Marbel

My mistress-lucky charm-partner in crime has already signed her contract to work in Taiwan... She will leave in month!

8 minutes ago, SilentReader said:

Mahirap mag mahal ng therapist.
Iiwanan ka lang basta para sa pera.
where tinulungan mo naman both in emotional and financial aspect ung tao.
Kahit inahon mo cya from the industry, nandun pa rin ung perspective ng tao na sa pera naaakit. (Konting bitterness hahaha.. minahal ko rin ung tao e)

Anyway, not all will be a story like that.
May frend din naman ako na successful ang story. 
In my case, forgive but don't forget the lesson. 😃

At least nasagot ung WHAT IFs... may regrets ka naloko or nagamit ka pero wala ka regrets na kung sana mas minahal mo sya

28 minutes ago, Gundamo said:

Awe.. Good luck, wish you all the best!

Thanks!

I would just like to share my personal experience as a GM... And our relationship going for 2 years. 

OUR STORY: We first met and were in a GF/BF relationship 13 years ago. We are very young then, just around in our late 20's. We were passionate to make something of ourselves - we both dreamt big! We thought we were a match. To cut the painful story short - She chose another man over me! To be honest, I had some regrets letting her go but I believe it was for the better since I also had to leave for Singapore and pursue my dream as to be the Best Engineer that I can be... She eventually married the "other man" she chose over me and they had a child.

At first, we still kept in touch as friends through social media, SMS and calls while I was in SG for a while. She was candid on the fact that they were both not making enough here in Philippines and to make it worse, their child had a condition that required them to be "more" financially stable. Thus, she had to leave for Taiwan (as an Production QA) to pursue Greener Pasteur while her husband has to stay in Philippines to take care of their child.

We had a big argument before she left for Taiwan because I strongly advised against their situation - It should be the other way around! I explained that her husband should be the one to leave the country to work and provide for their family, not her. She, as a mother, should be the one to stay and take care of their child but she ignore my plea. During this time, I was hurt and was also convinced that she no longer needed my advise from thereon. Thus, caused us to stop our communication.

Fast-forward 13 years into the pandemic, she was forced to come back home in Philippines because she lost her job in middle-east while I was offered a year earlier by my company to manage our investments here in Philippines.

Again, to cut the long story short, we had an opportunity to meet again but this time we already are very different. I already have a family of my own and she was separated from her husband (not legally) and left with their child. She was forced to work odd-jobs and once was in Pasay as a **you know what** to support her family 

At first, I was so disappointed on what she has done and what she had to went through. It was very far from her plans. And then it struck me, what if she chose me? What if we chose each other? Thus, I made her stop working and just supported her financially. I also had a lot of time because I have the opportunity to work at home during the pandemic. In fact, we already have our own child together but she had a miscarriage **OUCH!**

I tried to support her as much as I can emotionally and financially... Or at least until she could get back on her feet and not let her be eaten up by flesh-slavery industry - my apologies for the term.. After more than 2 years of answering most of our "WHAT IFs" she's again leaving for Taiwan since the pandemic is over. She is a very strong woman... I have to admit that I LOVE HER but perhaps, I'm just an instrument to give her a little push into the path of her dreams again.

This time, she's no longer starting from scratch but from a good experience. Goodluck to her! Goodluck to me! Goodluck to us! Godspeed!

Thanks for having time to read my... our story!

I would just like to share my personal experience as a GM... And our relationship going for 2 years. 

OUR STORY: We first met and were in a GF/BF relationship 13 years ago. We are very young then, just around in our late 20's. We were passionate to make something of ourselves - we both dreamt big! We thought we were a match. To cut the painful story short - She chose another man over me! To be honest, I had some regrets letting her go but I believe it was for the better since I also had to leave for Singapore and pursue my dream as to be the Best Engineer that I can be... She eventually married the "other man" she chose over me and they had a child.

At first, we still kept in touch as friends through social media, SMS and calls while I was in SG for a while. She was candid on the fact that they were both not making enough here in Philippines and to make it worse, their child had a condition that required them to be "more" financially stable. Thus, she had to leave for Taiwan (as an Production QA) to pursue Greener Pasteur while her husband has to stay in Philippines to take care of their child.

