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I am contemplating on whether I'll share my personal story HERE or dun sa CONFESSION THREAD sa kabila. Well, what I am going to share isn't much of a past deed but my personal reflection upon my spa adventures.

 

Kung sa paramihan lang ng thera, or sa pagandahan ng ES experiene, or sa pagandahan ng therapists availed, I think I can rival the most addicted spakol clients. Not that I'm exactly super proud of it. May pros and cons yan, pero for a change, I wanna share the other side of the story, outside the fun aspect of it.

 

The hard part that I am facing right now is...I don't exactly know what to do next after kong ma try yung the best theras in the business. It feels like you're a basketball team na nag GRAND SLAM tapos you don't know exactly where to go from there. Parang andun yung situation ko right now.

 

Therapists are a tricky group of people in a client's life. Hindi sila girlfriend, and they're not exactly a friend either. So THE ROLE they play in a client's life is somewhat VAGUE, at kahit tatlong taon mahigit na ako sa SPA, I haven't really sorted that out. If boundaries are not defined, you don't really know what you can expect.

 

Sometimes, even texting them something like MERRY CHRISTMAS, medyo awkward na. Kung kaibigan mo, girlfriend mo, or family member mo, madali lang, pero pag THERA, laging may feeling of awkwardness kasi laging question mark kung paano ka lulugar. Di mo naman kasi girlfriend, di mo rin naman kaibigan.

 

Nag start ako mag spa para lang mawala yung pagka tigang ko after my relationship ended. I wasn't expecting that it will last this long (more than three years) and I really wasn't expecting na maiikutan ko lahat ng kalidad ng thera that I ever fantasized about. Been there, done that, got all the wildest physical adventures I ever imagined, and at the end of the day (just recently), dun na ako nag reflect.

 

Sometimes, I contemplate kung gusto ko na bang magka girlfriend ulet. Or iniisip ko kung meron bang thera na na-inlove ako. When I think about it, kung gugustuhin kong magka girlfriend ulet, I would just end up comparing her to the theras I availed and kapag she's not as great as my theras were, mafa fall short lang sya sa expectations ko, and that would be unfair for her.

 

Sometimes, I think of my favorite theras. Alam ko malakas makamanhid ang lifestyle na ganito. The more you spend your time with different theras, the less humanized things get. Ang naiisip mo kadalasan is kung sino yung pinaka maganda, or kung sino yung pinaka magaling mag perform. Tapos, on your next visit to another thera, you wish that this new thera has better moves than your previous one.

 

Gusto ko magkaroon ng feeling na ma-inlove ulet, though the spa life is not the answer to that. In fact, it reverses that feeling. At least for me. The reason why I am being contemplative is because I don't want the numbness to take over.

 

Sa dami ng naging thera ko, I think there are two theras that I am close to have feelings for. The first one is retired. The other is VERY ACTIVE on MTC and she could be reading this right now.

 

Magkatabi kami sa cubicle bed nun, after ES. Cuddle moment. Pillow talk. She kept on asking me what-ifs. Things na kaya kong gawin sa therapist if I really want her so badly. We talked about how jealous I can get, mga ganung bagay. I told her honestly na wala naman talaga akong kayang ipangako sa therapist. Not when I need to fix myself first. Kaya nga kami naghiwalay ng ex ko kasi I have not sorted things out for her. Kung yung ex ko, di ko nagawan ng plano, mas lalo na siguro yung thera. This was a very UNROMANTIC reply on my part, pero at least honest ako sumagot sa mga what-if questions nya.

 

If she's reading this right now, and I know she's smart enough to know that I'm referring to her, I just wanna tell her that...

 

Let's go out sometime. Let's have lunch or something. I just wanna see you as the PERSON that you are, and not as MY THERAPIST. Let's go out and just talk beyond the usual routines of a client-thera relationship. You wanted to know me, the guy behind the MTC account, and I guess I wanna know you too, but as the girl behind the therapist.

 

For the longest time that I've been wandering around spas, getting indulgent and all, I always wanted na sana there's something more to this. And then I met you.

 

Thank you for sharing Sir. I agree and I can also relate.Masaya at masarap balikan mga ganyang alaala.Saken naman right from the start sibasabi ko na may gf ako para di na magdemand ng time at nagseaet nako ng expectations.

 

Nag ka gf na rin ako na spa manager, receptionist at mga therapist.Naging tambay din ako ng spa at halos nakita at nakilala ko din ibang GM's.May nakita akong bata halos estudyante pa lng hangang sa 80 plus na ata yun.Yung 80 plus yung naintriga ako kc halos weekly daw napunta.kahit d na daw tinitigasan nagpapaservice pa.halos nkikipagkwentuhan na lng. napaisip tuloy ako kung dumating ako sa edad na yun mag spa p kaya ako? Hehhehe

 

Since tambay nga ako ng spa halos naging comportable na sila na dumadaan sa harap ko na naka bra at panty na lng.halos sa isang linggo 3 araw ako at minimum 4 hrs naka upo lng sa lounge either kausap ko recep o s mngr gf.

