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  1. Women who are still attached to there ex (aka " hindi ko siya kayang burahin sa buhay ko"). That's just an excuse to fool around.

     

    Correct. Dapat talaga before getting into a relationship with a girl, always ask her if she's still talking to her EXs. If she says yes, you have to let her go.

     

    Basta guys, pag she's still talking to her ex, you never had her. wink.gif

     

     

  2. Complicated pag you have high interest level and your partner has low interest level. A good relationship should not be complicated. Sabi nga nila if she really loves you, she wants to keep you and not play with your head.

     

    Payo lang sa mga guys, watch out for red flags simula dating stage. Mahirap pag na attach ka na tlga tapos marealize mo complicated pala relationship nyo.

  3. A ground for marriage annulment is "psychological incapacity." It's a very broad and catch-all phrase. However, you will really never know what psychological malady a person has until s/he is professionally assessed by someone in the know.

     

    But there are signs, and there are symptoms. A person who is the easy-come-easy-go type is one such. S/he may not be even aware of his/her predicament.

     

    I still believe anyone who has a string of failed relatiinships should be in your watchlist. They, most orobably, have some for of psychological problem. Look also into the intervals of how soon or how quick they enter into a relationship, how long they stay in it, and how soon they leave. Mind also the reasons why the relationships don't last.

     

    Of course, you have to be wary also of the answers given you. More likely than not, these persons wouldn't be very honest.

     

    Would subconscious cheats have many failed relationships? Of course! How can they keep and maintain a relationship when they are, essentially, cheats?

    I agree! My ex fits the description of a subconscious cheater. If my interest level in her was low, i would have seen the red flags and got rid of her earlier. Guys! Watch out! Women who have bad dating history and especially who have man issues (she hates her dad) are not good long time partners.

  4. Getting back together is not a good idea. When a woman gets rid of you, you are out forever. She has already developed enough resentment and going back will cause you more pain.

     

    She might try to get back together with you but it's because of all the wrong reasons like she's lonely or just to satisfy her ego until she finds a new replacement

  5. Ako nainlove na din sa ganyan. Kala ko mabait at di pa hustler sa ganitong work. Naging kami at love namin isat isa (nung una) hanggang naghiwalay kami kasi wala daw ako "enough time" para sa kanya. Nalaman ko nalang based sa post nya sa FB at mula na rin sa bibig niya na nainlove pala sa guest nyang gwapo na may asawa. Pero di naging sila kasi natauhan cya na may asawa na kasi.

     

    Nagkabalikan din kami after 6 months pero nagkabalikan sila ng ex niya before naging kami ulit. Nung nagkikita na kami ulit nalaman ko na sila pa pala or kung hindi man, nagkikita pa rin sila. So 2 timer pala ang loka ohmy.giflaugh.gif. Pero later on nakapag usap kami at naging ayos na ulit hanggang nalaman ko may kausap nanaman siyang ibang ex nya.

     

    Wala na siya sa MP nung nagkabalikan kami pero nalaman ko na andami nyang baggages. Di na siya ASSET para sa akin kundi LIABILITY! laugh.gif Saka napakasama ng ugali. Then nung last time nakipag break siya alam ko may nakikita nanamang ibang lalaki un kasi ung reason nya kaya nakipag break mejo malabo mukhang naghahanap lang ng dahilan para sa kalandian nya.

     

    DI na ko naghabol, useless eh. Di naman GF material lalo nang hindi Marriage material. Saka kahit family ko ayaw sa kanya dahil nalaman nila ung treatment nya sa akin at nalaman na medyo hirap sila sa buhay. Kaya ko naman ipag-laban kaso kung bad attitude na nga, di pa loyal/faithful, di mabuhay ng walang kausap na ex, at squatter pa ugali. Kung ako sa situation nyo, gaganahan pa kayo?angry.gif

     

     

     

    Kaya I learned my lesson na ienjoy ko nalang ung sex sa ganung place. Mas ok kung GFE pero wag nalang maiinlove. Bata pa naman ako madami pa kong mamemeet na girls na matino at kaya kong pag malaki sa family ko.

     

    Madami maganda jan na matino na di ganun work. Ok lang naman ganun work ng GF ko basta mabait. Dibale ng mahirap basta di malandi at mukhang pera.

     

     

    Thank you for reading!

     

     

    Cheers!

  6. il try that.. reading a book.. :( its been 3 months since my gf broke up wd me and i still couldnt move on.. we didn't have any problem or third party issue. its just that she fall out of love.. hay.. and she also said she's not yet ready to love at this moment.. any advise guys?

