mrbigtime

Queens Court masarap yung pancit canton. Mariposa ang cute ng rooms sa liit. Yung flower group motels masasarap yung food. Pere da best yung Victoria court pa rin.

Haven't experience it yet. But if, by stroke of bad lucks

it did happen, you could only find me in a mental facility!

But that's just me...

That same day i've broken-up with gf-B, I went & visited my previous ex-gf-A, made love to her,

told her that I've broken up with gf-B. The exact same girl/gf-B i've dated after her (gf-A) &

the reason why I & ex-gf-A broke-up in the first place!

She told me that SHE'LL LEAVE ME in a joking manner & in jest. I told her

the same exact words but in a serious mode, then I walked away & never

looked back since then...

An update on my last post dated 26th of April. I've totally rid myself of of my ex-PSP gf (now ex-gf).

Broke up with her 2 days ago over some petty reasons. One reason of course pertains

to money matters. Whats funny is that, that same night, I dropped by my ex-gf GRO/dancer's club.

Got her and requested f'or the VIP. Inside the room, I immediately caress her, grabbed what

should be grabbed, kiss, fondled, and basically ended up having sex or more apt, making love with her.

I was dumbfounded for what transpired & to think that no exchange of money ever took place, except of

course for the VIP charge. When I was about to leave, I saw what I thought were genuine tears from her.

She even tried to hide her face so I wouldnt see her cry. Damn I felt so sorry for what happened. I still have

some feelings for her really, but the situation now is quite complicated. Anyway we have opened up

communication again. But nothing definite yet...

This one thing I have noticed with these women when you start getting close. They would always start opening up to you about their woes. Little by little, these woes turn from psychological to financial. When they reach that point, they'll start out by asking for a loan (mangungutang).

 

That's why I don't push myself too far with GROs. I never want them to have the idea that I am overly interested in them, or worse still, that I am courting them.

Hey bro, your'e statements is as sweeping as well.

But, just to be a devils advocate, I've had several relationship with

a PSP and the likes before. Your'e correct in saying that it almost always

boils down to money no matter how deep the feelings may be, even for

both parties. More often than not it involves supporting your girl financially.

Two previous relationships ago, I played somewhat the sugar daddy

of an ex-MPA . Ditto with my present GF. But the last one I must say does

not involve any kind of financial gain for my GRO/dancer ex-gf. Expenses for

both of us are very mutual. The sex was even fantastic and mind blowing.

She being the agressor/agressive type.:-)

Lets just say that maybe 2 out of 5, we can safely argue really fell

genuinely in love.

I posted not a while back about falling for an MPA and a GRO...now at the same time,Before, I was in college and I was spending some else's money. Since I was younger, the MPA was spending money on me and I had a natural GF ( my classmate in college who eventually became a nurse immigrated to the USA),the GRO was kinadda older than me at that time, but was very understanding and supportive, however she got hooked with a foreigner and disappeared. now fast forward...I am older and spending my own money, with a family, yet instead I got hooked with an MPA and a GRO..The MPA i know is lying but I love to help her kid and parents. The GRO is way too young, when we are on a date at high end places, I look like the uncle or a sugar daddy. yet age is just a number according to her. something has to give way. I dunno.

Nice story bro...

Its like dejavu on my part.

In any case, you have 2 choices with the MPA...either you drop her cold turkey or you continue to fool yourself!!! Sorry for being frank...

On your GRO friend. Man...forget about what others would say, life is too short, enjoy her while it last.

I did with my fair share of GROs/MPAs/PSPs. still do...just got hooked big time on one recently!!!

well bro, IMHO...

 

if you can live without her, i do suggest you pick up the pieces and move on with your life...it's useless naman kung tutuloy mo yung feelings mo sa kanya knowing na di magiging kayo NGAYON, but fif you want to gamble with the future and just be there for her, pero that is a BIG IF...kasi di mo naman malalaman kung kayo talaga sa huli...

 

just be strong bro and think hard about your decisions...

 

GOOD LUCK...

Thanks bro, she was the one who help me picked up the pieces when I had an abstruse relationship with an ex-MPA recently (posted on this thread sometime June 2010).

