

    Intentional man o hindi, mga babae lang ang kawawa ang health kapag ganyang issues na. Wala namang mawawala sa ating mga lalaki eh. Yung iba nga nakabuo na tinatakbuhan pa obligasyon nila.

     

     

    Iyon, so everytime safe si GF, dun lang kami nagesesex.

     

    Safe calendar method is 4days before predicted 1st day of period. & Day5&6 after 1st day of period. FOR "REGULAR" Women.

     

    For ladies with IRREGULAR CYCLE, just ignore the 4day before the 1st day of period.

     

    FYI lang po sa ating mga couples, baka makatulong din. SURE SAFE po yan wag na magkapote at putok mo pa sa loob.

    (Tiis lang sa subtle na smell ng period, pero kung mahal mo talaga siya, bakit pa mag-inarte diba?) :D

  6. High School = Hardcore mga 'dre. Alternate yung exam subjects per column sa seating arrangement para hindi makakopya sa katabi. Kung Math sinasagutan mo, English naman ang left&right seatmates mo.

     

    MODUS: I seat with a trusty partner. I do math, he does english. After the 1st period he'll have math and I english pero magpapalit kami ng test papers. So I also solved his math and he answered my english (with slight differences from our own exams). Then return and sleep for the rest of exam period.

     

    ewan ko kung common na to ngayon. pero nung panahon namin, isa na to sa hardcore.

     

     

     

    ->felt good after sharing this long-time secret. hahaha. I dedicate this thread to my fellow highschool seatmates and cheatmates. xD

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