    Sorry but i have to tell you this, minsan kaya nawawalan ng love kasi she could be falling in love with someone else. Like my ex-gf, we met the night before she went to meet a "friend". We were so happy then the next day she broke up with me. Later on nalaman ko that night may kadate pala cya after namin. May kapalit na pala ko. Pero your case could be different.

    Isuggest you move on by deleting all the pictures, messages, and get rid of all the things that remind you of her. Pag kinontact ka ignore tapos parang balewala lang. Dont be tempted to respond to her. Wag na wag ka magstalk lalo na sa fb. Go out, find a new hobby, do things that you cant do when you were together. Keep it going then later on marerealize mo na naka move on ka na pala. :)

  7. I told her na I agree with the break up and we should not talk for a while then after a week me and my cousin together with some other friends went to a music festival and partied from 4pm-4am. 2nd break up na kasi namin so sanay na ko. I've been thru this before so familiar na sa akin. Sana nga wag na nya ko guluhin. Haha

  8. -Yung mga naghahanap ng dream boy. Di makuntento

    -mahilig mag rebound relationship na nagiging pattern na sa love life nya.

    -lahat ng break up nya kasalanan ng ex. Ingat kayo baka feel nya cya lagi biktima kahit cya ung may kasalanan. In short, tama palagi tingin sa sarili

    -mapride

    -masyado feeling lahat ng lalaki gusto cya. Malaki chance pagpalit kayo nyan.

    -still in contact with her exes. This is not good unless her ex is a colleague, business partner or they have kids together. Pag friends2 lang tapos madalas cla naguusap. Ingat2!

    -walang pangarap sa buhay kundi umasa sayo

    -madaming dahilan pag gusto mo ng sex, at minamadali ka matapos

    - adik sa alak na tipong kung san2 inaabutan ng kalasingan.

  9. We broke up because of trust issues in our relationship. Things that we were comfortable sharing to each other like phones and FB password suddenly became unavailable. I tried to ask her what's going on, but she would just flip out on me.

  10. Natural na mahuhulog tayo sa kanila kasi nasa kanila lahat ng gusto natin sa isang girl. Mabait, sweet, maalaga, at magaling sa kama.happy.gif Pero mahirap sila paniwalaan kung totoo yung pinapakita nila sayo. Kung totoo naman, walang assurance na tatagal kayo dahil ang daming istorbo like makukulit niyang guest, pamilya niyang hingi ng hingi at ayaw mag-work. No offense pero kakatakot iharap sa friends and family kasi what if like former guest niya pala si Daddy? ohmy.gif As much as possible wag nalang. Ok na yung magkaibigan or friends with benefits (if you're lucky).

  11. Good sex really clouds your judgement. wink.gif

     

    I'm a young man, currently single, and new to the MP scene. Started going to these places out of curiosity and boredom. I used to get attached to these MPAs if the sex was good. I would even get their numbers to stay in touch. Some never replied to my texts and some would text me non-stop "bolas" like "i miss you", "hinihintay kita dito sa work", "naalala mo ba yung ginawa ko sayo?", "marunong ka ba magwithdrawal? payag ako, gwapo ka kasi". Sarap pakinggan noh? Sana totoo. But when I ask them out on a date, they would never go out with me without money and sex involved. Have you noticed that they never text or reply during their off day or when they are on vacation? They never text you without mentioning about visiting her at "work". Dun palang alam niyo na kung ano habol nila sa inyo. So watch out! Natuto na ko, hindi na ako clingy or madaling ma-attached like before. Sa lahat ng kilala kong MPA, isa lang sa kanila ang hindi ako kinukulit at never niya ako tinext para pumunta sa "work" niya. Hindi naman lahat sila ganito pero I think most of them are. Bihira ang maging totoo sayo. Kaya I told myself, I would never fall for them, and if I do find the "one" for me here sa ganitong work, I would never commit to her unless she retires. I don't want any trust issues and headaches.

     

    BTW, if you're married/ in a relationship and you just wanna spice up your sex life, "Toot it and boot it" lang or "hit it and quit it" walang emotional attachment. Think about your wife(if you still love her) and kids. Mostly the kids are the ones affected. I myself came from a broken family. My dad left my mom for a younger and more attractive woman but we still see each other a couple times a year 'cause they work and live abroad na. Hirap sobra 'cause my Dad's priority is her na. He's so kuripot sa akin but very generous sa kanyang new wifey. Would spend on her, buy her a new car, and build her a house sa province nila and trip abroad. Ngayon, iniwan din siya dahil super ambishyosa tong stepmom ko. angry.gif

     

    Sorry kung OT na. Share ko lang about sa topic na to. wink.gif

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