paradox1113

a girl i can love and who feels the same way to me too. ngayon kasi for me is more one sided. ako lang ang nag love and not getting something in return, that's why i am becoming more of a cynic lately.

yes i've tried moving on pero as of now my heart is still vacant. masyado kasi ako pihikan lalo at natikman ko na niloloko lang ako. hirap din kayang maghanap ng maganda at matinong babae. kahit nga walang hitsura may nagloloka pa rin.

yes i've tried moving on pero as of now my heart is still vacant. masyado kasi ako pihikan lalo at natikman ko na niloloko lang ako. hirap din kayang maghanap ng maganda at matinong babae. kahit nga walang hitsura may nagloloka pa rin.

yes i've tried moving on pero as of now my heart is still vacant. masyado kasi ako pihikan lalo at natikman ko na niloloko lang ako. hirap din kayang maghanap ng maganda at matinong babae. kahit nga walang hitsura may nagloloka pa rin.

kung gf pa siguro maybe but kung wife ko na parang ang hirap. being betrayed by a loved one is one of the most painful experiences of all time. dami nakapatay at nagpakamatay jan. ako it takes all my courage to overcome that.

stop hating yourself. you are more worthy than what you give yourself credit for. you are in this world for a reason.

stop hating yourself. you are more worthy than what you give yourself credit for. you are in this world for a reason.

when asked about my age by younger pepz or prospective friends. it seems people nowadays are so age conscious. this is not exclusive to females also, this also applies to males. some of them make fun of you out of it, as if they will not age too in the future. i just kept my cool. mahirap pumatol sa bata or batang isip. hehhee. in my teens and late twenties years i never discriminated friends or people according to their age. as long as they are good and loyal friends they are always welcome.

 

hmmm... im not quite sure enough 2 speak majority of women side in this particular topic...as far as im concerned,i do s3x none other than because i have feelings to that guy...i cant make love to a guy na ni hindi ko man lang makayang halikan...obviously not for money ren...kung bsta "L" rin lang...no...id rather do it alone with myself rather than doing s3x to someone i dont love...so for me...thats a fact!

way to go girl. its nice to know na meron pa palang girl na parehas mo. in my life i've known girls who are as unfaithful as boys.

on my part naman, ang sarap kaya that when i do it it will be without inhibitions like she's clean (ikaw lang kasi partner niya) and the spiritual aspect of it. iba talaga feeling if you do it with someone you love than to someone who is paid or no feelings involved. pag love kasi parang you become one during the act.

sadly there are women who are as aggresive as boys when it comes to sex. some do it thinking that it would make them feel desirable and popular among the boys. what most of them failed to realize is that they achieved the opposite.

Love perseveres through all the thicks and thins. Sex lasts only an hour or three.

I agree Love is harder to find, but if I find it again I will take good care of it and would never exchange it for just Sex.

it hurts a lot of course but di ko ipagpilitan ang sarili ko sa taong wala ng gusto sa akin no matter how much she meant to me.

IT Project Manager

 

80k a month, standard 13 months plus project bonuses

Full medical and dental (woohoo!) but no car plan (sucks).

 

Perks: Lots of training, you get to travel a lot, and meet lots of smart, interesting people. 

Cons: Long work hours and tough projects. The smart, interesting people you meet are mostly guys working for the competition, trying to put you out of a job.

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let me guess pare. your company is one of the biggest IT company here in the country (if not the biggest and it starts with letter 'A', right?

good to hear it. because i am an incoming employee there myself.

oo nga. hirap pag asawa mo na. you cant divorce her anytime and if you do malaki pa ga gastusin mo. how i cope with it? subsub ko na lang sarili ko sa trabaho, gym and my daughter. she's my little angel and my source of sanity amidst all insanity that is happening around me.

 

A number of my hubby's friends have all said their wives have refused to sleep/make-love  with them. These men are on their 2 weeks vacation from war in Iraq and they haven't seen their wives for months. The wives are arguing and fighting with them and demanding them for divorce. I think it's the cruelest thing to do to man...nasa giyera ka na nga tapos instead na magpahinga ka for 2 weeks aawayin at mag-aask pa nang divorce.

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yes, it happened to me too. exactly what you describe although i dont work abroad. im working in manila although i am really cebu based. my wife stays in cebu and when i get home for a vacation she wont have sex with me. i dont want to force the issue because i hate having sex with someone who dont want it. it's really painful because she changed a lot. i've been working hard and away from them and that's how she repays me for it. the only thing that keep us together now is our lovely 8 year old daughter. she is the only one who shows how much she misses me and how much she loves me. a lot of times, we men are the featured as the "bad guy". but it's not true in our case.