We had a big argument before she left for Taiwan because I strongly advised against their situation - It should be the other way around! I explained that her husband should be the one to leave the country to work and provide for their family, not her. She, as a mother, should be the one to stay and take care of their child but she ignore my plea. During this time, I was hurt and was also convinced that she no longer needed my advise from thereon. Thus, caused us to stop our communication.

Fast-forward 13 years into the pandemic, she was forced to come back home in Philippines because she lost her job in middle-east while I was offered a year earlier by my company to manage our investments here in Philippines.

Again, to cut the long story short, we had an opportunity to meet again but this time we already are very different. I already have a family of my own and she was separated from her husband (not legally) and left with their child. She was forced to work odd-jobs and once was in Pasay as a **you know what** to support her family 

At first, I was so disappointed on what she has done and what she had to went through. It was very far from her plans. And then it struck me, what if she chose me? What if we chose each other? Thus, I made her stop working and just supported her financially. I also had a lot of time because I have the opportunity to work at home during the pandemic. In fact, we already have our own child together but she had a miscarriage **OUCH!**

I tried to support her as much as I can emotionally and financially... Or at least until she could get back on her feet and not let her be eaten up by flesh-slavery industry - my apologies for the term.. After more than 2 years of answering most of our "WHAT IFs" she's again leaving for Taiwan since the pandemic is over. She is a very strong woman... I have to admit that I LOVE HER but perhaps, I'm just an instrument to give her a little push into the path of her dreams again.

This time, she's no longer starting from scratch but from a good experience. Goodluck to her! Goodluck to me! Goodluck to us! Godspeed!

Thanks for having time to read my... our story!

I would just like to share my personal experience as a GM... And our relationship going for 2 years. 

OUR STORY: We first met and were in a GF/BF relationship 13 years ago. We are very young then, just around in our late 20's. We were passionate to make something of ourselves - we both dreamt big! We thought we were a match. To cut the painful story short - She chose another man over me! To be honest, I had some regrets letting her go but I believe it was for the better since I also had to leave for Singapore and pursue my dream as to be the Best Engineer that I can be... She eventually married the "other man" she chose over me and they had a child.

At first, we still kept in touch as friends through social media, SMS and calls while I was in SG for a while. She was candid on the fact that they were both not making enough here in Philippines and to make it worse, their child had a condition that required them to be "more" financially stable. Thus, she had to leave for Taiwan (as an Production QA) to pursue Greener Pasteur while her husband has to stay in Philippines to take care of their child.

We had a big argument before she left for Taiwan because I strongly advised against their situation - It should be the other way around! I explained that her husband should be the one to leave the country to work and provide for their family, not her. She, as a mother, should be the one to stay and take care of their child but she ignore my plea. During this time, I was hurt and was also convinced that she no longer needed my advise from thereon. Thus, caused us to stop our communication.

Fast-forward 13 years into the pandemic, she was forced to come back home in Philippines because she lost her job in middle-east while I was offered a year earlier by my company to manage our investments here in Philippines.

Again, to cut the long story short, we had an opportunity to meet again but this time we already are very different. I already have a family of my own and she was separated from her husband (not legally) and left with their child. She was forced to work odd-jobs and once was in Pasay as a **you know what** to support her family 

At first, I was so disappointed on what she has done and what she had to went through. It was very far from her plans. And then it struck me, what if she chose me? What if we chose each other? Thus, I made her stop working and just supported her financially. I also had a lot of time because I have the opportunity to work at home during the pandemic. In fact, we already have our own child together but she had a miscarriage **OUCH!**

I tried to support her as much as I can emotionally and financially... Or at least until she could get back on her feet and not let her be eaten up by flesh-slavery industry - my apologies for the term.. After more than 2 years of answering most of our "WHAT IFs" she's again leaving for Taiwan since the pandemic is over. She is a very strong woman... I have to admit that I LOVE HER but perhaps, I'm just an instrument to give her a little push into the path of her dreams again.

This time, she's no longer starting from scratch but from a good experience. Goodluck to her! Goodluck to me! Goodluck to us! Godspeed!

Thanks for having time to read my... our story!

