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PedroPaterno

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  1. 11 hours ago, KID FIGHTER said:

     

    Thanks Sir Boss @PedroPaterno (we both got 1st Prize and 2nd Prize respectively in the Best FR contest. Congrats Sir!🎊🎉🌟)

    One of our professors in UCLA, Dr. Kay Kuzma, wrote a book about Love. In summary she says that Love = CRAFT.

    C =Caring

    R = Respect

    A = Acceptance

    F = Forgiveness

    T = Trust

    What you mentioned above falls under the category of caring. "C". What is caring for her? Caring means, just like in a traditional Jewish set-up, the lover (man/bf/husband) must provide for the material and psychoemotional needs of the beloved. So a person who doesn't have the means to raise a family is not capable of loving. Medyo anti-poor right? Pero you can plan. Work Well. Put a business. Then look for a future wife. Is she a thera? It's your call. Basta "be ready to provide for her material and psychoemotional needs" according to Kuzma. 

    Yeah I saw, grats again chief! Didn't actually expected to score 2nd place.

    Anyways, to get back on topic. I actually agree with the book's summary, I in turn have a different interpretation.

    It is indeed a man's job to be a provider for his spouse/partner but in trying times like these, some men don't have the freedom nor the privilege to provide material needs of his partner, some men, myself for instance, don't spoil women even if the time comes that I may be able to do so, it's just a matter of principle. This may hurt my chances with my dating life but so be it, there are three things I'll never compromise in a relationship, my dreams, my principles, and my standards. The rest are negotiable. So what can men like me do? That is first and foremost put emphasis on providing the psychoemotional need of my partner (as stated in your summary) and impart my knowledge and wisdom in life to her as well, this in turn shows her that I do care, I just expressed it in a different manner.

    While what we're talking about is a bit general and may veer a bit off-topic, this can still be applied to a person who falls for a therapist imho, why? see point 1 of my post. If a person looks past the job and treats the therapist objectively then what we're talking about can be applied to said person's situation.

    But that's just me, what do I know hehe.

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  2. 8 hours ago, KID FIGHTER said:

     

    Sir Boss @PedroPaterno, thanks for sharing your nuggets of practical wisdom! Yeah, I mean, seriously dude, I love it!

    Nag check ako ng mga essays ng grad school students,  pero di ko mapigilang mag comment hahaha!

    Reality: 

    We have so many pretty and sexy doctors here at St. Luke's, Medical City and Chinese Gen Hosp. Most of those I know are either pure Chinese (just like my ex-wifey) or half or 3/4 Chinese or Filipino-Hispanic. More than half of them never had any BF since birth. Lalo na sa batchmate ni wifey sa UST Med. Early 30's. Some of them took also their specialty in the US 🇺🇸 . Maykaya, some are rich (yung dad ni wifey mayaman talaga yun). Kaya lang most them naghahanap din ng kapwa doctor. Mas konti ang male doctors. Mga bading pa yun iba. So the demographic itself is problematic.

    Pahirapan manliligaw sa isang pretty sexy doctor. They will surely trace your family background. Finances included. Eh nakita mo si thera, she's equally pretty and sexy compared to the doctor. Di pa maarte. Masarap pa, as in super sarappp! Dun ka na lang kay thera. Besides, magastos ang doctor na GF. She wants to have a one-month vacation in Munich, Milan, Paris, London and then in the French Riviera. Sometimes mag continental trip pa yan for 2 months sa Vancouver, Edmonton, Toronto, New York, Washington DC, Orlando, South Beach area , Houston, Las Vegas, The Bay Area, Hollywood and LA. Papasok pa yan sa campus ng school namin sa UCLA bago punta sa Stanford.😁🤭😂😂😂 Samantalang si pretty sexy thera mo, masaya na yan sa Boracay, Palawan, Hongkong, Bali, Madagascar, Perth, Brisbane, Canberra at Tokyo Disneyland. Totoo ba yan mga pretty sexy theras? Less than 1/4 the expenses.

    Final suggestion: Please please please... if you really love your thera, please wag mo muna buntisin. Support her dreams! Make sure that she is able to finish her college (I'm not saying this because I have a doctorate from an American university). Support her being a strong woman. If you can, please send to school maybe 2 or 3 of her siblings too. Sarap pakiramdam pag may natulungan ka. I have also 2 scholars in UE actually.

    What about me? Can I fall for a thera? Definitely 100% I can fall for a thera. Pero pinaplano ko. One step at a time. Wag po muna ngayon.

    Thanks for appreciating my posts here in this thread, yeah I get where you're coming from. 

    at the end of the day, regardless of a woman's profession, men will have to spend money in wooing them.

    You gotta pay to play, that simple, because there's no such thing as free lunch. 

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