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Tanungin kita sir; kaya mo ba ipakilala siya sa parwnts mo na wala takot malaman work niya? Kaya mo ba matanggap na may makilala siya ng ka officemate, barkada, pinsan o tito na past guest niya?

Nangyari yan sakin dati; retired na ako ng ilang bwan so sinama ako ng ex ko sa kasal ng officemate niya; bigla ako nagyaya palabas ng s8mbahan ng nakita ko yubg groom; past guest ko; nalala ko kwe to niya na nag kakagulo sila ng fiance niya kaya niya ako nahire; tapos sa reception may namukhaan ako isa pang past gurst ko na tito nung bride; small world diba

yes kaya ko. I will always be here to protect her.

Your right sir...

Pero madaming mali at hindi totoo sa mga sinabi mo.. Kahit anong offer mo ng heart and soul mo kung at the end of the day sinaktan mo. Lang din sya wala ding kwenta... Had you loved a therapist? Had u offered ur heart to her? Had u offered ur soul? Did she demand on you? Did she ask u an exchange? Sobra magmahal ang mga therapist minsan sa paraang mali at wala ng natitira sa kanila....

Maybe you respect her pero nirespeto mo ba ang feelings nya nung panahong iniwan mo sya at ni let go mo sya.. I know a girl that fall for u sir but u didn't give her a chance na ipakita sayo na kaya nya lahat tiisin...

sobrang sarap magmahal ng isang therapist kasi dyan talaga matetest ang character mo bilang isang lalaki. Dapat accepted mo sya for what she is. Lahat-lahat ng tungkol sa kanya far beyond those four corners of espa. After acceptance dito naman papasok ang respect. Hindi naman kasi sila papasok sa ganitong work ng wala lang so you should know how to respect this. I learned this the hard way support them not with financial but with emotional support and spiritual support. Be sincere and true to yourself! Ako i just pray and continue my sweetness and suprises maski na kung ano ano ng ngyari before at alam nya yan malay ko ba in the end makita nya dn effort ko. Basta alam ko totoo lang ako sa sarili ko na i love this girl that much

Sir ito lang po ang masasabi ko...

Yang babaeng sinasabi mo i know her she's very honest lalo na sa nararamdaman nya kung talagang iniiwasan ka nya or busy lang sya hayaan mo muna sya baka may problema lang din syang pinagdadaanan

Marunong syang magmahal at hindi nya kailangan ng kahit na anong offer pa.. She can love without any exchange. Ipakita mo sa kanya how sincere u are. At hayaan mo na sya mismo ang makakita ng mga effort mo later on mapapansin nya din yan focus muna kayo sa mga career nyo.

This is true, focus muna and let the music play on its own. Sometimes the lyrics tells your story like the song: Anything For You and I know I'll never love this way again. You know this di ba? love unconditionally and if we are destined together in the end it will happen whatever instances it may face as the journey goes by. Alam mo yan di ba?

Guys help me. I'm suffering now in a depression. I keep on loving a therapist which is one of the top thera here in the MTC. She's pretty, malambing, jolly, and an intelligent woman,may asawa akong tao I know that pero nasa stage na kami ng annulment gusto ko si thera I see my future to her hindi ko na nagagawa ng maayos ang trabaho ko because of her. I always texting her pero di na sya gaya ng dati na madalas mag reply siguro lagi syang busy I understand pero parang iniiiwasan nya ko. Hindi ko naman siya ma book kasi lagi syang fully booked. Gusto ko siyang bigyan ng magandang buhay at alisin sa spa industry pero I feel ayaw niya kasi sanay syang maging independent. Minsan nga tinatanong ko sya bakit sya ng thethera eh mayaman naman family niya. Papano ko ba sya susuyuin at liligawan kung feeling ko na offend ko sya sa mga offer ko nung una. Mahal na mahal ko sya at handa na ko magpaka lalaki at bumuo ng pamilya kasama sya pero paano.

focus on your career. Let her do on her own. May sarili yan pagiisip. Let her spread her wings and explore the world. Ibaling mo muna attention mo sa iba para di mo maisip.

Yan ang attitude pra maging solid na GM.

Huwag ka din mag develope ng pa-fall attitude boss. Hehehe. Hindi ka na pagkakatiwalaan ng mga tsikas natin kpg iniwan mo sila sa ere.

Sabi nga ni boss @Sharpshooter25, Trabaho lang and Let The Good Times Roll!!

 

alam na alam mo boss ah. Bakit ikaw ngiwan ka na ba sa ere? Hehe. Kasi ako hndi pa. Sa kwarto ko lang iniiwan. Hehehehe

Unawa lang din siguro ang puhunan boss. Hehehe.

Late na kasi ako nkpg ESpa eh, beerhouse/KTV/MP ang talagang iniikutan ko.

Iyong pagiging GM at pag-Gamay sa YMMV, eh natutunan ko dun at na-apply ko din sa pag ESpa ko. Hehehe

Sa pananaw ko, ung mga Thera sa ESpa ay pareho lang din ang hangarin sa buhay tulad ng mga GRO/Angels/MPA natin.

exactly your point boss. Unawa sa tagalog, understanding in english. Kung may sobra bigyan, kung wala ipagdasal. We can help in our own ways naman.

Saludo ako sa inyo mga boss. Pano ba maging tulad nyo? Hehehe

Vacation. Be with friends and love ones

I have Back read some stories here and I think pwede rin magwork out ang relationship between GM and Thera.

Example siguro nun yung Myrtle at yung bf niya na nagpaalis sa kanya sa industry na to.