Just an update, I'm planning to see her soon. Might as well control my feelings for her than throw away a cherished friendship!!!

Where am I in your life?

I poured my guts out last night over 2 buckets of SMB lite and told a long time PSPfriend that what I feel for her now is more than friendship!!!

She was caught by surprise...

I must have misinterpreted bits and pieces of what I thought were signs that she feels the same way...

It turned out it was'nt really for me but its for another guy she always talks about!!!

Damn for being a fool...

But true to her friendship, she did'nt castigate nor ignored my pleas...

In the end there were only two (2) options. Either I devolve my feeling to another or cut short our friendship. I chose the latter.

I lost a very dear friend and she lost a confidant that night.

We were both crying and hugging in a public place (bar in T. Morato), indifferent of the other people around us.

I'm still at a loss and barely hanging on...

Should I take it back???

Only time will tell...

that is what i want to ask. Had there been instances before when an MPA was actually sincere and did love someone not for the money thing?

 

 

just curious. thanks.

I can give you an honest to goodness answer. YES!!! Had personally experience such, though it did'nt end well. I ended the relationship recently. She still tries to communicate although I've made up my mind...

Simple, go with your guts!

If all clues and patterns point towards a certain conclusion,

then most likely it is true...

I've been reading many of your stories, so mine is probably no different from yours. Still, it's comforting to know that my experience isn't unique. Akala ko kasi dati ako lang nagka-ganito. Di pala.

 

I started seeing this MPA four months ago. I picked her out of the aquarium because she was beautiful; her smile melted my heart. And when we got to talking, napakabait pa niya. I felt the chemistry, and I was hooked. I became her regular guest.

 

One day, she came to me in tears. She just had a fight with her lover. By this time, I had already developed a crush on her, so I was kind of saddened by this revelation - na may lover na pala siya. Still, I wanted to be a good friend, so I listened to her, and gave her advice when I could. She told me she was touched by my kindness.

 

A week or so later I visited her again. She told me she and her lover were no more. And then she began to pry if I had any feelings for her. Eventually I relented, and admitted that I liked her. She told me she liked me back. And that's how it started.

 

When we're together, she's the sweetest, most wonderful person. Whenever she tells me she likes me, I can't help but believe her. And I don't consider myself a gullible idiot - I was BORN a skeptic. It's just that she's so... convincing. And I guess it's not helping that I'm just so into her.

 

Here's the problem. I used to think she was completely honest... but little by little, I've been finding out that she's been lying to me about little things - her birthday, the identity of her former lover, her school, etc.

 

Worst of all, her behavior is also inconsistent with someone who is "in love." She RARELY texts me. Pag related lang sa work niya, she will text. Pag wala siyang guest and she needs money, she will text. Her excuses for not texting are numerous - wala daw siyang load, or di niya nare-receive, or masyado busy... there was even a time she said she wasn't replying to my texts because she was making tampo for something I did. BUT there was a time she needed this HUGE amount of money. When I told her I didn't have that much, she kept on texting me the WHOLE DAY, nagging me to lend her the money.

 

And everytime I ask her out, it's the same thing. Excuse after excuse after excuse. She's sick, she has school work, etc. There WAS one time though, when she visited me after I got angry with her. And there was no money involved. But that was only once.

 

Then, just recently, I got a glimpse of her celphone - at naka-list ang name ko dun as "Guest". When I asked her if I could see the contents of her phone, ayaw niya ipakita. What is she hiding? Is she afraid to show me that, to her, I'm nothing more than another guest?

 

My brain tells me she's just using me for money. At nagalit na ako several times sa kanya. Inaway ko na siya. I've told her I know she's just manipulating me. That the only thing she needs from me is my money. But she keeps on insisting she cares for me. Nakausap ko na rin siya ng maayos. Sinabihan ko na siya, "okay lang kahit hindi mo ako mahal, alam ko naman na guest lang ang tingin mo sa akin. I promise, hindi ako magagalit kung aminin mo na hindi mo ako mahal, pupuntahan pa rin kita." But she still says she has feelings for me. Everytime I question her, she shows frustration. There was even one time she CRIED when I told her I didn't believe her.