Haha..amiga..depende pa rin yan sa gm.meron naman napakilala sa family,haha..alam mo yan..hehehheeh

 

Minsan din yung friends na alam ang work mo e pagtatakpan ka sa friends nilang di alam ang work mo..so di mo masasabi..

 

 

 

Depende na lang sa sitwasyon..whahahhahaha..

 

 

Wag bitter amiga ko..hahahhahahha..peaceeeee..

May punto k naman beem pero sana sa mga thera, bago sila pumasok sa relationship with a GM dapat handa na sila sa mga consequences.

get out.

 

the aggravation is not worth it. and while you may have money, sooner or later you will realize that you've spent quite a sum on her and in the end you will see that you could have spent in other things

 

maybe she's really nice and worth loving but she's also young and it's clear that the pressure of being the bread winner sometimes gets to her. better for you to cut your losses than to end up losing more than money

Good point bro .. are we related? Lol nice nick.

Well, we had an agreement... She's new in the industry and so, she would stop provided I would support her!

 

For me, it's not a financial burden for me kasi halos transportation allowance ko lang ang 25K every month (not bragging here, just saying) but then I saw a bit of her true character sa FB

 

And now, it happened again... She just lives in Bacoor so we were about to meet at SM Bacoor and ako galing pa sa Sta Rosa Laguna. Minura pa ako kanina kasi akala nya ndi ko daw sya sisiputin to give her 25K php! Personally, I think this is her paranoia kicking in!

 

I called everything off today because I really didn't like her "attitude towards me" provided na tumutulong na nga lang ako sa kanya. Wala kasi talagang respeto!

 

Its most likely that she would be back in Tokyo Spa tomorrow since I'm sure she's already in need of money.

 

Guys, what do you think?

Bro, i think ur falling for the wrong girl.Im sure d matatapos sa 25k lng yan .alam nya may pera ka at next time tataas pa hihingin nya syo. Nainlove din ako dati sa isang thera pero never nag demand xa khit anu.masaya na xa sa starbucks frappe or cheesecake.at pag bumibisita ako sa spa,entrance na lng binabayaran ko at wla na tip kc ayaw nya tangappin.what im saying is sana makahanap ka ng girl whether she is a thera or not,someone that will reciprocate your feelings.

What if falling for a gm do you take it for advantage??

Or lalayuan mo sya???

Kung wala naman sabit si gm why not. Pero if may gf o asawa na layo ka na lng.in the end kaw lng naman masasaktan

I'l give you respect, all my trust. All my love. All of me. ♡

 

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may isang tao talagang makakapagpabago ng pananaw at desisyon mo sa buhay. di ko naman akalain malaki impact mo sakin mhirap magtiwala pero bahala na in life kailanagn sumugal manalo matalo. Ang mahalaga u give ur best

 

-- i don't wanna brag but il be the best you ever had.

 

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2 polo shirts from nike. im a nike guy

The thing is, i only went to her workplace once, all our interaction occurs outside the cubicle, i treat her like how you'd treat your girl normally, i actually find it awkward just thinking that if i do avail of her services at her workplace do i have to hand her a tip? It just doesn't sit well with me. So i try to avoid going to her workplace. And sometimes i dont know if theres anything wrong with me cause im willing to wait almost 3 hours outside just for her to finish with some guests so we can go out for dinner. Its just that im really happy being with her, guess ill just go along while it lasts.

 

i feel you bro. yup, awkward nga na magbigay pa ng tip if gf mo na talaga ung thera. Pero if lumalabas na kayo at nagchecheck in. no need to give a tip. pag nanghingi pa xa ng tip. ibang usapan na. malamang pera lng habol syo.

just want to share.

 

dami na rin ako nakilala at nailabas na thera. Yeah, I like them but yung nainlove wala pa. Pero nainlove at nagkagf nako ng Manager sa SPA. Ayun, kahit may asawa ako I made sure na may oras ako sakanya. tinamaan din tlaga ako. I guess we had the right love at the wrong time. 2 Months lng kmi.

No true. May mga nakilala nako na they do it because they just want it. kaya nga tayo and2 sa MTC coz we all have our reasons.

anyone who play's tennis here in manila?

 

either dapitan complex or sanlazaro hospital

 

you can also try pup sta mesa. may tennis court dun near lrt pureza. pup ndc tennis club

lahat ng gamit o related sa aqurium sa cartimar lng po nea lrt buendia. walking distance lng. tanung tanung na lng kayo dun