I think yun din ang way if you really want a serious relationship with a thera. Tulungan mo siyang maalis sa work na to and find her a suitable job that pays well too kahit di kasing laki ng kita niya dito sa Industry na to.

At siguro naman kung mahal ka rin ni thera ay susundin niya ang gusto mo na umalis siya sa work na to.

may kwento din dito na na napangasawa nya yung thera maski alam nya ganyan ang nature of work nya. Basta walang kwentuhan about sa work. Thats how they trust one another. Nagwork naman. Until now sila pa dn.

Kapatid 593 pages na ang thread na ito.

Wala akong masasabi sa kahit kanino man para makapagpabago ng puso o isipan ng gm na desidido sa kanyang layunin.

But you know that I will always hope for the best for you and your loved one.

salamat sir isa kang mabuting tagapayo dito.

Still, be realistic. Sometimes, you just have to control your emotions, at the end of the day, ikaw rin ang magsusuffer kasi yung mga theras, namanhid na sila sa mga GMs and past relationship na nagpaikot sa kanila. Unless you break the wall between you and the thera, like know her inside out, you dont have a chance of really winning her true trust. GMs are complete stranger to them and trust is something you don't give easily, especially if someone betrayed you.

Just a thought... Mind over heart.

Another true statement sir. I can relate you to this statement. Kaya nga if you win her trust jackpot ka na. Yung iba nga dyan may pinagdadaanan na trust issues kaya you have to understand and accept her for what she is. Just be true to yourself lang. And pray lang. Insecurities wala yan sa totoong tao. Hindi mo kelangan maging insecure kung because may iba iba tayo na katangian. At hindi naman kelangan makipagpaligsahan sa iba kasi hndi naman eto contest. Just true to yourself lang and pray. Love over lust...

You are right sir! Magulo,mahirap, masakit,nakakabaliw lahat na siguro ng negative mararamdaman mo. Pero if you really love the girl you will learn how to trust, respect, and wait. Dito naman papasok yung mga positivities mo. Basta sa tingin ko ipakita mo lang na totoo ka sa isang thera na mahal mo in the end you'll be rewarded. Dadaigin mo lahat ng nakapaligid na GMs na mayayaman.

Karma karma lang yan. Antayin mo babalik yan.

I love you goodbye.

User, player

No way. Daming babae sa pinas.

I bought my ex ng new mags nung birthday nya pero p#tang$na mahuhuli ko lang sya kasama yung fubu nya sa condo niya. Punyeta dibaaaa

sa susunod ako na lang ibili mo ng mags maski shoes lang masaya na ako

Love syempre.

Wish ko na sana kausapin nya na ulit ako. Totoo at tapat naman ako sa kanya.

The therapist i love most.

Which brings me to a question... will it be love if you remove all the intimacy from it?

 

Nakakabulag din kasi yung gfe eh, she hugs you, cuddles you, kisses your lips, you kissing her shoulder, she caressing your member while she licks your neck or sucks your nipples. Oftentimes, we mistake that affection as love.

 

Yung bakit mo siya mahal? Kasi malambing siya eh, panay ang kiss niya sa akin eh.

 

Now take that away, will you still have the same feelings. If yes, good, it maybe is real love. If not, you may just be confused

may katotohanan eto sir. Minsan madadala ka sa gfe nya. Pero yung answer kung love ba talaga o affection e itatanong na lang natin sa sarili natin un

At sarili dn natin makakasagot. Minsan aaminin mo na mahal ko c thera sa kanya pero tingin nya hndi kasi dahil sa work nya kaya minsan ngyayari na pinaglalaruan lang ng thera ang gm. Yan ang masakit ksi may mga gm na totoo dn sa nararamdaman nya ayaw lang paniwalaan ng nagbubulagbulagan na thera.

Well if your are after sex or anything else related to pleasure i guess its not love. Thats what you called libog.

I'd still do anything for you

I'll play your game

You hurt me through and through

But you can have your way

 

I can pretend each time I see you

That I don't care and I don't need you

And though you'll never see me cryin'

You know inside I feel like dying

 

And I'd do anything for you

In spite of it all

I've learned so much from you

You made me strong

 

I hope you find someone to please you

Someone who'll care and never leave you

But if that someone ever hurts you

You just might need a friend to turn to

 

I love u still

if he doesn't offer anything ma'am continue to work. but tell him exactly your situation and plans.(ipon, bagong buhay magkasama) things will go crazy on the later part. the longer the situation or set up gets, the bigger the collateral damage will be. pride, ego, love and respect are at most at stake in here.

 

if the guy really wants to be in a serious relationship with you. he will go a long way on helping you out of the industry. and by of course a little help coming from you too.di nmn pwede iasa lahat kay guy. secondly after both of you managed to escape the industry. past will haunt the both of you back. be prepared. will the relationship be strong to withstand this blow? so if not. the ending will just be another cynical love story. the knight in shining armor and the damsel in distress. the guy most probably will just be recreating his own sense of self preservation. regardless of the present and future ma'am the past will always be a part of your life. we may tend to ignore but we can never forget. as i have mentioned above his pride ego and respect is at constant attack while you are still working in the industry. just my two cents. another love survivor here

very well said sir. I like what you have said in here "we may tend to ignore but we can never forget". Past is part of the present, we are not here when there is no past. But most of us lives in past issues. Acceptance here is the key for us to have successful relationship for this kind of industry. If he truly loves you he will accept and respect you for who you are. Set aside pride and ego.

You don't need someone to complete you, you only need someone to accept you completely.

nadale mo mam! Accept you completely yan ang pinakatamang word.