 

Why would she say she likes me? I've already made it clear it's okay if she doesn't love me back, that I'd still be her regular. Is she telling the truth?? And if not, what reason would she have to keep on lying to me??

 

Here's one thing she keeps telling me though. Thing is, I have a girlfriend right now. And my MPA has hinted that's the reason why our "relationship" isn't going anywhere. Sinabi ko na sa kanya na handa kong iwanan ang gf ko para sa kanya. Sa totoo lang, noon ko nang gustong iwanan ang gf ko... Is it possible then, that she DOES like me, and she just feels guilty because in her mind, she's the reason I'm breaking up with my gf?

 

I'm in a complete rut right now. My head tells me she's lying. But I can't help but HOPE that I'm wrong. It's the hope that's killing me. It's the hope that won't allow me to let her go. Ang sakit lang talaga.

Classic and textbook technique of an MPA...(All about money, lack of time, work related, etc.)

Get rid of her!!!

Use your head and not your heart.

You're only leaning towards a false HOPE!!!

I assure you and the rest of the GMs here too believes that you're only making a fool of your self.

Get out of the relationship soon while you still can...

Peace...

Sometimes it feels as though I've moved on but then I remember the good times we spent together. I realize then that I haven't moved on and I still miss her. I am tempted to meet up with her even for a short while but I know I will just fall for her and get hurt again

What your doing now...I did countless times before.

The straw that broke the camels back was when I saw what I thought before were her excuses, I realized were her flaws pala.

The feeling is still here but now I'm using my head instead of my heart.

Hope you find your peace soon bro...

I texted her last night tinanong ko kung papasok siya sabi niya hindi daw.Ang sabi ko sayang pupunta pa naman sana ako,sabi niya next week ka nalang pumunta. Then i ask her bakit wala siya nung last na punta ko,sabi niya kasi she's sick daw. So i ask her if she's ok na b? Ayun hindi na nag-reply. Nagtataka ako kung bakit laging ganun kapag nagtatanong ako or nangangamusta sa lagay niya hindi siya laging nagrereply. Pero kapag work related rep siya kagad. Di ba niya naiisip na concerned lang ako sa kanya and i care about her? Still i want to see her pa rin,makita ko lang siya at makasama ng kahit 1 hour lang im happy na. Kahit fake lang yung mga yakap at touch sa akin ok na rin yun. At least naranasan ko yun kahit kunwari lang. Ang tanong hanggang kelan akong ganito?

Wish ko lang sana when i wake up tomorrow wala na itong feelings ko,sana makalimutan ko na siya. But deep inside,i know that i don't want to.

Bro, if you see and feel a genuine concern and affection from her, even if its just a small percentage, go for it!

But base on what your telling us is true, better teach your heart to totally forget about her. It aint worth it!!!

It's better to train your feeling to a person who really deserves it.

Godluck bro...

 

in my case, i'm not in love with my MPA anymore,

though i consider her a friend. still, i can't get myself to

advertise her like that.

 

Though your love is not present anymore, the respect is still there right?!

Same with you, I can't get myself to advertise a PSP friend who I go out with occasionally without money involve!

She does'nt ask for payment, I volunteer...

 

As for my ex-MPA gf/ex-gf/gf/ex-gf, well that's another story...

 

maybe, deep in my heart, i'm also wishing she would get out

of the business.

 

Ooohh right on the money bro!!!

what are the chances of a relationship with a 'false' start ending up so well?.... Ready to take that chance?...

I did, and I still do.

But to tell you frankly bro, still remember your advice before.

Might as well forget about her.

Though we had/have good times, the cons outweighs the pros totalmente!!!

Falling in love to those wonderful girls is like playing baccarat in a casino – the odds of winning are very slim and most of the time you will lose! We cannot blame those gals who took us for a ride because we allowed ourselves to be dragged intoa fantasy of boy meets girl and they lived happily ever after, a fallacy maybe.