I would just like to share my personal experience as a GM... And our relationship going for 2 years. 

OUR STORY: We first met and were in a GF/BF relationship 13 years ago. We are very young then, just around in our late 20's. We were passionate to make something of ourselves - we both dreamt big! We thought we were a match. To cut the painful story short - She chose another man over me! To be honest, I had some regrets letting her go but I believe it was for the better since I also had to leave for Singapore and pursue my dream as to be the Best Engineer that I can be... She eventually married the "other man" she chose over me and they had a child.

At first, we still kept in touch as friends through social media, SMS and calls while I was in SG for a while. She was candid on the fact that they were both not making enough here in Philippines and to make it worse, their child had a condition that required them to be "more" financially stable. Thus, she had to leave for Taiwan (as an Production QA) to pursue Greener Pasteur while her husband has to stay in Philippines to take care of their child.

We had a big argument before she left for Taiwan because I strongly advised against their situation - It should be the other way around! I explained that her husband should be the one to leave the country to work and provide for their family, not her. She, as a mother, should be the one to stay and take care of their child but she ignore my plea. During this time, I was hurt and was also convinced that she no longer needed my advise from thereon. Thus, caused us to stop our communication.

Fast-forward 13 years into the pandemic, she was forced to come back home in Philippines because she lost her job in middle-east while I was offered a year earlier by my company to manage our investments here in Philippines.

Again, to cut the long story short, we had an opportunity to meet again but this time we already are very different. I already have a family of my own and she was separated from her husband (not legally) and left with their child. She was forced to work odd-jobs and once was in Pasay as a **you know what** to support her family

At first, I was so disappointed on what she has done and what she had to went through. It was very far from her plans. And then it struck me, what if she chose me? What if we chose each other? Thus, I made her stop working and just supported her financially. I also had a lot of time because I have the opportunity to work at home during the pandemic. In fact, we already have our own child together but she had a miscarriage **OUCH!**

I tried to support her as much as I can emotionally and financially... Or at least until she could get back on her feet and not let her be eaten up by flesh-slavery industry - my apologies for the term.. After more than 2 years of answering most of our "WHAT IFs" she's again leaving for Taiwan since the pandemic is over. She is a very strong woman... I have to admit that I LOVE HER but perhaps, I'm just an instrument to give her a little push into the path of her dreams again.

This time, she's no longer starting from scratch but from a good experience. Goodluck to her! Goodluck to me! Goodluck to us! Godspeed!

Thanks for having time to read my... our story!

Salamat mga bro sa tulong!

Seriously, ayaw ko sabihin pangalan nya kasi baka bumalik sa akin ang karma! For me, I just shared my experience and asked help... To still be a gentleman, I would rather not divulge her name!

None-the-less, I'm sure she would have a different side of the story so nasa inyo nlang kung sino po paniniwalaan nyo.

Sayang talaga mga ganun babae! Tinutulungan mo na nga, sila pa ang nagmamataas...

Ingat nlang po sya na ndi sya tuluyang mapariwara and ingat nlang din tau sa mga "the moves"!

Do you feel like being used by her because of that. Helping is nice and all. She doesn't have to be great full ginusto mo rin naman kasi. Turn off sayo singilin mo na lang sya and count your loses and hope sh pays back.

Well, we had an agreement... She's new in the industry and so, she would stop provided I would support her!

For me, it's not a financial burden for me kasi halos transportation allowance ko lang ang 25K every month (not bragging here, just saying) but then I saw a bit of her true character sa FB

And now, it happened again... She just lives in Bacoor so we were about to meet at SM Bacoor and ako galing pa sa Sta Rosa Laguna. Minura pa ako kanina kasi akala nya ndi ko daw sya sisiputin to give her 25K php! Personally, I think this is her paranoia kicking in!

I called everything off today because I really didn't like her "attitude towards me" provided na tumutulong na nga lang ako sa kanya. Wala kasi talagang respeto!

Its most likely that she would be back in Tokyo Spa tomorrow since I'm sure she's already in need of money.

Guys, what do you think?

wag mag focus sa nakaraan brad ang importante mahalin mo at wag mo ibabalik ang past nyo mahalin mo mabuti

Dude, we are not yet on the inlove stage... Nasa Guaging stage pa lang, Bagsak na!

Btw, the "Therapist" that I am talking about is from Tokyo Spa

Ano na kaya ang pinaka-exotic na position na ang nagawa nito?

 

Ang masasabi ko lang is natikman ko na ang lahat ng gusto kong matikman if I have 25k. LOL

Hahahaha...

Dude, it's not about sex anymore.

It's more of helping a person getting on his feet again... But in this case, getting on "her" feet again!

you sound and look like a man who's more than willing to help her and i see nothing wrong with that. the main concern i have about this is that you may end up as nothing more than a milking cow. maybe things will change in the future, but for now my suggestion is that help her by getting her services and giving her a little more than normal. that way you don't really risk her borrowing more money from you and you know that she "earned" what you have given her

This is a very good point!

I was willing to give her another chance since she is apologetic afterwards when I found out all the shitty comments she placed at FB towards me after the reverse Psychology act na "stalker daw ako" didn't work on me!

I don't know if its another of those scenarios, "you're just sorry now because you got caught" kinda thing since I always believe in the industry I'm working in that "a persons character doesnt really change, he just gets better in hiding his flaws."

Thanks Everyone!

In addition, she's lives in Bacoor. To be fair, I think part of her stories are true at sabi ko nga dinala na nya ako sa bahay nila once para makilala ko ang cousin nya since her mother and kuya is already sleeping that time. And yup, may karinderya nga sila sa baba ng bahay nila!

Basically, I met her female cousin named "Anne" + her male cousin na nakalimutan ko na yung pangalan. And I saw a very young child na anak "daw" ng ate nya!

She said, 2 weeks pa lang daw sya sa trabaho nya so i had an idea of making her stop nlang habang maaga pa.

Guys, dont get me wrong.. Losing 25K php to know a person's character is a bargain I'm willing to take any day.

I just want to be sure that I'm doing the correct thing because I did gave my word to help her... But after the FB incident, my view toward her really changed a lot!

Correct. She's a bread winner of her family. Wala daw kasi trabaho kuya nya kasi nagkasakit daw and her mother is already very old. Also, she said she already had 2 serious relationship and ung pinakahuli daw is with a married man na 33yrs old which she broke up with 3 months ago. Tinanong ko nga kung inuutangan nya yung BF nya dati, ndi nman daw...

What do you guys think?

Guys, need your opinions...

I met this young thera sa "alam nyo na" and she became my friend... I tried courting her for 2 weeks tapos nya ako ipakilala sa kasambahay nya, ayun inutangan na ako agad... 25K php Grabe! She said it for the repair of their house kasi nagpagawa sila ng karinderya... Ako nman, it's just money since I'm well off nman! Maybe its me paying it forward for all the luck i got in my life or it's just my dick thinking... I dont know, but to cut it short I helped her.

Ever heard of the saying "what you're doing when no one is looking is a test to know of someones true character".... And did I really see her true character!

I dont have a social media account (except for Linkedin) since I am not in favor of people posting their "personal things" for society to know and I'm also not in favor of reading other's as well. But through a friend's account nalaman ko nlang na kpag nagagalit sya sa akin, pinopost nya sa FB mga msges ko para ma-bash ako... I mean, her words are "sana lamukin sya kakahintay dun" at "praning ako" etc. I could never imagine a 20yr old lady could be so cruel sa FB. And then when I confronted her with that, binaligtad pa ako na "stalker" daw ako!

Now, I'm really not sure about this lady if she's true or not...

For me, depende kung ano balak mo sa CAR ang magdidistate ng ano mas bagay sau...

HONDA: PROS- mataas ang resale value compared to other japanes brands

CONS-Mahal masyado ung parts at medyo mahirap maghanap (Punta ka lang banawe and compare)

TOYOTA: PROS-Sobrang daling i-maintain at mura ung mga parts

CONS-The resale value isn't that much, Ex. If you will look at ebay and compare the 1996 models of toyota (corolla) and honda (civic)

Bottomline, my suggestion is: If you wish to sell the car in the next 5 years... Go for honda! But kung gusto mo gamitin yan for upto 10 years or more than 100k Km, go for toyota...