 

Weare fully aware why they are into that kind of business, where they have to block their emotions, fake their reactions, submit to our satisfaction and pleasures, makes us the center of their world for about 1 ½ hour (heheheh…if you are that lucky) ,and of course the brutal truth is those interactions are scripted (Ouch!)… But for most of us the authenticity of illusion is sometimes enough (ouch again!)

 

In their eyes we are predators and they are our prey and they knew that they'll be ok as long as they submit themselves to our demands. The scenario is drastically overturned once our emotion eventually over powered us; the predatornow becomes the prey and its payback time!

 

Then why still go to those places? For me, I will say that it came with no strings attached and just pure pleasure, with not much talk and no pretense of phony love and courting and the likes.

 

stick to the plan...

You may be right bro...

But, think of it this way, if you've been with these types of girls a hundred times before spread over years...I did, and I still do,

you can distinguished who the pretenders are and who has the genuine affection!!!

As i've said before, 'if you know how to play your cards right', you might get a little more of what you've bargained for!!!

Peace...

Any notable differences between the three? Just curious.

StoicVampire is correct, sextra is automatic for PSPs/MPAs, and most GROs too...

...but I assure you GMs, in the long run there won't be any difference.

If you know how to play your cards right!!!

I Don't Wan't to Live Without You -Foreigner

I Will be Here -Steven Curtis Chapman

Just a question. How does one end up falling in love with an MPA? With GROs, I can understand. For the same amount of money, you can spend a lot more time with a GRO than you would an MPA which allows for more time for something to "develop". The other thing is that GRO schedules are more predictable than MPAs. If I go to the club at a certain hour, I was 90% certain my regular GRO was available. With MPAs, it was a crapshoot, even if I knew what time her shift was.

 

I'm asking because after I fell for a GRO, I started thinking to myself I should have just stuck with MPAs. From what I've been reading on these boards, it seems my line of thinking is flawed.

 

BTW, I never mentioned PSPs because I never availed of their services, not to mention I haven't seen much on this thread about someone falling for a PSP.

I can answer your question bro.

Months ago i've had a regular MPA for quite some time and the more frequent I visit, the more intimate the relationship became.

Until we agreed to see each other outside.

The affair eventually evolved.

The thing is, if you have the hots for her (PSP/GRO/MPA) and she feel the same way too,

it would be better to pursue the tryst 'outside' than spend tons of cash 'inside'.

That way, you would know that the affection is genuine and reciprocal.

Fyi, I also used to have relationships before with GROs and PSPs.

Goodluck!!!

maybe its the pampering that we get from the MPA that makes us fall in love with them.

 

its within the nature of man to seek acceptance, to seek love, to seek nurture.

and the MPA is the quickest solution, since its the service that they give.

 

nagkatagpo ang naghahanap at nagbibigay. so the possibility of falling in love is great.

 

sharap magmahal ng MPA!

Yep you're right on the target bro.

Let me add this observation too. These girls are professionals, they need to set a vow not to fall in love with a client.

They have to have a heart of stone so as not to complicate matters.

But the fact that we are able to break their unwritten vow makes them weak and helpless.

And, this is where the intricacies of these type of relationships starts.

That's why, maybe, most if not all affairs end up in quandary!!!

I been in and out of relationships with MPAs, GROs and models since the 1980s. I experienced being duped, dumped, taken for a ride...I never learn my lesson..now I'm in a relationship with a chinese mestiza model again, she quit and continued her studies, changed her cel# (presumably to cut all ties with other guests and be exclusively mine)...here I go again....

Bro we have the same situation. Used to have flings during the late 90s and onwards but I always have control over the relationships until recently when the invisible wall I created between me (client)-girl (exMPA) crumbled!

We've broken- up and patch-up many times and now we're seeing each other again.

But there's one hitch...I'm seing another one, a GRO to be more exact!

Just have a simple question for you though, what is it with these ladies that we just can't get enough of them???

Oh well, probably guys like us never really learn from the same mistakes! Right???

By the way, good luck on latest liaison...!!!

Both!!!

Sex is a barometer of love,

while love is the ultimate expression of sex!!!

Pretty/charming face,

nice feet,

fine hands...

...then everything else follows!!!